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    I know a guy who just loves to spend money at strip clubs. He has tons of money and likes to spend thousands on a pretty regular basis. I think he spends the money amongst a few different girls who are sort of his favorite. Supposedly just likes to go to the club, enjoy the girls and drink himself to oblivion.

    What sort of opinion would most girls have of a guy like that? i.e mainly a guy who isa regular and spends a bunch of cash every time he is there. Is there a bad opinion for spending too much time at the club? Do you think it is weird that he shows up every week or more spending a chunk every time? Do you like a guy like that or secretly think he should find a better way to spend his time even though you like the money he spends?

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    I would be thrilled to see him! Even if didn't spend as much money as you say, it sounds like he knows how a strip club works, doesn't mess about wasting girls time, trying to get extras or meet OTC etc. Also someone with that much money, what they spend is usually pocket change to them, why shouldn't they come in, be treated like a VIP all night surrounded by beautiful women with NSA?

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    Quote Originally Posted by worldfamoustoddyepthatguy View Post
    What sort of opinion would most girls have of a guy like that? i.e mainly a guy who isa regular and spends a bunch of cash every time he is there. Is there a bad opinion for spending too much time at the club? Do you think it is weird that he shows up every week or more spending a chunk every time? Do you like a guy like that or secretly think he should find a better way to spend his time even though you like the money he spends?
    I wouldn't have an opinion. Id be happy to take his money. No it's not weird. There's no like or dislike involved.

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    Quote Originally Posted by worldfamoustoddyepthatguy View Post
    I know a guy who just loves to spend money at strip clubs. He has tons of money and likes to spend thousands on a pretty regular basis. I think he spends the money amongst a few different girls who are sort AWof his favorite. Supposedly just likes to go to the club, enjoy the girls and drink himself to oblivion.

    What sort of opinion would most girls have of a guy like that? i.e mainly a guy who isa regular and spends a bunch of cash every time he is there. Is there a bad opinion for spending too much time at the club? Do you think it is weird that he shows up every week or more spending a chunk every time? Do you like a guy like that or secretly think he should find a better way to spend his time even though you like the money he spends?
    I LOVE THEM!!! One of my favorite customers comes in almost every single night and blows hundreds on his favorites. He has tipped me $100 bills more than once just cuz. He's in his late sixties and lost his wife recently. I have no idea where he gets the money...possibly her life insurance policy, but he is my daddy!!! If he wants to blow his money on strippers and alcohol, I'll be glad to assist.

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    I wouldn't have an opinion. Id be happy to take his money. No it's not weird. There's no like or dislike involved.

    I missed the conspiracy part of this post... You're slipping Todd.

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    Quote Originally Posted by worldfamoustoddyepthatguy View Post

    What sort of opinion would most girls have of a guy like that? i.e mainly a guy who isa regular and spends a bunch of cash every time he is there.
    This is my idea of the perfect customer. A nice guy that just wants to have a great time with a dancer (or two or three) w/o too many strings attached (i.e. not expecting extras).

    I actually have a customer pretty similiar to this. He's been coming in to see me every week for the past 6 years. He spends $500-$700 usually, although there have been times when he's spent much more. He's a sweetheart and I truly enjoy spending time with him. That's why he's been my reg for so long. He's awesome.

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    Is there a bad opinion for spending too much time at the club?
    I've seen guys ask this same exact question on SW before. I truly don't understand what is so embarrassing or "bad" on spending a large amount of money on strippers on a regular basis. It is certainly nothing to be ashamed of.

    The big spending custys at my club get treated like royalty. They have the BEST possible strip club experience. They have beautiful girls dancing and hanging out with them for hours, exceptional treatment from the waitresses, dj, managers. etc. No problems - no bitch dancers yelling at them. I don't see why EVERY guy wouldn't want to shell out the extra $ to have the ultimate strip club trip. Why bring say only $100? It's not going to get you far and you won't get that much attention from the dancers, especially the top ones.

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    Do you think it is weird that he shows up every week or more spending a chunk every time?
    Absolutely not. I have known MANY guys that do this and the girls (including me) think these guys are awesome and wait for them each time they work. It is much more enjoyable to hang out with a regular rather than lap dance for 20 different guys each night.

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    Do you like a guy like that or secretly think he should find a better way to spend his time even though you like the money he spends?
    I really do like guys that do this. I consider myself and my services to be luxury items, so why would I secretely wish or wonder what else he could spend his money on? It doesn't make sense.

    That's like guys coming into the club and bragging about their nice cars or houses. It doesn't mean anything to me. Who cares?

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    I wouldn't have an opinion. Id be happy to take his money. No it's not weird. There's no like or dislike involved.

    I missed the conspiracy part of this post... You're slipping Todd.
    Agreed. If he was cool I'd be thrilled to see him.

    Probably even if he wasn't. And who am I to tell the dude how to spend his money?

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    It all depends on whether he is spending that money on me. If he isn't giving me any of that cash, then I'm indifferent and he is furniture. If he spends, then right on, right on, you are awesome and keep it coming!

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    I think this thread was a test. That everyone failed. We hear over and over again how strippers are just normal people...with a risque job.

    Well, normal people think it's weird and pathetic if a guy goes to a strip club every week blowing thousands of dollars on fake love and attention. Sorry, they just do. I have been that guy, and I still think it's weird and pathetic.

    So if you don't think that, you're not normal. Sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    I think this thread was a test. That everyone failed. We hear over and over again how strippers are just normal people...with a risque job.

    Well, normal people think it's weird and pathetic if a guy goes to a strip club every week blowing thousands of dollars on fake love and attention. Sorry, they just do. I have been that guy, and I still think it's weird and pathetic.

