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    Angry Hence forth I will not be dancing for female customers!!! (RANT)

    It seems like in the last couple years the number of female custies has greatly increased. Ususally they come in droves on weekends (which is one of the reasons I avoid weekends) in groups of girls or with thier bfs/husbands. And they are nothing but a pain in my ass.

    Either they sit there giving dirty looks, rolling eyes and making nasty comments or they expect us to do some *trick* for a dollar. And there are the girls that sit at the stage with their friends avoiding even a glance at the dancer on stage and not tipping whatsoever, taking up a spot where a guy willing to spend money could be sitting.

    And THE WORST female custies are the ones that come in with thier bfs/husbands packing a huge additude. They cling to them for dear life as if we are going to dive off the stage and steal her man away right from under them. She watches every girl that dances for her man like hawk with a snotty, nasty look on her face. It's sad, it's pathetic and its beyond RUDE.

    This particular situation is what set off my rant. An mid aged couple was sitting at the stage sat night (somehow I missed the fact that the wife was clinging to her husband, practically crawling under his skin). I usually avoid dancing for girls and couples as a personal rule of thumb for the above reasons. Well my end of the stage was fairly empty so I squatted down in front of the couple. I still hadn't decided wether to dance for them but I noticed something blinking on her shirt (some sort of pin I think) and was pointing it out to ask what it was whilst "reading them" and checking for a stack of 1's to see if they were tipping. Wife totally ignored my question as she literally waved me away and from what I remember hearing since my ears started ringing with rage, she said "no, I don't think so, no" and "get away" while waving me away with one hand, clinging to her husband with the other and an upturned nose and disgusted look on her face.

    If it weren't for the fact that the songs were changing and the other dancer was now at my end and I HAD to move and the fact that I was literally in SHOCK wifey would have been pulling a stilletto outta her ear!

    WTF!?!? Seriously why do these women even come in to clubs? it's a strip club, what are they expecting?? Not to mention we are trying to work, this is how we make a living and it's disrespectful, almost as if they only reason they are there is to mock the dancers.

    It's a GENTLEMAN'S club. Men leave your women at home and ladies check your additudes at the door or DONT come in!

    End of rant.

    **Just a last note: There are some perfectly fantastic female and couple customers that are there for a good time and to enjoy the club enviroment so this isn't ment to flame all female custies

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    I refuse to dance for female customers; stage, table, lap or vip. I absolutely won't do it unless she is with her man, and they are cool and they approach me for the dance, or she tips me alot on satge and approaches me for the dance. I won't waste my time otherwise.

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    Wow. Having been a female customer before, I'm actually kind of embarrassed by this. Most of my girl friends are bi/lesbian or at least REALLY liberal, so it shocks me to read this. I had no idea this sort of behavior existed. I'm truly sorry; that is some bullshit.

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    No most of them not are bi, lesbian, or liberal in my neck of the woods. Most are stuck up bitches exactly as Danni described them. Besides former or current dancers that identify themselves as such and 1 regular couple that come in which the girlfriend is an absolute doll I avoid couples and women at all costs. Even the ones that come to get me or seem cool. I have just had too many bad experiences.
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    Not all female customers are terrible, but I fucking hate the ones that come in on Saturday night and sit in the stage, all in a row. Taking up one whole side of the tip rail. And they'll make this big show out of either sitting there with the nastiest looks on their faces while they watch me dance; or, conversely, they will make a big show out of ignoring me while they have their deep-intimate-meaningful-must-take-place-at-the-stage-in-a-strip-club conversation. And when I stop by on my tip run, they'll stare at me blankly until one of them (out of four or five women) gives this whole over-the-top exaggerated sigh and makes a show out of digging a single dollar bill out of her pocket to give to me. Last night was really terrible; there was a good amount of time where the stage was completely full, and guys who wanted to sit at the stage couldn't find room up there, and these fucking cunts are taking up a good five chairs with their enormous attitude.

