how many of you had divorced parents growing up?
my parents are splitting up, the problem is that i have a younger sister (shes 9). They argue and its been getting more intense lately. Today they made the decision to split after going to one council session.
Mom is moving out of their house and living with a friend. My sister will be back and forth. I know that this is hard on her. I went through it growing up and i want to be able to confort her, i dont know how. Im afraid my memories are somewhat blocked and im not sure what gave me some comfort.
I know being there as often as i can will help.
Problem is.. Im broke. I had made previous booking plans with clubs in the midwest and living out of my car plans (its ironic that the homeless post was made). not only to make money, time to get in shape and get a better hustle and wider experiences.
if this is the option i go with, ill fly (or drive BACK) during xmas. a ticket would be about 350 roundtrip and continue my bookings when i arrive back. This option isn't so good on time spent with her.
Now that all of this has happened i have another option, staying here, losing weight and getting back into the clubs in this area. It changes my plans. I've been so selfish putting on all this weight, now i have to deal with the side effects!
advice?
good ways to talk to her about what the hell is going on?
or what i should do work wise?



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