
Originally Posted by
black_widow
...As to whether it bothers me or not--I will have to say, sometimes it does. But I just deal and continue on with the program because it really, really works. I used to HATE looking at dudes so much I never did it. I rarely ever do it in real life, and prior to dancing, I probably never looked people in the eye. It freaks me out. But at work, I do it cuz I know it will make money and in the dark of the club, it's not that intense. Putting hair in your eye also works well, so the gaze isn't as intense. I also like to look at the man's iris--not right into his pupils, and it seems less intense too. But you WANT it to be intense, to seem real, so mostly I fake it and pretend I'm acting in a movie and that I DO really want this person, that I am seducing them yadda yadda yadda. That works the best, and I guess the more you do it, the better you become.
But I do think that if you're not comfortable with it, don't do it. Just know though, that it DOES make you a lot of money. Guys love it and buy it, and pay good money for it. It beats the alternatives of grinding or actually dancing. I'd rather sit on a guys lap and stare into his eyes than grind. Any day of the week.
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