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    Ok...I'm 5"7 140lbs my measurments are 32DD-27-38. i have pretty nice round hips butt not alot of ass and thighs at all! I work in Black "booty shake" type clubs in the DC area and It seems that Im always singled out as the "Girl with the big titts and no ass"!!!

    Comments like that didnt bother me at first but recently it's been getting under my skin! I know I have a nice body and a pretty face but it's really discouraging when i see all the girls with the phat asses banking every night when i can barley make $200!

    How in the hell can I make my butt bigger without gaining weight all over or getting a hard muscle butt!

    I heard some people talk about natural supplements or injections???

    Please help I would really love to be able to bank in a black "ASS" club!

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    I had a girlfriend down in Florida who felt like this and she told me about girls getting injections in their behinds and all the crazy things they were doing to make their asses bigger.

    If you really want a larger behind then check out some implants, pills aren't proven to work and those injections could be potentially very dangerous.

    And if it comes down to it, go to a club where your body will be appreciated and not scrutinized!

    Best of luck and I hope someone gives some good tips.

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    I used to work with a girl who got the injections and something went wrong. It is disproportioned to the point where it looks like a defect. I currently work in the opposite type of club, the fake boob playboy centerfold type club and having always been coined "the white girl with the booty" and "snow butt" I didn't think I was going to do well and honestly I didn't until I stopped worrying about it. Turns out a lot of men like that too. Men like all different types.

    I think squats are probably your best option. I do them and it seems to keep the damn thing round at least. And I wouldn't worry about gaining too much muscle, having it helps and turns out you need it to pop your booty lol

    Tikismall made a good point too. If your hustle is good and you think you could do better at a different club, I would definitely check some out.

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    Eat more Twinkies! Just kidding!

    Seriously girlfriend, everybody has their shortcomings - get it? Every "body?" If the booty business is all that down there, maybe I should move, because I'm always getting told that my ass is fabulous, but I I'm short and petite. My biggest wish is that I could be of average height in comparison to other women, I'm five feet tall, and often I feel like I'm someone's daughter when these statuesque ladies are near me. I'm sort of hourglass, but I'm still short. There's no way I can trick anyone into believing anything else either. What I've figured out is, it's always something, and you're never going to be able to please everyone.

    My advice to you is to maybe do one of those exercise regimens which target the butt, and maybe tone up what you have. Also, learn how to dress to accentuate what ass you DO have. I don't know what kind of club you work in and if there's a dress code, or what your entire body looks like, but surely there are a few outfits out there that might help you look like you've got more badonkadonk than you actually have. Hipster shorts, or those booty shorts they make that are ruched/gathered on the seam, or shorter dresses and skirts might be a way to trick the eye into thinking you've got it going on back there. These are all good alternatives to cosmetic enhancements, or things you can do in the meantime if you are actually considering some kind of cosmetic enhancement procedure. I personally don't think you should have your butt worked on, because there's somebody for everybody, and maybe these girls here are right. You're just working in the wrong venue. If you've got bangin' beeboos, and a face to die for, find someplace where you can be appreciated for what you DO have. Besides, what's an ass anyway? If that's the first thing a guy notices about you, maybe you better work on your posture.

    Good luck, you'll get it figured out. I'm confident you'll make the right choice.

    By the way, here's those bottoms I'm talking about, I see plenty of girls with these on, and I think they're cute. This model doesn't have the greatest booty, but those shorts are kind of flattering on her. I can't ever recall seeing this style of shorts/bottoms on anyone and thinking they looked bad.
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    Try emphasizing your derrière by wearing short skirts with a frill to create a shaplier illusion.

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    Seriously, squats with weights do WONDERS. They give you that shelf booty!! and personally the T Back thong makes mine pop out. Mines big anyhow but I know what you mean, try a t back. makes the booty really pop. and the squats!

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    wow...you guys have really given me some great advice!!!...im gonna start going to the gym and working on my abs and doing tons of squats!!!

    THANKS SOOO MUCH

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    Quote Originally Posted by blacbarbie86 View Post
    Ok...I'm 5"7 140lbs my measurments are 32DD-27-38. i have pretty nice round hips butt not alot of ass and thighs at all! I work in Black "booty shake" type clubs in the DC area and It seems that Im always singled out as the "Girl with the big titts and no ass"!!!

    Comments like that didnt bother me at first but recently it's been getting under my skin! I know I have a nice body and a pretty face but it's really discouraging when i see all the girls with the phat asses banking every night when i can barley make $200!

    How in the hell can I make my butt bigger without gaining weight all over or getting a hard muscle butt!

    I heard some people talk about natural supplements or injections???

    Please help I would really love to be able to bank in a black "ASS" club!

