It seems like in the last couple years the number of female custies has greatly increased. Ususally they come in droves on weekends (which is one of the reasons I avoid weekends) in groups of girls or with thier bfs/husbands. And they are nothing but a pain in my ass.
Either they sit there giving dirty looks, rolling eyes and making nasty comments or they expect us to do some *trick* for a dollar. And there are the girls that sit at the stage with their friends avoiding even a glance at the dancer on stage and not tipping whatsoever, taking up a spot where a guy willing to spend money could be sitting.
And THE WORST female custies are the ones that come in with thier bfs/husbands packing a huge additude. They cling to them for dear life as if we are going to dive off the stage and steal her man away right from under them. She watches every girl that dances for her man like hawk with a snotty, nasty look on her face. It's sad, it's pathetic and its beyond RUDE.
This particular situation is what set off my rant. An mid aged couple was sitting at the stage sat night (somehow I missed the fact that the wife was clinging to her husband, practically crawling under his skin). I usually avoid dancing for girls and couples as a personal rule of thumb for the above reasons. Well my end of the stage was fairly empty so I squatted down in front of the couple. I still hadn't decided wether to dance for them but I noticed something blinking on her shirt (some sort of pin I think) and was pointing it out to ask what it was whilst "reading them" and checking for a stack of 1's to see if they were tipping. Wife totally ignored my question as she literally waved me away and from what I remember hearing since my ears started ringing with rage, she said "no, I don't think so, no" and "get away" while waving me away with one hand, clinging to her husband with the other and an upturned nose and disgusted look on her face.
If it weren't for the fact that the songs were changing and the other dancer was now at my end and I HAD to move and the fact that I was literally in SHOCK wifey would have been pulling a stilletto outta her ear!
WTF!?!? Seriously why do these women even come in to clubs? it's a strip club, what are they expecting?? Not to mention we are trying to work, this is how we make a living and it's disrespectful, almost as if they only reason they are there is to mock the dancers.
It's a GENTLEMAN'S club. Men leave your women at home and ladies check your additudes at the door or DONT come in!
End of rant.
**Just a last note: There are some perfectly fantastic female and couple customers that are there for a good time and to enjoy the club enviroment so this isn't ment to flame all female custies![]()




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I had the same problem Saturday.I wanted to be wearing slides so I could let one slip off and hit them. Why go to a fucking strip club and act like that!!!
To them it's like a customer standing in the way of the cash register so that the cashier can't take your money. You're interfering with the person's job and if you don't cut the crap you're out of the club and probably blacklisted.




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