I'm going to try to make this as non-ranty as I possibly can, but I really want to know the answer to this question. Why, in a non-grinding club, when the rules have been clearly stated, would a customer CONTINUOUSLY try to direct/push/pull/whatever a dancer towards his dick? Obviously we KNOW where it is and we arent touching it for a reason. After repeatedly pulling away when a guy does this, redirecting myself away from his cock, flat out telling him I don't do that..etc.. I'm left wondering "how the hell does he not consider this to be wrong?" It's very obviously a forceful thing to be doing. They're trying to make the girl do something against her will. Do they not see it this way or do they and they just don't give a shit? How do they rationalize it? I'm not playing dumb, I'm serious. Because when I finally get fed up completely and end a dance or tell a customer I won't do another one, he whines about it and says "why?" or "I didn't mean to offend you, I'm sorry" etc etc.
What???
How could you possibly feel like what you're doing is acceptable when the dancer is saying "no" and you're pulling on her hips hard enough to white your knuckles?
I'm not saying all of you customers here on this forum do this, but you're guys and customers after all. Do you think that their opinion of us is so low it allows them to enter some sort of guilt-free zone? Or do they feel entitled to it because they paid? Or do they really not "understand" like so many of them claim?



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. Human intelligence in all of its glory right there.
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