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    Hi everyone! I am very new here. I hope it is ok to post a thread like this. I have been wanting to strip for some time now. I just don't know if I have what it takes. Any advice that you can give me by looking at this very bad picture, that I took today, will be very helpful. Any constructive criticism please. I want to know the truth before I walk into the club and make a fool of myself. LOL.... TIA!
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    Default Re: Do you think I have what it takes?

    LOL do u really have to ask? Of course you do physically.

    It's whether or not you have what it takes mentally which will be the test. Are you confident enough to talk to anyone? Young guys, old guys, rude guys, smart guys, CEO's, etc? Will you be able to ask the all important question..come for a dance? Will you get upset when someone says "no"? Will you get upset if someone says, "you are too.. fat, skinny, tall, short, etc"? No matter how beautiful you are some guys are just jerks and will put you down. Can you keep your cool when someone does get under your skin? (someone will eventually even if you are really strong).

    Anyways just something to think about. Physically, no problem at all. Good luck!

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    Thanks, Jessie. Yeah, I guess that is why I have put this off for so long mentally. I have low self esteem. I would like to think I am stronger now after being dumped. Anyway, I know there is only one way to find out....I need to audition. Thanks for your response, and I am reading up on all the info I can.

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    You're gorgeous... but just the fact that you say you have low self esteem worries me. I was kinda like that too, long ago I came here and posted pics and asked if I could strip and stuff and Ill tell you what someone told me, just the fact that a girl as beautiful as you would have to ASK shows a sign of insecurity... which is a natural way to feel but just be prepared... it's icky out there. Jessie is right that guys wont hesitate to tell you how you feel and there are a lot of assholes out there. Then again there are also guys who will worship you so it evens out. Just don't get too hurt if someone says some really mean stuff to you... remember.. they are just losers with small penises who would probably be too intimidated by your beauty to talk to you if they saw you on the street.

    P.S. You're hot, which is threatening... be prepared for some "shit" from other dancers too.. honestly, other dancers is the thing that gets to me. I can handle men, but catty women intimidate me sometimes, especially the really psychotic ghetto ones who are on drugs and wont hesitate to bash your face in if they think you're fucking with their money.. lol. Really though... it depends on the club just watch your back girl.. and good luck!



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    Default Re: Do you think I have what it takes?

    You are very pretty so you do have what it takes. However, this is no business for those with little self confidence. Men can be mean sometimes. Some guys (and clubs too) hate "ethnic" girls and that can be a problem (I think it's bs personally)

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    MsClaireVoyant- thanks your right. After all ll the crap I have taken from 'boyfriends' I should be able to take from strangers. I know you have to have a thick skin. I just have to give this a shot since it has been on my mind for so long. I also want to do it because I am hoping that it will help with my self esteem. But I know I know I need self esteem going in. LMAO about what you said about other girls.
    thanx

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    Sweetie you are smokin hot!! Physically you look like you're very ready .

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    Kellydancer- Oh, I know. A dive place turned me down. A peepshow.... I thought I would try there first more relaxed ya know. He told me he already had enough black girls. I cried for days.(I'm over it now) Then I got hired at Scores a while back, much to my surprise, but didnt work because of the 'anxiety' attacks. It was waayyy too much to handle. You girls are very helpful.
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    Thanks BrookeBunni. And yes, I know it takes more. If I decide to pull this off, I will surely fill you gals in.

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    Lookswise, oh hells yes! The rest you'll have to try it out and see.

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    Default Re: Do you think I have what it takes?

    You might want to consider webcamming too. That's what I do now. It's different.. in some ways good in some ways bad. Just something to look into if the clubs don't work out.



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    Btw sorry this is way off topic, but you should go into body business and post a detailed description of whatever workouts/diet you do to get that tummy... I want it!



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    Default Re: Do you think I have what it takes?

    Welcome Monique

    I suggest that you read this thread: http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=60870
    and the Newbie FAQ.
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    Your body and face are better looking than 70% of the girls at my club. Of course you can dance looking like that! You're really hot. And don't worry too much about the self-conscious thing, or the low self-esteem thing. I was kind of like that when I started. After a month of dancing, no more low self-esteem.

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    Yes, I think you have what it takes physically x 100.

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    Default Re: Do you think I have what it takes?

    Daaayum. Yep.

    Get your hustle down. That really important.

    Seriously you should look into becoming a fitness model (not body building) if you're not already.

    You got dumped? His loss. Your gain.




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    Default Re: Do you think I have what it takes?

    Thanks for your all your comments guys. Ok, so I went to a 'place' that only hires black girls. ( hope I dont offend anyone. Anywho, was not for me, I ran out of there so fast, I nearly twisted my ankle going down the stairs trying to get out of there in those super high heels. True story.
    You really have to drop it like it is hot, and other phenomenal pole tricks. Soooo, I did not belong there.....Just wanted to share hopes this makes someone laugh. They were looking for my booty.
    I am taking this seriously, I realize what you girls do is hard work. Meanwhile, I have my eye on another place....
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    Good luck finding a club that fits.
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    Good luck! Ur gorgeous and I want ur tummy!! x
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    I worked last Thursday nite and made a whole $2 in stage tips. Whoo hoo. I went to a different club Saturday nite, I walked away with $200, a little better I guess. I worked Mon. nite and made $65.
    Oh, well, I was wondering....I know there is a thread out there somewhere.
    But do you girls beat yourselves up if you lost a regular to another girl.
    Not to something beyond your control, but because of something foolish you may have done like a bad lapdance?
    Just wondering

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    Default Re: Do you think I have what it takes?

    what was "bad" about it?

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    Well, let me tell ya. When I say air dance...I was going by the rules ya know. He gave me $100 so I know he expected more.
    I didnt let him touch me at all. Halfway in he literally pushed me away, but I thought he was being nice. Why dont a guy just tell you what he likes?
    So that's when he goes for the other girl. Sooo, I started to spy...um watch the other girls and it was very high contact. I happened to be on stage at the same time he was getting his lapdance from the other girl. So I was able to see everything. Hot and steamy.
    His shirt was unbuttoned. Wow, after that I wanted one. He took all the money out of his wallet held it out and let her take whatever she wanted. sigh. I know I shouldnt have focused on that so much, I should have moved on. But I hadnt made any money and he was my only 'hope'. Oh, and he threw me $5 to leave him alone..ah well.

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    Darlin your body is just fine. As a matter of fact it is totally chiseled! Of course you have what it takes physically but i agree with the other ones when it comes to the concept of being mentally prepared. But i believe that you look like a strong girl who can just brush off her shoulder any rude comments that people may make about you. I say go give it a shot if you are really wanting to do this in your heart. Go for it girl and have that confidence that i know is in you

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    You look perfect! Don't worry about that little lapdance mishap. Now you know what it's supposed to be like and if you're not comfortable with the contact, someone else will be. You just have to decide what you're comfortable with.

    Sounds like you're doing great tho, and you're very pretty and have a great body!!

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    You look STUNNING!!! ;_; Jealous of your toned body

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