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    Ladies,

    What do you think of male employees of your strip clubs? I am not talking about male bartenders, cooks and waiters. I am more specifically talking about male employees who make their living from the tip outs, e.g., DJs and bouncers.

    Do you hold them in a high esteem? Or, do you find it hard to respect them because of the manner they chose to make their living in?

    What goes through your mind when you have to give your hard earned wrinkled dollars in the dark of a strip club’s parking lot to a DJ or a bouncer?

    I am curious about your thought. The reason for that is I would never feel comfortable making my living that way. I am not trying to judge anyone; the objective here is to understand the thought process, which rationalizes such professions. Therefore, it will be a good idea to hear from strippers, DJs, bouncers and alike.

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    ...why would you want to carry an insulting conversation with SW girls over this topic?
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    ...and who does tip outs in dark parking lots?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    ...and who does tip outs in dark parking lots?
    Do you do the tip outs right in front of customers in the club? Please describe how do you carry out the tip outs?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyril View Post
    Do you do the tip outs right in front of customers in the club? Please describe how do you carry out the tip outs?
    Usually, yes. Unless it's after closing and the customers are all gone. We certainly don't go into the parking lot to do it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    Usually, yes. Unless it's after closing and the customers are all gone. We certainly don't go into the parking lot to do it.
    What about those girls who go home at 10pm? Do they do tip outs in the parking lot or in front of customers in the club?

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    At the clubs I worked at, it's usually pretty out in the open. I don't think most customers really notice it but no, it's not that hidden at any of the clubs I've worked at. They usually just walk around and hand some folded up bills out to whoever they're tipping out. I have never heard of anyone going into the parking lot to do tip outs, unless maybe the bouncer walked you to your car and you are tipping him for that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    At the clubs I worked at, it's usually pretty out in the open. I don't think most customers really notice it but no, it's not that hidden at any of the clubs I've worked at. They usually just walk around and hand some folded up bills out to whoever they're tipping out.
    Do you feel resentment towards DJs and bouncers whom you are forced to tip? In the case of bouncers, they keep you safe but DJs simply change the CDs.

    Do you feel blackmailed by DJs? Meaning, if you do not tip them the kind of amount they want, they do not play the kind of music that will make you money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyril View Post
    Do you feel resentment towards DJs and bouncers whom you are forced to tip? In the case of bouncers, they keep you safe but DJs simply change the CDs.

    Do you feel blackmailed by DJs? Meaning, if you do not tip them the kind of amount they want, they do not play the kind of music that will make you money.
    In most clubs the DJ's are responsible for the stage rotation. Keeping the stages full while at the same time working with the dancers to make adjustments when they have an opportunity to go into VIP with a customer. That job is much more important to a dancer making money than what she dances to on stage.

    By the way, most clubs with DJs don't use CD's anymore. The music is on a computer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyril View Post
    Do you feel resentment towards DJs and bouncers whom you are forced to tip? In the case of bouncers, they keep you safe but DJs simply change the CDs.

    Do you feel blackmailed by DJs? Meaning, if you do not tip them the kind of amount they want, they do not play the kind of music that will make you money.

    It really depends. I've been on friendly terms with most staff members, and most of the clubs I've worked at have had minimal tip outs, so it doesn't often bring up feelings of resentment. But no, I don't actually think too highly of the tip out system. I think the club should just pay their staff a living wage, as I think all industries should.

    I'm also against the house fee, and I think dancers should be paid a wage and be allowed to keep all our tips. But then, I grew up in western Europe for much of my childhood, and I think businesses should be held to a higher standard in the states when it comes to taking care of their employees.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    I think businesses should be held to a higher standard in the states when it comes to taking care of their employees.
    We have/had a system of represented employees to insure an equitable distribution of the pie. SC have a totally unique way of doing business; they make the most important people pay the other workers. Whoever thought up this hustle is truly the greatest hustler of all time. He usually gets free blow jobs too.

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    We have/had a system of represented employees to insure an equitable distribution of the pie.
    I disagree. The minimum wage is not a livable wage.
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    As Katherine Hepburn put it so eloquently " Nature is what we were put here to rise above"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    I disagree. The minimum wage is not a livable wage.
    Look up represented employee. It is a modern term not as obscure as "It is balloon".

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    ^^^ No thanks. I'm gonna go ahead and assume that there was no literal axe in need of actual sharpening.

    I just find it really irksome when people say "literally" when they don't mean it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyril View Post
    Do you feel resentment towards DJs and bouncers whom you are forced to tip? In the case of bouncers, they keep you safe but DJs simply change the CDs.

    Do you feel blackmailed by DJs? Meaning, if you do not tip them the kind of amount they want, they do not play the kind of music that will make you money.
    Unless this is some sort of bizarre joke, you have no fucking clue what goes on in a stripclub.

