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    Skull The pissed-off wife . . .

    My friend just told me this story, and I was bewildered.

    Her customer (not quite SD, but close, direct deposit into her account, etc.), in a bizarre moment of honesty decided to tell his wife about my friend AND give his wife my friend's phone number! So now she gets angry calls and texts from the wife.

    Anyway, she has a plan to deal with it, so this isn't really a "what should she do" post, but more a "has anything like this happened to you?" post.
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    Default Re: The pissed-off wife . . .

    Woah. No. Never.

    Add one more to the list of reasons to not give out my phone number, though. O_O
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    Default Re: The pissed-off wife . . .

    What, like it's your friend's fault? This woman needs to be angry at her man, not this random chick. If it hadn't been her, it would have been some other girl. While it's understandable that she be angry at the girl, she has no right calling and texting her.. She needs to get her husband in check or move on.
    I am not trying to be mean, if I were the woman, I would probably be distraught as well. But just like cheating, I blame my significant other, not the other person. HE was the one she was in a relationship, not the third party.

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    Default Re: The pissed-off wife . . .

    I agree with Christyismyalias: The wife DEFINITELY needs to check her man, NOT the girl!

    It happened to me with a high spending regular who I gave the # for a disposable phone for him to call when he was in town. I never met him OTC and he never got my personal info, but I DID get a trip to Hong Kong & a nice amount of spending money of out of it because he felt so guilty about his wife calling, yelling and "traumatizing" me. Don't worry, lady. I'm not trying to "steal" your husband away from you. I just want the money. Anyways, I got rid of the phone & never contacted him again.

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    Default Re: The pissed-off wife . . .

    This always happens and I never understand- people always want to go after the person their SO cheated on them with/whatever else, rather than worrying about the SO. It makes absolutely no sense to me.

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    Default Re: The pissed-off wife . . .

    Your friends customer is an idiot.

    Even if I got busted by my SO for clubbing, I'd never throw a dancer under a bus like that.

    Idiot.

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    I have no idea what would possess this man to behave in this manner. Obviously, when God said come forth for brains, he came fifth.
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    Default Re: The pissed-off wife . . .

    It is also pathetic that it wasn't even a girl he met out in a regular bar. It was a girl he paid for attention. What a loser.
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    Default Re: The pissed-off wife . . .

    That is crap! I haven't had any harassing SOs but I was harassed by a regular that I "broke up" with. Eventually he wanted to pay for sex and so I told him not to come into the club to see me anymore unless he got that idea out of his head. He was annoying me for various reasons hence why I wanted him to get lost. He sent me harassing texts (10+ a day) for about a week. All of which I ignored and deleted, many without reading. He rang once from a blocked number and I stupidly answered and he tried to get me to go out with him... WTF? Ya I really want to go out with an idiot who treats me like sh*t. About 2 months later I still get an occasional "I miss you" text... all of which I ignore. Eventually they go away.

    If your friend doesn't speak to this lady or acknowledge the texts, eventually the wife will get bored and stop. Annoying for your friend but that's the risk of giving out the number. I still give mine but only to people who spend $600+ per visit and obviously accept the risk that they may abuse that trust.

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    Default Re: The pissed-off wife . . .

    Have had that happen, but it's a funny story. I used to give out a friend's number to all the dude's at work that wanted mine, because I was fighting with her and wanted to make her life hell. Well, we ended up becoming friends again and she said that yeah, she'd had a few dudes call her but the biggest annoyance was this girl that kept calling saying that her husband was a cheater and that I (meaning me not her but it was her number) was a homewrecker and the reason they were getting divorced yada yada yada. My friend (thank god) has a great sense of humor and wasn't too mad about it and even recorded the voicemails through speaker phone and sampled them on one of her music tracks but still--I've had that happen.

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    Default Re: The pissed-off wife . . .

    Obviously there are issues enough to go around with this situation. They are going through a divorce, and we think this was a mind game the guy was playing with his wife. But who really knows what goes on in people's heads?
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    Default Re: The pissed-off wife . . .

    It is a dangerous game any time you are making money from people when other people are involved whose livelihoods someone depend on the same $$$.

    There are all sorts of examples. Loan sharks, bookies, etc. Wives are no different. When dealing with a situation where they consider it "their money" that is on the line it doesn't matter than its going through someone else's hands for them to go looking for it from the hands of the person it landed in.

    I'm not saying it is right or appropriate, just that it happens a lot in situations like those mentioned above. Of course the more "honest" the debtor the more legitimate the second party in has to consider this third party receiving the cash, so the less room they have to come looking for a pound of flesh.

    Most wives wouldn't consider dancers to be legitimate third party receivers, so they don't particularly feel too many restrictions about letting them know how they feel about them for receiving what they consider theirs.

    Like I said, its a dangerous game.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Default Re: The pissed-off wife . . .

    Something like this happened when I was working as a domme. My personal slave's wife went snooping on his computer. She ended up with my phone number, address, and possibly my full name. It scared the dickens out of me, but luckily she never tried to get in contact with me. It's a good warning though, another good reason to think twice about when you give that info out.
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    Dizzy Re: The pissed-off wife . . .

    This guy has violated so many codes:

    The Man Code. - Never rat out your mistress

    The Husband Code. - Never have a mistress.

    The Customer Code. - Never mess with your ATF's money.

    Loan sharks, bookies, etc. Wives are no different.
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