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    Recently, girls have been asking each other "So how many dances do you got?!?!"

    Personally, I'm not entirely comfortable disclosing this information as I think it could lead to possible jealousy or cattiness.
    But, since the question sort of threw me off guard the first time, I told the girl the truth. I figured I would just lie about it from there on out.

    Then I discovered that the bouncer lets other dancers look at the dance log!! I was on the other side of the room talking to a custy and I saw him flip the book open and show a dancer!

    That same night, the bouncer told me that I was "way ahead" of the other dancers in terms of dances sold. I was just like, whatever, and shrugged it off. Idk why he had to tell me that.

    So.....does this happen often, and do I have the right to be pissed off about it?? I don't want to lie because apparently the other dancers can find out themselves.

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    Default Re: How many dances do you have?!?!

    if anyone asks i usually just say "oh i dont know" and try to change the subject or walk off from the conversation. if they're persistent or im in a bitchy mood i've actually said "i dont know but if you care that much you can go look on the paper and find out".
    i do think its no one's business how many someone else has so you do have a right to be irritated, in my opinion

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    I control (lap dance security kinda.) as well as dance so i know which girls on average do the best. and leave it at that. i guess we all have different niches so it doesn't matter. but sometimes if you're doing shit it makes you feel better to know whether you're just not popular or everyone's doing badly.
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    Default Re: How many dances do you have?!?!

    I'll ask sometimes if a girl is obviously doing really well and I'm impressed by her hustling... or if I'm doing really shitty and wondering if it's me or a bad night. But I wouldn't ask someone who doesn't disclose how many dances they've done on their own fairly often.

    A lot of girls talk about it at my club, if I don't want to anwser I just say I don't know.

    Girls can look at the dance board at my club too. I don't really care though, it's pretty obvious who's doing well or who's doing bad because it's a super small club.

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    i've been known to buddy up to the bouncers and ask to take a look at the board, the 1st reason is to make sure I'm not being overmarked, but i'm just also just competitive and like to see how I'm doing compared to everyone else
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    Default Re: How many dances do you have?!?!

    At my club, the private dance log and the rotation list are the same thing, and it's kept in the DJ booth where anyone can see. It doesn't really bother me if people can see how many dances I've sold, cause quite frankly, that has nothing to do with how much money I've made. Sometimes the guys will all tip average or better, and some nights most of them won't have tipped at all. If the log showed how much they'd tipped, I might have an issue.

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    I think it should be kept private. I had a chick stalking my every move for weeks because she was fixated on how many dances I was doing. All you need is for one of these twts to set you up for a robbery.
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    Default Re: How many dances do you have?!?!

    Are the girls who do better are they prettier or sexier or something?

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    Quote Originally Posted by femmefatale88 View Post
    Are the girls who do better are they prettier or sexier or something?
    I think they are generally the ones who make an effort to talk to a lot of guys and ask for dances instead of just sitting and waiting for guys to ask them. Hard work and confidence is what sells dances for me. I have had guys approach me for dances, but most of my sales come from me taking the initiative and approaching them. What do y'all think?

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    Default Re: How many dances do you have?!?!

    I would also be worried about people using this info to determine how many dollars you're carrying. Not a good idea to discuss, I think.

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    This thread reminds me of a day last week when one of the other girls was requesting that the Manager post all of our dances on a bulletin board or something so everyone could see how everyone was doing. NO WAY! I feel that the information is private. Checking your own info is one thing to make sure you're getting counted properly, but I don't think it's anyone else's business to see how you're doing. My club is kind of small too, and I work day shift so there's not a ton of girls to begin with. We can tell who is doing well, but we also realize some of the girls have steady regulars so some days they'll do better than others.
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    I would NEVER tell. And I believe my club keeps it private anyway. But what kind of losers really care how another girl is doing? Worry about yourselves, focus on improving your own tactics for fucks sake.

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    Default Re: How many dances do you have?!?!

    This has happened in all the clubs I work in dancers ask and in normal clubs peek at the end of the night. At catty clubs girls check during shift for reasons of spite.

    At my current club girls know they can't complaint to leave early cuz it sucks if everyone is selling stuff. At the same club girls that are feeling lazy know that if other girls are selling double they need to step it up:we all make $ on good nights. Its a good club. We all suck on bad nights. We all hustle they're are lucky dancers and regs. But most gitls check on the "consensus" to pace their hustle.

    I ask when I arrive and then hurry to the floor or take my time.

    I hate catty competitve clubs where the bouncers show the logs and make a big deal out of $ makers. I had girls following me around a with my custies cuz of this.

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    I don't ask, and no one has ever asked me. For the most part, we seem to keep our dances/money to ourselves other than having a good night or just an okay night or whatever. And honestly, we're paid for our dances as we do them so I don't ever keep track of how many I do. The bouncer has a sheet and writes down how many we do, but it's difficult to tell who's doing the best because it's a list of names- your name gets written on a new line each time you're in there.

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    Our dance sheet is on the bar table so ANYONE could walk up to it and see how many dances each girl has. I don't mind if people know how many dances I have. No one really asks me either because I honestly don't know how many dances I sell per night because it's not congruent with what my income is. Dances don't really mean much at my club considering most girls charge over the posted dance price and it doesn't factor in tips. It's just usually a good estimate of how the girls are averaging a night.

    I check the dance sheet sometimes to see the general sale of dances for that time. If it's low, I don't feel so guilty about doing bad. Plus, I'm a very competitive person so I strive to sell the most dances at the club. It keeps me going seeing that other girls are getting more.

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    They don't mark down our dances at my club. But my best work friend and I have casually asked eachother when it's slow, such as:

    "Man, it's quiet in here. Done any dances yet."
    "Two."
    "Oh, I got one. I bet it will pick up later."
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    I usually say "Im not sure, Ive done ok, but I had two regulars" Whenever i get long dances or good tips (that are spotted by the other girls) hes ALWAYS a regular, regardless of if Ive ever seen them or not.
    Last Sat Id had 8 dances to a maximum of 5 each for the 3 other girls (out of 22 dances by x oclock Id done most) and I wont talk money, unless its "gee its quiet" or"well done, he really liked you" when a girls had good custies.

    However we can check how many have been done, which I dont like.
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    Default Re: How many dances do you have?!?!

    Usually the only time I hear something like this is when a dancer in the dressing room says "I've been here two hours and only have 1 dance."

    Me I don't count dances since I'm not there to tally the numbers just the dollar figures. There are only a few girls that I discuss the dollars with and it is more encouragement for each other.

    Some girls ask me how many dances I have my reply is "you don't want to know."

    Letting other dancers look at the dance sheet is no different than letting you look at their bank account balance. That's out of line.




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    What about the question "How did you do tonight?" I always feel like they are trying to compare and they have no good intentions by this question. I always say good but could have been better.

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    Default Re: How many dances do you have?!?!

    the dance sheet is open for everyone to look at at the club i work at currently, i look at it just to see which girls are getting dances, when i get on the floor. that way i can see if the girls who do extras are getting most of the dances or if the actual dancers are getting dances, gives me an idea of the type of customers that have come in, also some girls will get lazy after they have made x amount of dollars so sometimes there is a lot of info you can get from seeing the dance sheet, and honesty once in a while if im feeling down, and i do look at the dance sheet and im noticably ahead of mots of the girls i will give myself a pat on the back, but i dont look at the dance sheet to compare myself to girls.
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