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    I would have been fucking livid. she-beast.
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    Quote Originally Posted by firemaiden04 View Post
    Not all female customers are terrible, but I fucking hate the ones that come in on Saturday night and sit in the stage, all in a row. Taking up one whole side of the tip rail. And they'll make this big show out of either sitting there with the nastiest looks on their faces while they watch me dance; or, conversely, they will make a big show out of ignoring me while they have their deep-intimate-meaningful-must-take-place-at-the-stage-in-a-strip-club conversation. And when I stop by on my tip run, they'll stare at me blankly until one of them (out of four or five women) gives this whole over-the-top exaggerated sigh and makes a show out of digging a single dollar bill out of her pocket to give to me. Last night was really terrible; there was a good amount of time where the stage was completely full, and guys who wanted to sit at the stage couldn't find room up there, and these fucking cunts are taking up a good five chairs with their enormous attitude.

    I think you and I work at the same place. I had the same problem Saturday.I wanted to be wearing slides so I could let one slip off and hit them. Why go to a fucking strip club and act like that!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    I would have been fucking livid. she-beast.
    I'm not sure how to handle this. Sometimes I will blow kisses and flirt with them to piss them off if they are just sitting and not tipping anybody, but they are really messing with people's money by taking up space like this, and it needs to stop.

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    haha! I just remembered! Lets not forget the used up dancers that used to work at the club, that show up to hate on the girls sill in the industry. I had that happen to me in myrtle beach two weeks ago. Had it not been My 2nd day there I would have said something really nasty.

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    Bouncers toss people out if they do that at my club, I love them To them it's like a customer standing in the way of the cash register so that the cashier can't take your money. You're interfering with the person's job and if you don't cut the crap you're out of the club and probably blacklisted.

    They don't always enforce this, especially on slow nights (which bothers me because it's hard enough to dance when nobody's there, it's worse when there's someone there but you are unsure if you should dance for them). But I have seen people get escorted away from the stage because they were obviously not there to tip (backs turned to the stage talking to their buddies at the table behind them). One dancer did warn me of a girl who comes in occasionally to throw pennies at the dancers (something I used to joke about doing when I was 10), but I think she finally got blacklisted before I started.

    Sorry to any female customers reading this, but if you really go there for dances you need to make yourselves more obvious, because playing Russian Roulette with dirty looks and getting crabbed at by stupid girls who God knows why they're even there, is just not worth the extra stress.

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    Ahhh yes,a very sore subject.It is always the women who LOVE to stereotype and judge the dancers.Whatever reason they come in for,they always leave pissed off.There are very few cool female custies.Sometimes even the ones who seem nice,talk shit as soon as you turn your back.The nicest one almost always are bi or gay.

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    I've had similar situations. I sat with a couple and the man seemed very nice but the wife had an angry look on her face the whole time, and eventually she stormed off. Then I left.
    Another time, this guy bought me a dance for his girlfriend, and the whole time I danced for her, she was preaching to me saying "you have to be more than just this, you should do something with your life, etc...." And completely ignoring the fact that I said I'm in school! I finished the dance early and at the end of the dance the bf told me he'd come to see me again but he'll never bring his gf again. I don't understand why girls come to stripclubs if they can't be cool about it. I think they come with their bfs or friends to make fun of the strippers.
    Sometimes when I"m on stage, and there are female customers at the tip rail, a lot of the times they would either give me a weird look, a disgusted look, or just do everything they can to NOT look.

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    Quote Originally Posted by firemaiden04 View Post
    And when I stop by on my tip run, they'll stare at me blankly until one of them (out of four or five women) gives this whole over-the-top exaggerated sigh and makes a show out of digging a single dollar bill out of her pocket to give to me.
    That would piss me off tremendously. I've been a customer for years, but am just now starting the whole dancing aspect. I'm beginning to wonder how I was oblivious for so long. I would usually sit at the tip-rail and shell out tons of ones, but the girls would never make their rounds to collect mine. I could never figure out why. Makes so much more sense now. I wouldn't want to either, if I expected to get spit on or any other horrible thing a female's mind would dream up to do to a stripper. Regarding women who act like children in strip clubs: My friends and I have a saying for when this sort of thing happens:

    Bitches be hoes. (Usually accompanied with a shrug)

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    Female customers HATE me.
    They literally will sit through every stage set no matter what the girl looks like... and get up for just mine... then move back for everyone else's. Lol.

