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    Im doing a private show on monday for this guys birthday. He informed me that most of the people coming are girls. He wants me to do a little french maid skit when I first come which is fine with me but what else should i do? What are the best acts to put on since i'm the only girl thats gonna be there doing it so i dont get a break for three hours... Which is okay with me since I need the money. Also what should i do to keep myself safe? I'm having my guy friend accompany me there and he's just going to wait outside for a majority of the time. Also my boyfriend lives actually near where this guy lives so i'm going to give him the address and the times I need to check in. What safety equipment should i bring... Im going to bring mace of course but anything else?
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    You can ask a bigger male friend to come along with you as security and pay him $50 or so. He should be inside the party, watching you at all times. If you do whip cream shots he can make sure things don't go too far, etc. Talk to him beforehand about what is and isn't okay, and when to intervene.
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    Also, make sure you get paid upfront! This seems to be the biggest problem I've generally seen with dancers. Most guys would be decent enough to pay afterwards but there are always a few jerks. Besides when you are done you'll want to leave.

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    The private parties I did consisted of doing lap dances for the guests. If you're by yourself you could do a lotion show, candle wax, the body shots are a good idea too.

    Does this guy expect you to entertain for the full three hours? That's a long time to be the only girl. And I hope you're getting payed accordingly. A flat rate upfront plus tips.

    And to echo Laurisa, your bouncer should be INSIDE with you. He doesn't need to be hovering over top of you but should be there if you need him. He's not going to know what's going on if he's standing outside.

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    thanks ladies i just found out its in newark ugh im not sure about being in newark lol that's serious im getting paid about 400 flat plus tips but i dont know if its worth it?
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    To me $400 for three hours is not much. In my area we charge $250 per girl per hour, plus tips.

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