So I approached a couple of customers at work the other night, in a bikini top & thong, holding my skirt cuz I had just come down from a VIP room, asking them for a dance before the night was over (last call was in 10 minutes).
One of them (pretty intoxicated) asks "whatcha been drinking tonight?" I tell him nothing, just water, and he keeps insisting that I mustve been drinking something (??). So he offers me a drink and I politely decline (dancers in NC aren't allowed to drink on shift at all, plus it was 1:50 AM and the bartender was trying to close up shop), he keeps insisting that I get some booze and I take his hand and tell him that if I drink so late at night I'll get sleepy and I don't wanna go to sleep just yet *smile*
So he says "you're one of them proper chicks aint you?" And I'm just like "um, hah what do you mean 'proper'"?
So he says "throw that shit out." "Umm throw what out?" I reply. "Throw out that proper white-girl bullshit. Just, throw that shit out." I turn to walk away and he pulls me onto his lap. Not sure what to do I start slipping my skirt back on and he's just like "nah nah nah" and pulls my fucking skirt down, and finally I get back up and walk away, while he whines to his friend about what a bitch I am or whatever.
First of all, "proper white girl bullshit"? I'm very clearly not white, and nothing I say makes me white. Does every woman of color have to act super fucking ghetto to be "real" or "authentic"? Don't get me wrong I grew up in poor urban neighborhoods and lived in some pretty rough ghettos in my life. But that doesn't mean I have to drink booze at every possible opportunity or let men pull my clothes off without my consent or give customers a minute of my time without them paying me. I don't care if other girls give off the whole ghetto vibe, it's just not me. And I can't connect with the kinds of guys who expect or want it. Secondly, who grabs a girl and forces them on their lap or takes a stranger's clothes off that they're clearly trying to put on? Especially when it's obvious they don't like you or are trying to get away from you after you've insulted them.
Sorry, just needed to vent...



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. Hopefully they wont return to the club. If they do, avoid them and warn the other girls.





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