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    Default Do the customers do this just to annoy me and the dancers??

    Last night was my first night visiting one our company clubs and at least six guys came up to me to ask about champagne rooms rates, how to rent out the club, how to buy party packages etc and continue the BS conversation for as long as possible. Then they would go the bouncers and get them something to drink so they could make random conversation. Every time a dancer would walk by, they would laugh and get touchy with whoever they were talking to. After a while, the dancers began complaining that the same men wouldn't buy dances and only wanted to talk.. one of them even told a dancer that he thought too highly of her to buy any service

    An experienced dancer did tell me it was a pick up game but I don't get it.. how does pissing off the entire club get you a date?

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    Default Re: Do the customers do this just to annoy me and the dancers??

    It doesn't. But guys with ego's that big are usually not to bright....
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    Default Re: Do the customers do this just to annoy me and the dancers??

    Its this idea that if you prove to her that you're not just another customer, she'll totally have the hots for you.

    And to prove that you're not a customer, and that you are more than that, you have to waste her time and not buy anything

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    They read this book.

    Quote Originally Posted by deancortez View Post
    Hi, this is Dean Cortez, I'm the author of the "Strip Club Seduction" book that was mentioned earlier, so I'd like to respond. Basically, my book is a how-to guide for guys who want to flirt with dancers and try to have a relationship with them outside of the club.

    Now, I know that dancers want to BASH me for writing such a book (and profiting handsomely from it), but I'd like to explain a few things. And, I'm curious to get your feedback.

    Dean Cortez

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    I think a lot of times this is some mystery method shit. I suppose it's a good method if you want to date really really stupid girls.

    Other times, especially here on bourbon street, these are guys who work in the quarter or are friends with the club staff. They think the fact that their jobs are located on the same street and the door guy is their buddy entitles them to a free show. They're usually huge douchebags and will date the younger dancers who don't know any better.
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    That's so fucking gay in a bad way...why go to an SC to hang out with and talk to the bouncers?

    I swear, Mystery and those other PUA masters are fucking geniuses. They make continual money sending out bad advice to these losers. And when the losers can't "close" a girl, they will keep coming back to the PUA master for more advice and new techniques.

    They are bigger scam artists than most strippers could ever aspire to be.

    Like, really, REALLY? Why would a stripper want to go out with a guy who comes in the club and spends the entire time talking to another MAN....then, won't even tip her onstage of spend a penny? Its like they are drawing a big black X on their forehead, indicating, "defective beta male, stay away."

    Ladies, get to know these wannabe playas very well, they are easy to spot once they begin to reveal their canned strategy. Save yourself the wasted time and the bad mood.

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    It's the changing dynamics in the economy overall that are at play here. Mostly what you are seeing is what is happening across the entire retail/hospitality spectrum: People have less disposable income, therefore they want the most they can get for their money.

    The old business models won't fly anymore. Retailers and restaurants/bars keep marking down prices with the hopes of drumming up more business, but all it is doing is making the customer's expectation of price/value lower than ever before. Innovation is going to be key over the next few years. If you can figure out how to bring uniqueness to an old industry like strip clubs, then you will be rolling in the money. I'm talking the equivelent to the drive-thru window at restaurants type of innovation. Something huge, not just adding some menu items or better merchandise sales (Hooter's has cornered that market anyway).

    I've got some ideas, but I'm keeping them to myself. Besides, club owners/managers don't want to listen to me, anyway.


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    Default Re: Do the customers do this just to annoy me and the dancers??

    Now's the time to do it Paris!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris View Post
    It's the changing dynamics in the economy overall that are at play here. Mostly what you are seeing is what is happening across the entire retail/hospitality spectrum: People have less disposable income, therefore they want the most they can get for their money.

    The old business models won't fly anymore. Retailers and restaurants/bars keep marking down prices with the hopes of drumming up more business, but all it is doing is making the customer's expectation of price/value lower than ever before. Innovation is going to be key over the next few years. If you can figure out how to bring uniqueness to an old industry like strip clubs, then you will be rolling in the money. I'm talking the equivelent to the drive-thru window at restaurants type of innovation. Something huge, not just adding some menu items or better merchandise sales (Hooter's has cornered that market anyway).

    I've got some ideas, but I'm keeping them to myself. Besides, club owners/managers don't want to listen to me, anyway.
    It seems like it is time to revive 'Project: Dream Girls'.

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    Lol this makes me think of this guy I met this wknd in the club. He did pay for 3 dances but sat there asking me tips on how to pick up girls. He seemed to think insulting them was a good technique because then they would be trying to prove him wrong and give him more attention..? I basically told him he is stupid...hmmm maybe that's why he extended. Seriously being a dickhead doesn't impress anyone. Spend tons of money and compliment me at least once every 3 seconds. Go to a bar and drink if your not going to pay for dances!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Lol this makes me think of this guy I met this wknd in the club. He did pay for 3 dances but sat there asking me tips on how to pick up girls. He seemed to think insulting them was a good technique because then they would be trying to prove him wrong and give him more attention..? I basically told him he is stupid...hmmm maybe that's why he extended. Seriously being a dickhead doesn't impress anyone. Spend tons of money and compliment me at least once every 3 seconds. Go to a bar and drink if your not going to pay for dances!
    ...was his name Cyril?
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Seriously being a dickhead doesn't impress anyone.
    If only that were true. Unfortunately there are a lot of dumb girls with low self esteem that are impressed by guys who act like dickheads.
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    WOW! I thought the whole point of going to a SC was to have a good time buying drinks and getting dances from the lovely ladies working there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WiseGuy_TX View Post
    ...was his name Cyril?
    His name was UnwiseGuy_TX.

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    Another failed attempt at a retort. Go back to quoting other people.
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    As Katherine Hepburn put it so eloquently " Nature is what we were put here to rise above"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    Another failed attempt at a retort. Go back to quoting other people.
    Do you know that you are not making any tips while talking to me?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyril View Post
    Do you know that you are not making any tips while talking to me?
    ...nor are you making any stripper friends here (as you claim you came here to do).

    This seems to still apply.

    "He seemed to think insulting them was a good technique because then they would be trying to prove him wrong and give him more attention..?"
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by WiseGuy_TX View Post
    ...nor are you making any stripper friends here (as you claim you came here to do).

    This seems to still apply.

    "He seemed to think insulting them was a good technique because then they would be trying to prove him wrong and give him more attention..?"
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    ...no, he's right. You're definitely not making any stripper friends.
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    As Katherine Hepburn put it so eloquently " Nature is what we were put here to rise above"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    ...no, he's right. You're definitely not making any stripper friends.
    That is water under the bridge now. Or should I say, it is a lost cause now.

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    ...no, she's right. You're still not making any stripper friends.
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by WiseGuy_TX View Post
    ...no, she's right. You're still not making any stripper friends.
    That is no longer valid.

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    ...it still is.
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    ...no, he's right. You're definitely not making any stripper friends.
    Stripper friends do not exist although relationships do.

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    I have lots of stripper friends.

    Guess things don't suck as much around here as they do in New Jersey.
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