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    hello all!


    As a stripper, I've been offered sex for money many times!

    So it started out with OTC meetings, i would get paid to smoke pot with him and go out to lunch.

    I was able to drag this out for quite a bit, having him meet me in the club to spend money on me, buying pot from me at double the price ( he would tell me to get an oz and keep half of it, although id keep the cash instead), buying me gifts and being very open about his personal life.

    He started to talk to me about my goals and plans for life. I opened up to him, it made me feel good to talk about these things. He said that it was important to him to know that i had idea of my future, and what i was going to be doing with the money i was earning.

    I also learned that he was pretty wealthy, again, how many of us have met wealthy men? Many, I'm sure.

    Well here it is, at cross roads. Can i type this out? haha, $ for er.... private private time. Where would it stop? Its different from my original job description, a stripper. I don't have any negative feelings for the escorting business. Is this for me though?

    Other things to put in perspective.. I have a S.O. I've talked to him about it, we have a strong relationship. I know this will really put us through the test. I know he doesn't like the idea, it would hurt him. I also know that he will love me either way, we understand the difference between love and sex.

    Another thing to consider, I've used money stupidly lately (key word lately! I'm usually very good at this). Besides what i have in safe, which i refuse to even think about, i have hardly any cash. I have been the "bread winner" in our relationship and for myself for a long time. At this point i am borrowing money from him here and there, not a lot, we have to deal with less money though.

    Recently i have gone from a good diet, to eating badly saying.. "this will be the last time i do this! after today ill eat a great diet!" I've fallen off from the gym.


    Maybe these things factor in to me looking at a change in line of work. It comes down to me, and my life. I know the money potential is great.

    I have apprehensions about others finding out, i have some good friends at work.
    My regular is in an important, well paid position and i think he is just as cautious as me in this sense.


    My question to you all is how do you take sex offers ? what are your reasonings to either deny or accept this type of work?

    if you are an escort, what are some of the reasons that make you enjoy your job.

    if i decide to try escorting i wouldn't try to get my customers from the club, id start up a whole new business. Id save my money, and be smart with it.


    what are the questions i should be asking myself, to decided if this is for me or not?

    also, do you work the city you live in?
    is it possible to strip in the same city and keep things under wraps?
    or would you rather not strip any more after doing this work, because?


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    I've thought about escorting on numerous occations. I would do it, but I'm chickin shit. I'm afraid I'll get murderd. As stupid as that sounds. It's simply outta fear. But I wish I could do it.

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    Both of you...pm me. lol. i started as a dancer...and went on to be a companion. i did it the wrong way though...with pimps and crap agencies. I finally went indy Jan of this year...and yes, while it is hard work, i enjoy it. i have complete control over all aspects of the job.

    I love it because Its mine....its MY business. My success depends on how much i am willing to put forth. Whatever i make..half goes to real life, the other half goes into my business.

    Now, I do want to go back into dancing again..no lie, mainly for the health benefits. Its a great and free form of exercise for me. No lie. No, i would never book clients from whatever club i worked at. I have a sense of fair play and that, in my book, would not be right to the owner.

    I have built my own website, screen my clients, do my own advertising and marketing..and have met some amazing people doing what i do. I have been taken on wonderful trips, lived a good life.

    Its not all roses though. i work hard to get what i have now. I take nothing for granted. I always keep my safety first and foremost...Even my ads...the text of them...i dont use all the popular acronyms and stuff like that. heck, i market myself as a fine living companion..i ditched the escort title a while ago I set and keep my standards.

    If you are up to some hard, stressful work..then I say this is for you. Understand...you will have to put a lot of work into it, if you decide to go independent. I suggest finding a good agency (one that keeps your safety first and foremost...and there are ways to tell if they do) and seeing what your comfort level is. Then go from there....a background in retail sales, especially commission based sales, will def help you. If you know how to hustle, then you will do fine. We all start off somewhere...at the bottom even. I started on crap sites until i got enough to pay for advertising on the good sites. Oh yah...advertising is not cheap...if you want to get the good clients/exposure. I spend about 500 a month just in advertising alone.

    Hell, i joined this board to get back into dancing....and i keep finding these types of posts. lol.

    Any questions, feel free to pm me. I dont mind answering basic questions.

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    ^ thank you hun for all your help.
    I respect all types of sex workers and ive decided that this wasnt for me. I want the process of making money be enjoyable to me, and for me this isnt a fit. I love dancing

    I hope that you enjoy getting back into stripping ! it is a damn good workout! it sure keeps you buisy!


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    Quote Originally Posted by yogibear179 View Post
    ^ thank you hun for all your help.
    I respect all types of sex workers and ive decided that this wasnt for me. I want the process of making money be enjoyable to me, and for me this isnt a fit. I love dancing

    I hope that you enjoy getting back into stripping ! it is a damn good workout! it sure keeps you buisy!

    Escorting is alot more complicated, maybe you want to try webcamming its less invasive.
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    Quote Originally Posted by yogibear179 View Post
    ^ thank you hun for all your help.
    I respect all types of sex workers and ive decided that this wasnt for me. I want the process of making money be enjoyable to me, and for me this isnt a fit. I love dancing

    I hope that you enjoy getting back into stripping ! it is a damn good workout! it sure keeps you buisy!
    Good for You ! Sometimes the best moves in life are the ones you DON'T make.

    I would have advised you, on balance, NOT to do it. Escorting is NOT something you can just dip your toe into. If you're going to do it and be successful at it, you have to make a serious commitment to it and know and be 100% comfortable with what you're doing.

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    escorting takes a told on you.. you are sooooo lonely waiting in the room or going to the other place whatever.. its lonellly.. I have tryed to escort here where I live its just not big enough and in near by (two hours away) its too many girls..
    I go on tour on two hour drive to the airport then 5 hours on a plane and I bannkkkk but its soooo lonely!!! I have tryed to hook up with other girls but they are too busy or too tired after work.. our agency is great like really.. they help us in everything, if you miss your plane they will get you a room at a nice place, they try to keep you on track of your other goals like school, make sure your not emtionally stressed about it.. I was really luck to find them but its still loney..
    Its all about the money for me.. Ive been thinking about taking off from school and it ends up Ill have to, which sucks but then again if I go make half of what I make now on tour for 15 weeks Ill make about 45k in 6 months.. umm sounds great to me! Im going to pay off my car, BAD ASS birthday vacation, and down payment on a house =)

    so if you way out the pros and cons I think the pros are better.. when I first herd of escorting I was in shock! but now Im doing it.


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