    So luckily. I don't really have to worry about it.

    I would've said to that girl the same thing I say to everyone else sitting at me tip rail who doesn't want to tip me. Which is a very cheerful "Hello... this thing you're sitting at is called a tip rail... if you don't wish to tip me... please get off it now. Thank you!"
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    I dunno. I had a regular lady that came in for a couple years to see me.I made quite a lot of money off of her. I think it's just like all the other douch bag custys that there are. Most are assholes, and what is not your cup of tea, might be the next persons big night.
    Treat them with respect, to the limit that is deserved. I think we personalise regection from a female far more than from males. Frankly, bi women are far more picky in their tastes then men. Would you want them to waste your time? At last their honest. Also, I've gone into clubs as a cust with $$$ to blow, and all these bitches did was glare, the looks go two ways. I left and went down the road to spend my money wear I had a good time.
    A customer is a customer, regardless of sex, if their is money in that wallet, I'm gonna try to get it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by firemaiden04 View Post
    Not all female customers are terrible, but I fucking hate the ones that come in on Saturday night and sit in the stage, all in a row. Taking up one whole side of the tip rail. And they'll make this big show out of either sitting there with the nastiest looks on their faces while they watch me dance; or, conversely, they will make a big show out of ignoring me while they have their deep-intimate-meaningful-must-take-place-at-the-stage-in-a-strip-club conversation. And when I stop by on my tip run, they'll stare at me blankly until one of them (out of four or five women) gives this whole over-the-top exaggerated sigh and makes a show out of digging a single dollar bill out of her pocket to give to me. Last night was really terrible; there was a good amount of time where the stage was completely full, and guys who wanted to sit at the stage couldn't find room up there, and these fucking cunts are taking up a good five chairs with their enormous attitude.
    This is when you make a big show of pulling guys who clearly want to be there up to the stage, all in the girls' way, and have them tip the girl on stage. Drag the guys up and butt right into the girls' way, then with the biggest, most sugary smile you can muster, gesture toward the guys and tell the girls "oh excuse us, but they actually want to see the show and TIP the girls."

    Or drag some tipping guys up there and straight up tell the girls that those seats are for TIPPERS. haha

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    I completely agree with you, I HATE female customers. But what I hate more is female non-customers, the girls who come in with their boyfriends and sit there and watch girls on stage and don't buy a dance or tip a dollar. I really want to go up to one of these women and ask "aren't you ashamed of yourself? seriously, do you have no respect for women? we're getting naked on stage and you're just going to sit there and watch and not tip a dollar?"

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    Had a group come in last night, probably for a birthday or something. 4 guys, 2 girls. The 2 girls kept trying to distract their boys from the stage and the boys were trying to watch the show, so of course the girls were getting pissy with the dancer. So the dancer takes the birthday boy's belt off and whips his ass with it, while "nearly" "missing" the girls with each swing. The girls had to move back to avoid getting hit

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    I just found them to be consistently cheap. To be honest ... even the lesbians were on the cheaper side. Selling to my target audience ( 35-60ish guy by himself ) is 10 times easier than selling to a couple. I'd probably rather wait for a single guy to walk in than try to sell to a couple, but in SF , there are some fun couples to do tip on stage and buy dances.

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    FACT: Lopaw should teach etiquette classes for female customers.

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    I basically work in 2 clubs at the moment, and in one, we only get 1 or 2 women a week, and one was a regular until she was in a bad wreck. She now has to relearn to walk.

    When she was my customer though, she bought dances and tipped well, but tended to get the idea that she was entitled to extras just because she was a woman. I always feigned innocence when she thrust her pelvis out more or tried to put her mouth on random body parts, and acted like I didn't notice and she just happened to miss.

