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    How am I suppose to do this? I'm a single mom in school and getting ready to start a new job. I don't work in a club. I'm a cam girl so this should be easy right. Wrong! I wake up at 6am to work out til 7 so I can then get me and my baby ready to be out the house by 8am. My new job will have me working til about 9pm. Then I'll have my kindergardener, homework and still need to cam after she's asleep. There aren't enough hours in the day. Help!

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    Wow, your average day seems pretty full! I'm almost afraid to ask what your schedule is like on the weekends!

    There's plenty of money to be made on weekends if you're camming. Have you thought about maybe taking Monday - Wednesday off from camming, and just focusing on studying and spending time with your baby? Then you could cam Thursday - Saturday/Sunday, or something. It's not much, but at least you'd be getting some time in.

    I don't know how much you make camming, or how heavily you rely on your camming checks, but is having someone watch your baby for an hour or two in the evenings an option for you? Of course, you'd probably have to pay them for their time, but if you need to make your cam cash, that would be one way to get it done. Plus, that way you'd be able to at least get in SOME uninterrupted camming time during the week if your weekends are busy too.

    If you're working until 9pm, and you have to be up by 6am the following day, maybe another alternative would be to increase your rate per minute slightly, and work fewer hours so that you're not a 'complete' zombie the next day. I know it sucks, but if you want to make your camming money, it'll have to do for now. I'm sure you probably have studying to do as well, but if you limit yourself to a certain amount of camming time like an hour per night or something, you might be able to get that and other things done before you have to be asleep.

    I'm sure you probably know that some nights and times are slower than others when you're camming. Maybe you could figure out a way to get some studying done while you're waiting for customers to take you private. That's probably not the "greatest" idea, and it should probably be your last resort if you just can't compromise on the amount of time you need to put in on cam. Hell, I've seen some girls reading and playing games on their phone and texting people and just blowing off their free chat altogether. I don't know how well they do ignoring customers like that, but I assume they're making money because they're still camming. The first drawback is: you could end up being really distracted while you were studying AND trying to maintain a conversation with customers, which decreases the quality of their experience (especially if you have regulars) and might hurt your money, but you COULD possibly kill two birds with one stone if you can multi-task. The other bad part about this option is: how much of what you're studying will you be able to retain if you're trying to maintain conversations with customers?

    It's going to be tough to get everything to fit into one day. Maybe you could start using a day planner, and start planning your days by the hour to see if there's any extra time in your day where you're able to fit your cam gig into your busy schedule. Try it for a week or so and if you think it's doable, make it part of your daily routine. If it doesn't work out, working a few days out of the week, or being a weekend warrior is what you'll have to commit to for now. They say even the Lord took a day off... Don't worry. It's not the end of the world. The most important thing is that you're caring for your baby and not letting your education or regular gainful employment suffer. Priorities, priorities.

    Maybe it's wiser to cam when you can, and put your everyday responsibilities first. It'd be terrible of you got burnt out at home, work, and school just because you put all this pressure on yourself to do too much all at once. Your baby, your new job, and your education really should come first. Those are the things in your life that are good, certain, true, and consistent. Cam work is nice, but we all know that with cam work there may be variables.

    I hope something I've said here helps you. I know you'll get it all figured out. You can do it! Good luck!

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    I make a spread sheet with all of my waking hours in 15 minute segments. I even plan free time/ relaxation in each day. My husband would probably just die if he knew that I planned sex on my schedule, too. LOL!

    Anyway, take some time each week to lay out what needs to be done when, like school, work, chores, errands, any social commitments etc. Block out those places in your weekly schedule.

    Then fill in times that you set aside for study, relaxation, commuting, sleep and exercise.

    Then look and see what you have left. Probably nothing (that was my case). I ended up dropping 2 unnecessary classes (dog agility class and Salsa Dance class) and cutting back on some overly ambitious chores (does the bathroom really need to be deep cleaned every 3rd day? The flower beds will be fine for another 2 weeks before they need to be trimmed back. etc).

    I'm a crazy person when it comes to being active. So I don't expect others to be able to keep up with my schedule. But outlining your week in a spreadsheet is a great way to get a handle on your time and make room for all you want to do.


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