    I make very, very good money because I bust my ass to take the best care of the dancers as I can, which entails far, far more than changing CDs (actually I haven't used CDs in years but that's beside the point). The dancers aren't stupid, they generally appreciate the difference a good DJ will make and tip accordingly.

    Of course there are a few dancers who actually think DJs do nothing but change CDs, but they are generally idiots. Then again it must be said there are a few worthless DJs out there--just as there are worthless dancers, worthless bouncers, worthless managers, and worthless customers. So it goes...

    Usually the dancers, who appreciate getting tipped for working hard onstage, are very happy to tip a DJ working hard to keep the stage show going, and the guys tipping and buying dances.

    But if I am busting my ass and a dancer stiffs me for tips every time, I'll be damned if I will play anything but what I think the crowd wants to hear. It's quite rare, but it has happened a few times in ten years.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyril View Post
    Do you feel resentment towards DJs and bouncers whom you are forced to tip? In the case of bouncers, they keep you safe but DJs simply change the CDs.

    Do you feel blackmailed by DJs? Meaning, if you do not tip them the kind of amount they want, they do not play the kind of music that will make you money.
    Do you feel blackmailed by your waitress when you go out to dinner Cyril? Do you think that she is going to spit in your food because you didn't tip her the last time you where at the Sizzler?

    Do you think that waitress resents it when she tips the bus-boy for helping keep her tables clean all night so that she can serve more people and make more money?

    It appears that you have put the ladies back on a pedestal and re-focused your moral outrage at the support staff inside strip clubs. Too bad that, as usual, you have no fucking idea what you are talking about.

    Maybe you should concentrate your efforts on developing a virtual non-reality interactive strip club game. You could sit in a chair, put a goofy headgear and imagine that you are in a strip club and everything is running exactly as you think it should...
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    Ah, we have Cyril on 'form' again. Firstly, let us remind ourselves of the basis of Cyril's expertise in strip venues....

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    That is ridiculous. Even though California is the only place where I set my foot in the strip clubs but even there the total count of my strip club visits was less than half a dozen.
    And his original motive in coming onto the site....

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    Of course, I believe in what I type...I came to this site with a great hope of becoming friends with a stripper but now I am not sure I want to be friends with a stripper.
    And now Cyril, would you remind us of what parallel universe you have escaped from?

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    I don't know who tips our in a parking lot, that is one motherfucking ghetto club, but anyway...

    it would entirely depend on the bouncer or DJ, like strippers they are not just carbon copies of each other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Do you think that she is going to spit in your food because you didn't tip her the last time you where at the Sizzler?
    OT: What?! Is Sizzler still around? It must have been at least 15 years since I've last seen a Sizzler.


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    OT cont.- We still have a Sizzler. If you drive by at 4:00 pm you can tell what day it is by which Retirement Home bus is parked out front. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bob_Loblaw View Post
    OT: What?! Is Sizzler still around? It must have been at least 15 years since I've last seen a Sizzler.
    Oh heck yeah!

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    Quote Originally Posted by audrey_k View Post
    I don't know who tips our in a parking lot, that is one motherfucking ghetto club, but anyway...



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    ...it would entirely depend on the bouncer or DJ, like strippers they are not just carbon copies of each other.
    Succinct and to the point. So very true!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    I But no, I don't actually think too highly of the tip out system. I think the club should just pay their staff a living wage, as I think all industries should.

    I'm also against the house fee, and I think dancers should be paid a wage and be allowed to keep all our tips.
    Interesting, what you suggested above is what I proposed in Project: Dream Girls thread. Of course, you were vehemently against my ideas in Project: Dream Girls if my memory serves me right. What made the change in heart?

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    Quote Originally Posted by audrey_k View Post
    I don't know who tips our in a parking lot, that is one motherfucking ghetto club, but anyway...

    it would entirely depend on the bouncer or DJ, like strippers they are not just carbon copies of each other.
    The point here is not individual DJs but the nature of a profession which relies on taking cuts from women who have to take their clothes off for money. How do these men rationalize what they do? Majority of men that I know will have problem with taking cuts from a woman who made her buck in a very vulnerable condition - hustling nude.

    Men are conditioned to give money to women not take from them. This is what makes me curious about the psyche of these men who work as DJs and bouncers at strip clubs.

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    Nobody works for free, unless they are morons or independently wealthy maybe.

    Since management will not pay DJs and bouncers enough to make it worthwhile, and put the burden on the dancers, that's where the money comes from.

    I have no hesitation whatsoever about taking tips from dancers. Since more than half of them tip me more than the minimum required, and many tip double or more, they apparently don't mind the arrangement.
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