    All I can say is that some things you just have to live without. If you weren't born with a big ass, then chances are you won't get it no matter what you do. I wouldn't try to gain weight to get a big booty because that won't work, you'll just look bigger and still you won't have a booty. Implants I wouldn't get because that's still doesn't look natural and the injections are very dangerous and leaves scars where they inject the needles. The only thing you can do is squats, it may or maynot give you a little bump. Ass is the only thing you can't really get if you don't already have it. It's not all about having a huge booty. I'm glad my ass isn't as large as it use to be. I have a size 19 waist 35 and a half around the hips and 36 full c small d boobs. I love my body, I used to be a lot bigger around the hip area because my booty was probably 2 sizes bigger my whole child hood and teenage life with a tiny waist. I hated it. Girls with ass make money in booty clubs because that's what the guys come in there for. YOu may want to try another club. Because you won't make money in those type of clubs if you don't have what they guys are looking for.
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    Keep in mind that the places where your body deposits fat is genetic. Your body shape will stay relatively the same as you gain or lose weight, so this won't really help give you a booty. Squats will actually probably help a lot, you will build and tone lots of muscle in your ass and this will help the fat over it stick out and look more shapely.

    Can you do some booty-popping tricks? If you are really good at them people won't care so much or even notice that you don't have a ghetto booty. Also, try wearing some skirts of shorts that are short enough to end just above the roundest part of your ass, if you know what I mean. This creates the illusion that your butt is bigger than it really is. Wearing garters at the very top of your thigh just below the buttcheek can also give it a boost. (A girl I work with was actually just talking about this last night, she was calling them butt bump-its )

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    Try the squats, it can't hurt and excercise can only help, not hurt you.

    I don't know how many options there are in the DC area for you to try, but I know switching clubs doesn't always work. Depending on how hiring standards are where you live- you may be too voluptuous for the mixed clubs, or they have a maxed quota already, which means you may have to stay where you are or go to another place which means the same things may happen.

    It is easy for some to say it's not such a big deal when it isn't something they may have experience with. I have seen firsthand and heard gripes from other dancers who have less derriere than most in a black club. You can camoflage breasts, tummies, legs, but an ass- nope.

    I know women who've had little booty go get shots, then when they return, usually things are much better for them. I can't speak for myself, because I don't have any. I will say that putting on weight naturally which thankfully goes to my butt has made quite a few people notice and it wasn't that big of a change. So imagine going from little to much. It will be a big change which will be noticed by most. That is exactly why in so many clubs once one or two women get injections, many others follow suit.

    You have to decide whether the risks outweigh the gains. I don't believe the shots themselves are dangerous because they are done elsewhere in other medically responsible countries. Here you just don't know what you may get, which can lead to big problems. That's all before the health risks to your body which you won't know about until you get the procedure done.

    All in all, if you don't go the augmentation route, squats and better confidence will be the best you can do.
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    me I am happy with my tight little ass very firm very cute guys seem to like it too so move to a club that likes you for what you are although I did get a boob job I must admit so I do have some big to show off :-))
    small and cute

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    I use 2-5lb ankle weights and then do either ballet tondues (point front, side, back, side) and then take it off the floor. I also get down on hand and knees (with something really soft under the knees) and do the fire hydrant lifts and donkey kicks. Basically just isolating those gluteul muscles and demanding them to work really hard.

    Also a frilly skirt or tutu would look nice and compensate for your larger chest.

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    garters!! or really high stockings! wear them so they are right under your butt cheek, and make sure they are tight. they will accentuate whatever is there. (i learned this the wrong way- skinny white girl with a big butt-- but if someone could use it, that would make me so happy.. lol)

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    How about working in a different club? Instead of changing your body, change your clientele! Come out to the upscale clubs in Bmore; like Hustler, Scores, or the Gold Club. You can make a lot more money in those kinds of clubs with less work. All of that booty clapping is tiring, why not make money from flirting and selling lapdances?
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    Quote Originally Posted by blacbarbie86 View Post
    Ok...I'm 5"7 140lbs my measurments are 32DD-27-38. i have pretty nice round hips butt not alot of ass and thighs at all! I work in Black "booty shake" type clubs in the DC area and It seems that Im always singled out as the "Girl with the big titts and no ass"!!!

    Comments like that didnt bother me at first but recently it's been getting under my skin! I know I have a nice body and a pretty face but it's really discouraging when i see all the girls with the phat asses banking every night when i can barley make $200!

    How in the hell can I make my butt bigger without gaining weight all over or getting a hard muscle butt!

    I heard some people talk about natural supplements or injections???

    Please help I would really love to be able to bank in a black "ASS" club!
    those measurements sound like you have quite a rump.

