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    I had an audition today at hustler and totally pussied out. I'm super mad at myself. I got ready and packed my bag with my heels and a few outfits, and as soon as I got out of the cab and saw the bouncer at the door, i panicked and ran away. My girlfriend dances there and told her boss about me, now she's super pissed I didn't come in. I don;t know what came over me I just got super nervous and told myself I couldn't do it? I've only danced one time before in miami and it didnt go so well... whats wrong with me?!! im stressed out now how am i gonna pay my bills? has this happened to any of you guys

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    I didn't chicken out once arriving, but I put off auditioning/applying for a couple of months. I was being a huge chicken. I made every excuse. "What if the money is really shitty, I can't afford the background check, What if I suck doing my first stage set, what if I can't handle the customers, etc?"

    I finally buckled down and did it. I ended up not having to actually audition. However, I almost chickened out showing up for my first shift. I also was so scared about going up on stage. Luckily, the place was like dead. So, it was no big deal. I learned to just ignore who is watching and just concentrate on my moves.

    It will be okay. *hugs* Maybe you're not ready. Maybe that particular club isn't for you. Or perhaps you are just being silly like I was.

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    Lady, I've seen your pictures on myspace, you are gorgeous! Wtf? Why are you nervous?
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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    Lady, I've seen your pictures on myspace, you are gorgeous! Wtf? Why are you nervous?
    thank you babe xxx i dont know why i wish i wasnt

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    im sure your manager is "pissed" because you are super hot and he would love to have you work for him.

    haha but really, it happens!

    take it in stride and make a pac to yourself, you are going to hang on and march right in there, no matter what!
    no iffys or buttys, make that damn decision and let no one stop you! especially yourself

    you know you look great naked, and men would be blessed to see you ! i bet they oggle you already and you know it girl.


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    Just go and keep in mind that no one is perfect. Half the battle is just getting up there and being able to take off your clothes. You're pretty too, you'll do fine.
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    I came really close to chickening out when I auditioned. I was so nervous I was shaking. To get through it, I just stopped thinking about it. Just turn your brain off long enough to get out of the car and walk into the door. After I got in, I was actually really at ease. Everyone was so nice at my club (hopefully it is the same for you). I'm sure that if you find a nice club, they will understand that you are a newbie and really nervous.

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    It happened to me before so I know how you feel. I'm not sure about you, but I fear rejection so I tend to avoid taking risks as much as I can help it. lol. What helps me with my anxiety is that I remind myself that there are always other options, but you won't know unless you try. I prepare myself mentally for the worse if I don't get hired for any reasons. I tell myself to stay positive and do my part, what others think and do is beyond my control. You are beautiful and you will get hire! good luck

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    I chickened out my first time, too--in fact, it took me EIGHT YEARS to summon up the courage to go back. But after that, it was on.

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    Girl, you're hot and you CAN do it! Buck up, go back there and wow them all!!!


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    thak you guys xxx

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    Go back and do it!

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    gonna try again next week!

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    hi there read this n tell me i wasnt you too!!
    i work there, and yes its been an experience.... but so far so good! shoot me a pic and next week ill make sure i say hi to u! ;]

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    ^^ Listen to goldi, totally. She went through the whole process.

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