read and tell me if 1) my behaviour was ridic, 2) i could have found better - even for a newbie, 3) i should go back as that's as good as it's gonna get in the beginning, 4) i'm simply not cut out for this, or 5) a combo of 1-4 (please say which ones).
the 2 main reasons i left are because i simply didn't find the club or the girls of a very high quality. most of the dancers spent their time in the change room drinking - to the point that the manager had to come down and yell - and the clientele consisted of a lot of guys who seemed cheap and wanted to watch someone get a dance fromt he corner of their eye rather than pay for it (this could have been them saying no to me, however). also, a lot of the girls weren't working (and were standing around as much as my useless ass, i swear) and they talked about such innappropriate things (i.e. "i'm an ex-coke head" or "my bf beats me") in front of...well...anyone who would listen.
the only thing i actually liked about their behaviour in the club was that they didn't help me out much (although one girl did offer to teach me pole tricks), which i expect as this is supposed to be all about hustling, right?
now, i hope i'm not sounding too judgemental or stupid, but i thought their clothes - inside or outside of the club didn't say "money-maker". i mean, they all had dancer shoes, but their outfits were so...medicore. (e.x. my outfit resembled that of 2 dancers and it was just a shiny tube top that i wore as a dress!) even their style inside the house had me thinking "are they making any money at this club?" i saw no name brand clothing; none of them had a car; a few didn't have their nails done; and simple things that i thought came with being a dancer (paying to get your roots redone?) were not part of their beauty regime.
[aside: the girls i'm talking about here are not newbies and have been there between 1-5 years.]
i only made $40 and i feel like such a loser as it means i only got 2 lapdances (which were actually supposed to be on $10 but i said fuck that and made them pay $20) in 4 h and they threw me on stage where i'm sure i looked like a moron.
i guess i just found that all the dancers wanted to have too much fun. i'm not saying i want to be a bitter-betty and sit in the corner, but when the night was done i simply got ready for bed so i would be refreshed for the next day and most of them wanted to continue drinking and then slept all day.
[aside: i hope i don't sound like an uptight biatch as i'm really not (in fact, i was told i "got naked a little too fast" (lol!), but although i do see this job as fun (albeit, intimidating), my main goal is not to leave with a bunch of friends - it's to leave with a bunch of money!
please be gentle, but tell me your thoughts....
- V



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So, you walk into the club on your first day and immediately start judging all the girls? I don't know about your behaviour, but your thought process definitely seems a little ridic. I mean, it's your first day. Maybe if you spent less time worrying about the other girls, then you'd have made more than $40.
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