    The other club, the bigger one, about 75% of women will tip, some will buy dances, but some will just stand at the stage and talk about how the just can't believe that they're in a strip club and "omg this is so weird/embarrassing/awkward etc". Some get retardly drunk and try to get onstage and show off or attempt to pole dance.
    We do occasionally get the pissy wife. I had one woman pull her man out of a dance halfway through. He came back the next night and bought VIP.

    The big club is also VERY couple friendly, so that makes it easier. We also have a "ride for five" that seems to go over well with the ladies. (they lay down on stage and we simulate 69. we're required to keep our bottoms on and actual genital contact is strictly forbidden and punished.) But when guys see the girl on girl action they stand up and throw money on stage to keep it going. It's also a college town so that helps.

    I suppose it's a club by club basis. In the small one it doesn't do much good to have women in there but in the big one it really helps our stage money, on the weekends especially.

    ...sorry for the novel lol.

    ETA: The big club has a DJ and he is really good at working the crowd and bluntly but tactfully tells the crowd that the stage seating if for tippers and if you're not tipping then you're in the way!

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    I'm a former dancer and a frequent club customer, along with my lovely hubby.

    At my local clubs, the dancers typically LOVE female customers. Usually the customer base at any strip club around here is about 40-50% female, and the women tend to tip better than the men and have more fun with it. I've seen women come alone, in groups, or with their men. They're bi, bi-curious, lesbian, and even completely straight -- doesn't matter, they enjoy themselves as much as the men. Only once at a local club have I seen a woman come in with her man and project attitude and disdain. That couple quickly left.

    Every time we go to a club, we both tip every dancer, every time she gets on stage, and we each get at least one solo lap dance. We both respect dancers and enjoy the club ambiance. And we're not an anomaly around here -- 99% of the couples I see at our local clubs are generous with tips (much more so than the single male customers, who around here tend to be cheap-ass bastards) and having fun with it.

    When I danced, I loved female customers, too. They were typically far better behaved than the men and tipped more generously.

    When my husband and I go to clubs elsewhere in the country, dancers usually get very excited about us. They sit with us and talk about how most women who come into their clubs sit back with permanent bitch-face and glare at their men if they dare to look at one of the dancers.

    What's weird is that I live in Alabama, where one might think attitudes about women in strip clubs would be more conservative. But I've found that, around here, for the most part, if a woman doesn't approve of strippers or strip clubs, her man is not going to be able to talk her into accompanying him to one. Most of the disapproving women just tend to avoid the clubs altogether, which makes it a much more positive environment for everyone involved.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Juno View Post
    That would piss me off tremendously. I've been a customer for years, but am just now starting the whole dancing aspect. I'm beginning to wonder how I was oblivious for so long. I would usually sit at the tip-rail and shell out tons of ones, but the girls would never make their rounds to collect mine. I could never figure out why. Makes so much more sense now. I wouldn't want to either, if I expected to get spit on or any other horrible thing a female's mind would dream up to do to a stripper. Regarding women who act like children in strip clubs: My friends and I have a saying for when this sort of thing happens:

    Bitches be hoes. (Usually accompanied with a shrug)
    Also, the sad truth is if you have to choose between a guy who wants a dance and a girl who wants a dance - the dude is probably going to spend more money

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    I like money. I would like to sincerly thank the two women on Satuday night that made it rain onstage durring what would have otherwise been a dismal stage set. ( I was on the mainstage while the featured shower show was happening on the second stage. ) Over the years I have had some great women customers who are respectful, generouse and fun to have in the club. I have also run across the ocasional pschotic christian bitch that likes to compensate for personal insecurity and unhappyness by trying to spread the misery around. To those women: Jesus wants you to get some medication, not harras other women.

    At my club I get a much higher than average percent of VIPs with women or couples.
    Here is what I think makes this work. When I aproach a couple i smile, make eye contact with the woman and introdouce myself to her first and him second. Then I complement her. Some thing like "omg! those are such cute shoes/earrings/etc. where did you find them!?!" then we typicaly spend a few minutes discussing shopping while totaly ignoring the male. This is okay because he is busy imaging me and his wife naked together. Then I say "well I should get back to work but if you two would like play strip club with me later we have a private VIP area...

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