My boyfriends birthday is coming up and I'd like to take him for dance at a strip club (not mine). I'm a tiny bit worried he won't go along with it tho. He went to clubs in michigan/canada before we met. He got BJ once, went home with a girl yadda yadda yadda. Yet since dating a stripper for the last two years (me), he now says it isn't Sexy!! I've repeatedly mentioned we should go as customers and he always tells me it wouldn't turn him on and that he doesn't find it sexy to watch strippers disrobe.
Do you think he's bluffing? Like he just says that to reinforce the notion in my head that I shouldn't be dancing?
I have 2 theories: One is that going to a club as customers would "normalize" the event so much that all of my convictions to someday quit would fade away, we become lifestyle perverts...hahaha
and TWO- it will open Pandora's box for him because now he KNOWS there are hot sexy ladies willing to grind on him and I basically gave my stamp of approval for him to get some. Like maybe he's afraid of his own male sexual drive and after getting dances, pornography/fantasy will be a pale substitute to the warm boobies a strange female.
What do you think?![]()



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