    So if you don't think that, you're not normal. Sorry.
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    I would appreciate him and be grateful and treat him VERY good. Wouldn't marry a guy like that though, but hey guys wouldnt marry a stripper either so whatever. haha.

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    From my experience, people who claim to have buddies that go into clubs and spend "thousands" of dollars all the time... usually don't. If they did, why would their friends go around bringing it up or bragging about it? I don't get the point??

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    Dancers like men who spend money, not backbenchers.

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    The regular who comes in and spends money on a girl/some of the girls/ all of the girls: we like him. he pays our bills and understands what the titty bar is there for. he makes our lives easy. Like everyone else, we like people who make our lives easier.

    The regular who sits at the bar and drinks and doesnt tip anyone even when staring at my stage set and 'doesnt do dances' and 'is friends with the manager': he can go fist himself.




    and i guess everyman is right and im not normal. normal people are so boring....
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    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I'd be pretty happy, hah but I'd try to get to know him as a person too. I'm not going to lie, it really makes my day when I am making good money.
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    It all depends. Would I be happy?? YES. Would I appreciate it and respect him as long as he respected me? Yes. If a guy came in very often, say a couple of times a week then I would think it was sad maybe?? Sad isn't the right word for it, but pathetic isn't either. I can't think of the right word right now. If someones whole life revolved around the SC, then yes that would fall more into the 'lonely loser' category. Even if you are really loaded spending money at the SC on a very regular basis would indicate that something was lacking in your life, as would going to the mall everyday and buying a buttload of crap every day. Do we all want this kind of customer? Yes. I want any customer that will spend money as long as I feel comfortable giving him what he wants, regardless of what his motives for being there are.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    I think this thread was a test. That everyone failed. We hear over and over again how strippers are just normal people...with a risque job.

    Well, normal people think it's weird and pathetic if a guy goes to a strip club every week blowing thousands of dollars on fake love and attention. Sorry, they just do. I have been that guy, and I still think it's weird and pathetic.

    So if you don't think that, you're not normal. Sorry.
    Are you just shit stirring or what? We make are living off this type of guy. Is it "normal" in business to question or judge your clients/customers? No. It's normal to cash the cheque and be thankful you have a livelihood.

    How could we do our jobs if we thought people were pathetic and weird...

    How is spending thousands at a SC any different than any other form of entertainment?... I spend thousands on handbags and my husband on electronics. SC is his relaxation, entertainment and enjoyment. I find your response totally offensive.


    Oh and to answer the question... He would be my favourite customer. I would look forward to his visits! Because I am here to make money... not judge.

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    Are you just shit stirring or what? We make are living off this type of guy. Is it "normal" in business to question or judge your clients/customers? No. It's normal to cash the cheque and be thankful you have a livelihood.

    How could we do our jobs if we thought people were pathetic and weird...

    How is spending thousands at a SC any different than any other form of entertainment?... I spend thousands on handbags and my husband on electronics. SC is his relaxation, entertainment and enjoyment. I find your response totally offensive.


    Oh and to answer the question... He would be my favourite customer. I would look forward to his visits! Because I am here to make money... not judge.
    +1 (other than being my favorite customer; Homey don't play that). Actually, this thread was making me think about guys who spend thousands on golf or hunting or whatever. What's the difference? Those activities are obviously filling some gap in their life. I see SCs as the same thing. When any activity overtakes normal aspects of you life it's an issue, so, as long as it's not doing that, who cares?

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    ^^^ haha unfortunately my favourites are the ones who pay the most who require the least amount of work....nature of the beast! Not to say that I don't have a soft spot for all my regs... but some of them are just plain hard work. Deflecting love is hard. It's much easier with the blind drunk types.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Are you just shit stirring or what? We make are living off this type of guy. Is it "normal" in business to question or judge your clients/customers? No. It's normal to cash the cheque and be thankful you have a livelihood.

    How could we do our jobs if we thought people were pathetic and weird...

    How is spending thousands at a SC any different than any other form of entertainment?... I spend thousands on handbags and my husband on electronics. SC is his relaxation, entertainment and enjoyment. I find your response totally offensive.
    I think sometimes people who live the club life (both dancers and regular customers) just need to remember how all this looks to people who don't. Whether they're right or wrong, "normal" people would find most of what goes on "weird". One small and one big example -- the big one close to the point of this thread.

    Small. I was in last week and a dancer who had been out for a couple of months for a boob job came up to me, pulled her top down, and said "feel them! They're great!" It was, in fact, a good job. I only knew her casually and this wasn't a play for tips. Anywhere else but a strip club, that's not a normal male-female interaction.

    Big. My semi-fave and I have done a lot of talking about the business and her other "guys". Three are supposedly "in love". One of these, over a 4-year period, has given her about $300k. The most she could say to me about her feelings for him, was "I know he really cares about me." To give $300k over 4 years to someone who doesn't feel it back for you...is weird. Pathetic. Some kind of psychosis.

    Perspective.
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    ^People give that much to therapists and sometimes develop "love" feelings for them...

    Bottom line, IMO, everyone in this situation is an adult; an adult should know if they can or cannot deal with the repercussions of their choices. It sounds like some of the ladies don't have an opinion about regulars who spend a lot (other than appreciating the income), some actively like (or at least have some kind of positive feeling about) some of their regulars (in addition to appreciating the income), and some feel sorry for the regulars (while appreciating the income).

    Just my thoughts...

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    I wouldn't have an opinion. Id be happy to take his money. No it's not weird. There's no like or dislike involved.
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