View Poll Results: Kissing/Frenching other dancers

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  • Yes I do it- don't hate

    15 23.81%
  • Yes, I have done it on special occasions (stage or high rollers request) but dont make a habit of it

    24 38.10%
  • No, I haven't dont it but would do it if the customer had money

    6 9.52%
  • No, I wouldn't do it. Its gross and way to intimate.

    18 28.57%
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Thread: Dancers kissing other dancers per customer request

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    Default Re: Dancers kissing other dancers per customer request

    i've worked with plenty of girls who do it but it's just not for me. I'm not into girls anyway and i'm not going to pretend to be for some guy's entertainment. I've had them try to push me to and i inform them i don't take orders. And as for kissing customers--ugh, no, never. I think that would just encourage them to try to be more hands on with me anyway.

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    Default Re: Dancers kissing other dancers per customer request

    Quote Originally Posted by xXmy shanghai sweetieXx View Post
    oh right?! all the europeans i know must have been forgetting to do it on both cheeks! silly us we've only been doing it on one cheekthanks for the reminder! i will be sure to tell all my family and friends too!!

    back on track here, the thread is about french kissing at work, people kiss each other on the cheek just about everywhere no biggie. french kissing is more than invading personal space its very intimate!
    Quote Originally Posted by xXmy shanghai sweetieXx View Post
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    oh right so i should tip-toe around you and carefully word what im saying ,while you tell me what every single person does in europe even though i live here and know your wrong about what we do!no its intimate, even alot of prostitues refuse to do it, maybe you have just cut yourself off from your emotions!

    they have nudist resorts in for families in the states too, more so than europe!
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    She didn't say anything wrong, or anything argumentative. Not sure why you have such an attitude but it's unnecessary. This is a perfectly civil thread.
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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    Latin countries, Europe, the Middle East, I'm starting to think everywhere BUT the U.S. and Canada do it!
    I've seen lots of people in the U.S do it. People of Latino descent. I used to kiss my friends in Miami all the time

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    no i havent and wouldnt. but i have messed around in other ways that may arguably be seen as worse with the oter girl during double dances. if i didnt see making out as disgusting i probably would to be honest.

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    Default Re: Dancers kissing other dancers per customer request

    I've kissed two or three of my coworkers, quick pecks on the lips. Only the ones that I'm actually attracted to, and not with tongue! I think tongue kissing is gross, I don't even do it in my personal life.
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    Default Re: Dancers kissing other dancers per customer request

    I became very good friends with a girl I worked with, and once in a while when we'd work together (doing VIP or stage shows) we would kiss occasionally. We became close (not in a sexual sense) so I was comfortable with her to go there once in a while. I never kissed anyone else at work or even came close. Just wasn't for me.

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    I have kissed selective entertainers I have worked with and have occasionally been caught off guard by others, but if I knew now what I know about STDS then I damn sure wouldnt have even thought about. The mistakes I have made in this business...Lesson learned.
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    I won't just make out with any other dancer on command but if I am friewnds with the girl and we are making money and having a good time, sure... I make out with a lot of my girlfriends though
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    Not a category for me, but I might consider it, if the girl and I had an agreement beforehand, and the club wouldn't fire me over it. But in all of my years, I've never done it. Although...we have definately faked it several times, with the hand over the hair thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    She didn't say anything wrong, or anything argumentative. Not sure why you have such an attitude but it's unnecessary. This is a perfectly civil thread.

    neither have i, didn't realise pointing out information was seen as argumentitive.

    i deeply apologise my culture clashes with her ideas on my culture!

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    ^^^ seriously, check your attitude. You're freaking out over nothing.
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    still dont see what kissing on the cheek when you greet someone has to do with kissing with tongues at a customers command!

    hmmm

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    ^^^ really, quit nitpicking and move on already. Geez.
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    As Katherine Hepburn put it so eloquently " Nature is what we were put here to rise above"

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    big difference isnt there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    Uh...or refuse to move on and obsess over something petty like a crazy bitch. Whatever works for you.
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    Default Re: Dancers kissing other dancers per customer request

    This doesn't really bother me, but I have to be comfortable with the other girl and know she's comfortable with it too.

    Usually I'll find a way to hide it so I can fake it and the customer can't tell.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    Uh...or refuse to move on and obsess over something petty like a crazy bitch. Whatever works for you.

    Lol seriously. Some people have no idea when to stop.

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    Not wanting to flare up any arguments, but I don't think anyone should be generalizing for any culture. If one says its common in Europe to kiss both cheeks that does not mean every single person does it, or every country does it (like the UK only does one cheek). But it's just as much a generalization to say that they don't based on the sole authority that you live on the same continent. Personally, I happen to live in Spain and you will find 99% of people here kiss on both cheeks, and in Holland you kiss 3 times! As for other countries I don't know, but chill out people, one way or the other I don't see how it's offensive to imply that they do or don't.

    Anyway, on the subject of the poll, in our club we have a special lesbian booth. I have sold several of these shows with different girls in the club, and depending on how comfortable I am with my partner I will make out...so far only with 1 girl who I adore and get along with fabulously. If I'm not fully comfortable with the other dancer I will simply not kiss, it's not 'mandatory'. I definitely wouldn't take it one step further and kiss a custy, regardless of their gender. That would just feel weird without that higher level of comfort.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BrookeBunni View Post
    Lol seriously. Some people have no idea when to stop.
    LMiller?

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    Default Re: Dancers kissing other dancers per customer request

    Quote Originally Posted by Pelirroja View Post
    Not wanting to flare up any arguments, but I don't think anyone should be generalizing for any culture. If one says its common in Europe to kiss both cheeks that does not mean every single person does it, or every country does it (like the UK only does one cheek). But it's just as much a generalization to say that they don't based on the sole authority that you live on the same continent. Personally, I happen to live in Spain and you will find 99% of people here kiss on both cheeks, and in Holland you kiss 3 times! As for other countries I don't know, but chill out people, one way or the other I don't see how it's offensive to imply that they do or don't..
    Thanks you! I didn't want to say sorry for making a massive generalization because no matter what I say she is not going to like it. AND it's not what the thread is about anyways. LOL. In the first post I wasn't even bloody talking about the rest of the world and she got pissed off. I was talking about my own experiences and why I personally am comfortable with affection. Not writing a journal article university students are going to study on the subject...geez! So I tried to say I was aware that kissing on the check is not just common in Australia and apparently said the wrong thing again. So yeah I guess I should have said kissing on the check, or both cheeks occurs in places all over the world. Even in places where it does happen, again not everyone does it. I'm not really sure why, considering the topic of discussion this had to take over the thread but ya my guess is Lmiller?? haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    LMiller?
    You totally took the words out of my mouth, I was thinking that days ago!
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    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    LMiller?
    What's LMiller

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    ^^^ A really bitchy member who was banned a few weeks ago.
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    As Katherine Hepburn put it so eloquently " Nature is what we were put here to rise above"

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    Eek, I wasn't trying to be like that. My bad!

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    NM, That situation you described would have pissed me off. If some customer demanded for me to make out with some girl out on the floor, I would have just walked off. But, if he was nicer about it, spending a lot of money already, and we were in the VIP, then I would, but it would have to be a friend of mine, not a random girl.
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