    Why dont you try an upscale club? It sounds like you are toned, and black girls who dont look quite as bootilicious and look more "white" usually do well, as far as ive seen. And upscale clubs will hire a black girl who is a bit more "white" looking.

    I feel like im being really ignorant typing this out, especially since i have no idea what you look like, and im hoping this doenst come across as offensive. I am assuming that if everyone comments on your lack of an ass when you have those measurements, that your body is more in the "white girl" category. If it is out of place in a way that is hurting your money at the black clubs, switch up the type of club! You would probably have the best booty at the more white clubs and could bank!
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    blacbarbie86, my hip measurement is about your size now and i've had no one tell me my butt is too small in any club. i think that ur sweater puppets are either outshining your booty, or the customers may be referring to how your tush sits if you catch where i'm coming from. my ass sits high so it's always noticed.

    i suggest learning some booty popping tricks if you don't do them already and some butt exercises with a fitness ball. find those muscles and shape them.

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    they are some what uncomfortable but a thong kinda makes your butt pop thts what I find when looking at pics of my butt in a thong
    small and cute

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    Quote Originally Posted by blaze_n_hot View Post
    How about working in a different club? Instead of changing your body, change your clientele! Come out to the upscale clubs in Bmore; like Hustler, Scores, or the Gold Club. You can make a lot more money in those kinds of clubs with less work. All of that booty clapping is tiring, why not make money from flirting and selling lapdances?
    Exactly! I don't do poles, sweating or anything that would make me tired! lol. I'm a sensual seductress so I like to sit and talk to make money!!! I don't even like going on stage really. I suggest that she does change clubs because she could make money other places rather than a booty loving club.
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    I think Michelle is right. I don't have much ass, but I wear my garters right under my ass cheek and it does make the little butt I do have look good. You should try that and see if it works for you also.
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    DO NOT GET INJECTIONS! THere are no FDA approved injections and people getting them are getting them in hotel rooms (soooo sanitary), by people with no medical knowledge, and are usually getting raw silicone. At one point there was an FDA approved injection that got pulled. They haven't made that drug at all for over a year and the one plant in china that made it is closed so there in 0 chance that you'd be getting even that. Unless you want cancer in a few years, auto immune disorders and raw silicone being carried all over your body do not do this. Find a different club if you need to, but don't risk your health like that.

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    If you go to the gym they have a machine called the glute press. I used to do 3 sets of 20 with 70 lbs., and the squats I hear are great. I work in a gym and the women that do the squats have the best asses I've ever seen, and they're white girls!!

    I have no ass at all, and I'm to lazy to work out for it, but when I was dancing I would stay far away from the black clubs for that very reason. You get singled out and kinda feel like an idiot, especially me bc I'm a stick!

    Also, someone suggested squats with weights, do you mean hold dumbells while you're doing squats, and if so how much weight and what do the weights do? I thought they toned your arms or something else, while you're working on your butt.

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    I am a white girl and have a huge ass and 32 As. If I can make money as a white girl with no boobs you can make money as a black girl with a small ass.

    The problem isn't your butt, it's your confidence.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pogocat View Post
    DO NOT GET INJECTIONS! THere are no FDA approved injections and people getting them are getting them in hotel rooms (soooo sanitary), by people with no medical knowledge, and are usually getting raw silicone. At one point there was an FDA approved injection that got pulled. They haven't made that drug at all for over a year and the one plant in china that made it is closed so there in 0 chance that you'd be getting even that. Unless you want cancer in a few years, auto immune disorders and raw silicone being carried all over your body do not do this. Find a different club if you need to, but don't risk your health like that.
    This is so true, I've seen the tragic stories on television and a girl I know got injections in her butt and she doesn't even know what it is. She claims the lady was a dr but she didn't do it in her office and she said some name of the supposed water injections and I asked my dr and he's never heard of it before and he also said there isn't anything on the market that's approved for butt injections. The only thing that's approved to be put in your ass is implants. I couldn't believe this girl was so stupid to get this stuff and it left black spots where the needles had been injected on her ass. she keeps claiming the lady said they'll go away. But I don't think it was a water filler that she put in her ass, I think it was silicone because it's still there. I told her she shouldn't have done that. I feel sorry for her because she's going to face a lot of health problems and silicone moves, so here ass will start looking a hot mess in a little. I advise noone to do this.
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    Holding weights while doing squats adds more resistance, therefore making ur glutes work harder, giving u a nice shape to ya booty! Not meant to tone the arms during the workout.....
    I hold my boyfriends 25 lb weights in each hand. killer but thats the lightest he has. lol but it works!

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    I don't see why you would want a butt. Most men don't like it.. believe it or not. Depends where you're working though. I don't have a "fat ass" but I banked dancing and never really had trouble making money.

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