Hello there,
I have an ongoing problem here at my club. I've been stripping for almost a year. And when I first started at this club, this girl started saying to everyone that I was giving hand jobs and such. Even to customers! First of all, it's so not true. That's gross. The manager saw it on tape that I wasn't doing anything, apologized to me for the girl's behavior and said it wouldn't happen again.
Whell after about another 6 months, I thought thinkgs were going whell...just the occasional "she said" kind of crap but I can deal with that. But pretty much girls have been hating on me. I mean I don't make HUGE amounts of money, but I do make money on most nights. But I had this girl who started talking mad sh*t about me. Telling customers that I'm a pathological liar and stuff. I do do a lot of things outside of the club, school, ballet, soccer etc. And I guess they think that that's just not possible for a stripper to have a outside life. On top of that I have been undergoing chemotherapy.
So these girls team up and start saying how I couldn't have done chemo and stuff and saying I don't have cancer. That hurts. It's a real sensitive subject, having cancer and it's been such an impacter in my life that I feel the drive to go out and do a lt of things with my life. And it hurt so bad to hear that girls were being so mean to me about it. I mean, you can doubt that I'm a ballerins, doubt that I'm fgoing to school but the hurtful things to say about the cancer...they have NO business. They actually didn't even know until recently when I went home throwing up and dizzy and sick from a chemo day.
I don't even know what to do. Another well respected dancer talked to my manager in hopes that he'll do something about the one girl who started saying that to customers. But the rest of the girls have teamed up and shared stories about me. Just because the one girl is gone, doesn't mean that the rumors won't perpetuate. Ad it normally wouldn't effect me except for the fact that customers are being involved and I could be losing money because of it.
I'm not a bi*ch, I don't fight or confront and I'm getting walked over because of it. I will drop the next bi*ch who says anything.
But I need some outside input or advice, please tell me I'm not alone in this. Help, I'm so miserable I've come home crying on numerous occasions.
Thank you so much,
Kami







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