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    Default Easier to dance for your bf or a stranger?

    Okay, so I've been practicing stuff all week. I can do my moves fine and I can manage the heels fine, but last night I was giving my boyfriend a lapdance and I was so nervouse and shaking that I could barely do anything without looking awkward. I even had him put a shirt over his head at first! lol. But I was just wondering if it is harder for you guys to do it to someone you know than to some random guy (or girl) at a club? I just don't want to go to give someone a lapdance and totally bomb.

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    Default Re: Easier to dance for your bf or a stranger?

    Definately a stranger. Once you've done it once you'll be be fine. TBH I wouldn't give my bf a dance because I wouldn't want him thinking about 'what the other guys are getting/seeing' while I was out at work.

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    Default Re: Easier to dance for your bf or a stranger?

    I only dance for my husband when Im practicing something new. Otherwise no way! You won't care when you're dancing for strangers. And once you've been dancing long enough you really won't care one way or the other about any of it.

    Just remember to move slowly and you'll be fine.
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    Default Re: Easier to dance for your bf or a stranger?

    Thank you guys, I feel so much better about it!

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    Default Re: Easier to dance for your bf or a stranger?

    I totally agree that it's easier to do in front of strangers than it is in front of someone you know. When it's someone you know, you have things/emotions invested in that person so it puts the pressure on. You care more about what they think of you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Faye449 View Post
    Definately a stranger. Once you've done it once you'll be be fine. TBH I wouldn't give my bf a dance because I wouldn't want him thinking about 'what the other guys are getting/seeing' while I was out at work.
    This is exactly how I feel.

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    Default Re: Easier to dance for your bf or a stranger?

    It's WAYYY easier to dance for strangers.

    I would never want my boyfriend thinking "YOU DO THAT FOR STRANGERS?"
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    Default Re: Easier to dance for your bf or a stranger?

    Lapdances, boyfriend.

    Stage dances, stranger cauSE I don't care what they think. I don't like dancing on stage for guys I just did a lap dance for, I get super nervous.

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    Default Re: Easier to dance for your bf or a stranger?

    Quote Originally Posted by Faye449 View Post
    Definately a stranger. Once you've done it once you'll be be fine. TBH I wouldn't give my bf a dance because I wouldn't want him thinking about 'what the other guys are getting/seeing' while I was out at work.
    Definitely. I haven't given my bf a lapdance yet but while we were fooling around the other night he mentioned that one night i should give him one but i dont want it to end up getting steamy and for him to suddenly think that i get as steamy with other guys! But at the same time I wanna give him a really good dance, cuz i want him to be impressed and enjoy himself.

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    Default Re: Easier to dance for your bf or a stranger?

    Why would i dance for my boyfriend? Thats not gonna make me money!
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    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: Easier to dance for your bf or a stranger?

    Definitely easier with a stranger. You actually care what your BF thinks...you don't care what some ugly idiot thinks haha. I once did a lap dance for my best friends boyfriend in front on my friend. Now that was hilarious! I was totally trashed at the time - it was my birthday. Thank god my friend is Bi-sexual so she didn't get jealous. She loved it too haha.

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    Default Re: Easier to dance for your bf or a stranger?

    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    Why would i dance for my boyfriend? Thats not gonna make me money!
    Hahahaha! This too!
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    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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