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    Default Bagging the Monger

    This might be a very short thread, but . . .

    Have any of the non-extras dancers "converted" an extras-seeking customer? While I suppose it would be effectively impossible to know whether you truly converted him, but has anyone at least made a regular out of one?

    And the follow-up I think the other dancers would like to know, how?
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    Make him fall in love with you. He will still eventually want extras but you can usually stretch the relationship for at least a few month. I have a customer that used to sleep with his last stripper. (I know for a fact because she openly talks about it). I don't know if he gets extra's elsewhere but he still spends money on me because he likes me. I have another customer that openly tells me that he goes to "massage parlours" after our dances. LOL. I also once had a group of guys get a bunch of us for a dance and told us they were going to a brothel after but wanted us to warm them up since they weren't expecting the prostitutes to be quite as good looking. LOL.

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    Default I think the premiss is wrong from the outset

    I believe the question to be invalid. The reason I do is its presumption that the vast majority of customers who seek extras do ONLY that when entering clubs and I don't think that is the case.

    I think the majority of customers who seek extras do so when in the mood to do so and that isn't every single time they enter a strip-club. Which is to say that I think the majority of extra seeking customers are like me. So there will be times when they spend money on dancers and it has nothing to do with seeking extras.

    For me to be seeking extras I have to be:

    1) Horny.

    2) In a state of mind where that particular activity (extras) is the kind of thing that will sedate my desire. Which goes directly to my point because if I am in a state of lustful desire its not usually extras in strip-clubs I am looking for to put out the fire. I look at extras in strip-clubs like "slumming". Sometimes slumming is fun, but it shouldn't be the standard way you get your kicks.

    3) See precisely the dancer I want to have extras with.

    Motive and opportunity. They both have to be present.

    Much of time I don't enter a strip-club in a horny state. This because I am not a fellow who walks about in a randy state constantly and when I am in the mood for a nibble I have plenty of outlets that have nothing to do with strip-clubs to deal with that.

    I do not find, actually, strip-clubs to be the ideal place to deal with being sexually aroused. In fact, if I am going to be having sex with a dancer I much prefer it be someplace a lot more comfortable than a strip-club. Therefore it is my choice to have such liaisons outside of a club.

    Most of the time I am inside a club I'm just there for some sort of general amusement/entertainment. Even if that is just to observe as the world goes by. There is plenty to do in a strip-club that is vastly entertaining and the majority of it has nothing to do with extras.

    I don't think I am alone in this.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Default Re: I think the premiss is wrong from the outset

    Quote Originally Posted by Shy_Guy View Post
    Have any of the non-extras dancers "converted" an extras-seeking customer? While I suppose it would be effectively impossible to know whether you truly converted him, but has anyone at least made a regular out of one?
    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    I believe the question to be invalid. The reason I do is its presumption that the vast majority of customers who seek extras do ONLY that when entering clubs and I don't think that is the case.
    Bingo and thanks GR. I couldn't have said it better. SG, your insistence on trying to pigeon-hole everything in to neat little boxes gets annoying after a while. Keep on doing it though as I enjoy the entertainment that ensues...

    The reality of life in general and strip clubs in particular is that most of it is lived not in black and white, but in the gray area. I don't go to clubs looking for extras but I rarely turn down an offer. Most of my favs over the years including my current long time ATF are pretty much clean dancers who may get up close and personal but don't do HJ's, BJ's or FS. Does that mean that my favs stole me away from the dirty girls? No, it means that, as a grown up with a functioning brain I am able to share the company of both clean girls and dirty girls and enjoy each experience for what it its.

    The other night I took a friend who dances to check out a new club that she is thinking of trying out. It was fascinating to see what she looks for in a club. She's not an extras girl but she wants a club that allows enough contact so that she can mine the "naughty" niche between dirty girl and clean girl-where she makes her best money. She banks in an environment where the really dirty dancers are getting talked about behind their backs and the really clean girls can't make any money. It's all about the gray area...
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    Default Re: I think the premiss is wrong from the outset

    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    I believe the question to be invalid. The reason I do is its presumption that the vast majority of customers who seek extras do ONLY that when entering clubs and I don't think that is the case.
    I'm certainly willing to take intelligent correction. You're right, that was the assumption. I stand corrected.

    Very nice run down of the thought process, GR.
    -SG

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    SG, your insistence on trying to pigeon-hole everything in to neat little boxes gets annoying after a while. Keep on doing it though as I enjoy the entertainment that ensues...
    Thank you!!! Im soooooo happy I am not the only one!!!!
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    Default Re: Bagging the Monger

    Not constructive but I hate "mongers" with every single fiber in my being.

    To me, there is a difference between a "monger" and a man who patronises prostitutes.

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    ^^^I'm curious now. care to elaborate?
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    Default Re: Bagging the Monger

    Monger: Looking to get his rocks off as cheaply as possible, often bargaining girls down to extremely low prices and treating them like blow up dolls. Often picks up streetwalkers. See usasexguide.com

    Prostitute Patron: May pay for sex, but pays them fairly and doesnt treat them like shit or pick up streetwalkers.

    And you know, I am offended someone would say going to a strip club in "slumming" in a way, but in another way, I'm not.

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    I don't believe a monger can be converted. It's sort of like being born Catholic. Conversion ain't happening.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    Monger: Looking to get his rocks off as cheaply as possible, often bargaining girls down to extremely low prices and treating them like blow up dolls. Often picks up streetwalkers. See usasexguide.com

    Prostitute Patron: May pay for sex, but pays them fairly and doesnt treat them like shit or pick up streetwalkers.

    And you know, I am offended someone would say going to a strip club in "slumming" in a way, but in another way, I'm not.
    Bingo, that sums it up well. I was a monger a long long time ago when I used to pick up street walkers. Hanging out in strip clubs and meeting very beautiful women convinced me that if I was gonna pay for sex I wanted to upgrade to girls that looked as good and smelled as good as dancers, not street walkers. Now I am "a hobbyist" The difference? About $250 an hour...

    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    I don't believe a monger can be converted. It's sort of like being born Catholic. Conversion ain't happening.

    FBR
    I agree with this. The guy who goes to clubs strictly to blow his wad is not going to be won over by a pretty girl with a nice personality who won't give him a hand job. The guys who can go either way are not mongers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    Thank you!!! Im soooooo happy I am not the only one!!!!
    It's a boring Sunday but I made JayATee happy! My life is good!
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    It's a boring Sunday but I made JayATee happy! My life is good!
    That is indeed an accomplishment. JayATee is generally pretty grumpy

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    ^Really? Not to me...

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    That is indeed an accomplishment. JayATee is generally pretty grumpy

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    LoL. Come on FBR, call it like it really is. Bitchy.
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    Maybe I just find bitchiness appealing...

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    ^ Well that's what all women who speak their minds and have even a modicum of intelligence are right?
    Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.

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    I don't think you had to qualify after the 5th word.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    LoL. Come on FBR, call it like it really is. Bitchy.
    I can't do that. I prefer "grumpy". I will let others expound

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    LoL. Come on FBR, call it like it really is. Bitchy.
    I wish you lived closer so you could be my best friend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    I wish you lived closer so you could be my best friend.
    ! me too!!!
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    Y'all both move to Ft. Worth and I'll be the Jack Tripper of the trio...

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    ! me too!!!
    Oh my goodness, girl love
    vmurph, you have competition

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    Nah, I don't think Med would go for that. I think she just wants the friend.

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    ^It's the same here. Neither of us meant it like that lol.
    Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.

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