In regards to my ex I mean!
We dated for about 5 years. Had a rocky relationship. It was passionate, it was intense, it was a total rollercoaster. Our fights were mainly always about his family(the mom didnt like me, long story but I truly did not do anything wrong except not be the same race as her. she liked me up until she sensed we were getting "serious") We broke up after 5 years together. We have not been together in about 3 years.
Ive had a boyfriend(now ex) since and hes been with a girl as well.(now also an ex as of a month ago).
He would call me from time to time. Or email me. Everytime he comes around its just trouble. I always end up liking him again.
I dont know what it is about this guy. I really loved him though.
The first 3 yrs we were together it was great. Then this mother issue came up and she basically disowned him for about a year after that.
Thats when it got rocky.
Anyways so time has passed and he has popped back up again and my first thought was hes probly lonely, wants sex (we always had a good sexual relationship) he just broke up with someone a month ago who he was with about 2 yrs. My concern is I can feel myself starting to like him. I have tried so hard to harden myself to him. He emailed me about 2 weeks ago out of the blue and i ignored it. I told myself I cant let him back in my life for whatever reason it is because he will end up hurting me. Well he sent 3 emails on 3 days in a row and then 2 days later he actually called me @ work(so not cool) to ask if i was mad or something.
See, everytime he ever contacted me before id basically jump right to him.
Now Im not. So anyway he called and I was real casual with him.
He has since been trying to flirt on email but i dont really take the bait.
Im sure sooner or later we will end up hanging out but I just dont know how to approach this. If we can make things work I would love it. Im sure I sound stupid but I'll take him, mother problems and all.
I just know right now I have to hold back. Like I said, I always push or move too fast and it gets me nowhere.
How do you all handle situations where you know being less available is in your best interest? And, how do you make it work for you?
Also, its very possible he just wants a booty call and it WILL NOT happen.
Its also possible that he has no intention of trying to make anything work with me. He hasnt said anything sexual but he does flirt. He made a few comments about wanting to see my family(he loved them).
Ugh i dont know. Anyone who actually read all of this THANK YOU. I know it was alot



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