deleted for privacy concerns, thanks for all the input everyone!
well when you think about it thats actually exactly what we do, act like we are single, flirt, listen to their BS and act like we are WAY more into these dudes than we are. And he didn't actually see you OTC just talked about it, just acting out a bit of fantasy, and he was PAYING you. If he was really intrested in finding a mistress, he would have tried to pick up women at a regular bar(which if his personality is as great as it sounds like, wouldn't be too hard). He prob actually felt safe saying these things to you, b/c he knew on some level it wasn't ever really going to happen, ya know?
The couple of times a custie has found out that I'm married, their reaction is the same as yours, they are shocked, dissapointed, bitter, ect., and the only thing i can do is what he did, shrug and laugh it off. Lets just say if this guy was a woman and hot, he'd probably make one hell of a stripper haha.
Can't help it, I'm a born....[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
I understand that part- the question was why he would bring his wife to the same strip club. From what she said to me, she was clearly under the impression that he didn't even go to strip clubs without her.
idk, maybe seeing you dancing and hugging his wife turned him on, and now he can have fantasies about a threesome with you and her????
Can't help it, I'm a born....[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]


I try not to be a mediator in other people's relationships, even if they are shitty relationships. Only time I'd ever interfere is if it was a good friend of mine, and even then it would be difficult because people tend to "shoot the messenger", you know? Let her figure it out (and she will in time, I'm sure) and try not to let it get to you![]()



I'm sorry. That always stinks. I've had a bunch of custies expect that I was gonna keep their secrets for them. One guy came in once and asked me to get drugs for him and not show it to his wife! First of all, I'm not a mule, second, that's mad shady.
Best part is, I bet he'll come back for more without her and pretend it's all good. Don't do it. Keep your head high :-)
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