A few questions from a new dancer.
I have worked two days so far. The first day I made $86 after tip-out and the second I made $118. Is this good for a beginner or no? If I doesn't get better, I would rather work as a secretary and make the same amount for less stressful work. The problem is...I can't get hired as a secretary...I am overqualified due to my college degree, but too inexperienced to work in my degree field.
Also, how much contact is expected during a lap dance. My club allows grinding in VIP and I am comfortable with that. The guys isn't supposed to touch us, but we can touch him. I am not however, comfortable with kissing the guy on the cheek or nibbling on his ear, a couple of techniques I have heard mentioned on this board. Are those behaviors expected during a lapdance? Also, what do you ladies typically do during a dance? So far I usually straddle the guy, grind a little, rub my breasts against him and turn around so he gets the view from all angles. I touch his shoulders, back, chest, and I will rest my hands on his legs while facing away from him. I am just wondering if I need to do crazier, more slutty moves or if simply moving seductively and grinding a little is sufficient. Because I am comfortable with the kind of dances I have been doing, but I haven't gotten any repeat dances. I know the lack of repeats isn't because I'm not pretty enough, I get comments on how beautiful I am all the time. But not having guys want to buy dances for me makes me feel like I must really suck at dancing.
Also, how do you tell a guy he can't touch you and still sell him dances. the guys are not supposed to touch us. But alot of customers kept feeling my legs while we were talking the other night. I don't want to get in trouble, but I had to cover my house fees and didn't want to lose out on the few dances that I was getting.
Thanks for reading. I am hoping things get better. I feel so discouraged right now, like I don't even know if I should go in to work for my next shift. I have experienced so much rejection in the last few days...
Thanks again,
-Kiti-



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