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    Skull (long)Glitter's mega burnout..what happened??

    I know everybody goes through burnout, there's probably a hundred posts on here about it, and you can add this one to the pile...

    This one feels the worst tho.. usually when i get into burnout mode, i take a few days off or go out with friends or something and everything goes back to normal.. but i don't get it.. i've hit a major wall, and i can't for the life of me scale it. I was hoping for some personal advice from anyone who's been there.

    It all kind of happened at once, everything was fine..sure the business was weighing on me a little, and some managers were getting under my skin, but i could look over it, i was doing well money-wise. Had some money saved up, good regulars, comfortable with the job. Then i got a new boyfriend, and contracted H1N1 the same week, i was bed ridden for two weeks. When i got back to work, everything changed...suddenly none of my regulars would even talk to me, the manager giving me trouble was twice as mean, and somehow i went from making $200-$500+ a night to $50 if i was lucky. I hated the job, every guy i talked to was like nails on a chalkboard, that manager kept getting in her cheap shots, and i found out anonymous girls were spreading rumors to customers about me not being old enough to drink (i'm almost 30!!) and telling people not to sit with me. So i had enough. I quit. I'd just go to a different club. Well i can't. I CAN'T! I can't even picture myself doing the job anymore.. I sat outside my new club of choice for an HOUR tonight, trying to convince myself to go in. It wouldn't be so bad, except that i can't pay my rent this month and the bills are piling up. I've been trying to get a new job but the market isn't exactly booming with open positions... I have no other option but to dance at this time, but even the thought feels akin to self-mutilation. My whole life right now changed in two weeks.

    A lot of it feels like it can be attributed to my new guy. He's very "I want to be with you 24-7" and doesn't have a regular income or a car, so i take care of him a lot, but he takes care of me a lot too, fixing things around the house, spending what little he has to help me, cooking and cleaning and being supportive. He's not jealous, he has never been weird about my job, and is supportive of it, but in some way i feel like it's some kind of betrayal to him. I know it's not, i have nothing to hide or be ashamed of, i'm squeaky clean. I'm just head over heels.

    Another thing that bothers me is the always changing ohio adult industry laws. I can never get a straight answer from anyone in the clubs about what exactly is and is not against the law that month. As mentioned above, i'm squeaky clean, but i don't want to go to jail for prostitution because i accidentally touched someone's leg or arm the wrong way or someone puts a phone number in my purse when i'm looking away, and no one can tell me what is against the law that month. The night i quit, i had touched a guys cheek with the side of my boob and freaked out when he left directly after the dance, because some girls said he was vice, i ended up thinking i was going to jail for prostitution because half the people said i could go to jail for that and the other half didn't know.

    Sorry for the super long rant, i'm not even sure i stuck to the subject or if any of this makes sense..or even if i put it in the right forum..i'm just super stressed right now, and would really appreciate any advice any lovely ladies would be so kind to offer..this really sucks.. i really need to lift myself out of this scared little rut..!

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    Default Re: (long)Glitter's mega burnout..what happened??

    My initial reaction to your situation is to get the heck out of there for a while and try working someplace new. However, since money is obviously an issue, what are your other options?

    Have you ever considered dancing privately? For bachelor parties and such? There's nice coin to be made there if you can avoid getting in trouble for stupid things. If there are agencies in your area which specialize in hiring "models" for private parties, they'll be able to tell you what's legal, and what isn't.

    If that idea gives you the creeps, what about webcam work? Have you given any thought to that? If you have the ability to put in the time, you can make decent money per week and the start up costs of getting set up as webcam model are nominal.

    Good luck.

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    Default Re: (long)Glitter's mega burnout..what happened??

    Sometimes all it takes is an interview for a food service position to get me up and running back to the strip club. Or can you try cock tailing at your club or a different one?

    Last week I was the same as you, all snuggly with my man bcuz he was being so sweet everyday and every time I went to put on my lashes I started crying all my makeup off like WHAT? THIS IS MY LIFE??? I have to convince all these slimeballs to get a dance and if they actually say yes? I have to give them one?? EW?!?!?!

    Then I went for an interview at chop-house, and an interview to sell herbalife, I finally got my period and BAM da Damn I was horny as hell for random strangers and their money.

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    Default Re: (long)Glitter's mega burnout..what happened??

    thanks you guys! i actually did have an offer to host some kind of topless private party for $300, but it was in an airplane and no one said anything about security, just that they were "really nice"...haha...no thanks! i heard there's money in the private parties etc., but i have never felt right about them... i've actually thought about the webcam thing too! Just before i quit, i met a girl at my club that did it, she gave me a rundown, and i was thinking of running it by my bf........sounded harmless enough.

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    Last week I was the same as you, all snuggly with my man bcuz he was being so sweet everyday and every time I went to put on my lashes I started crying all my makeup off like WHAT? THIS IS MY LIFE??? I have to convince all these slimeballs to get a dance and if they actually say yes? I have to give them one?? EW?!?!?!

    this hit so close to home...! It's the kind of stuff that makes you hide in a corner at work. ha!

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    Default Re: (long)Glitter's mega burnout..what happened??

    where are you at in ohio?

    If you want the new law:
    http://codes.ohio.gov/oac/4301:1-1-52
    voila there you have it. same as before, but now the LCC can enforce it. I stopped dancing in ohio because of it. I have no idea whether it will actually be enforced or not, i just didnt want to find out. I havent heard anything from the girls i know about any busts though. I also had a hard time getting straight answers from clubs. My one club they had meetings discussing the laws, but i dont think they quite knew how it would be enforced. another club i worked out the manager flat out denied the incoming law to me, and i was like dude, its happening, i can find it on the internet and christ, your door guys know about it! So either he was completely incompetent at keeping up with the industry updates or he was just being really shady and dodgy.

    Burn out sucks, im feelin it too with working in pittsburgh. Im not cut out for working at nude clubs. Im moving to NOLA in 2 weeks though, and i think getting out of the cold and out of the nude clubs will help some of it .
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    here's something else i found.. funny how it doesn't match with anything i've heard from managers recently or with what vice was busting dancers for just last month... confused...!

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    Default Re: (long)Glitter's mega burnout..what happened??

    Quote Originally Posted by peachplumpear View Post
    Sometimes all it takes is an interview for a food service position to get me up and running back to the strip club. Or can you try cock tailing at your club or a different one?

    Last week I was the same as you, all snuggly with my man bcuz he was being so sweet everyday and every time I went to put on my lashes I started crying all my makeup off like WHAT? THIS IS MY LIFE??? I have to convince all these slimeballs to get a dance and if they actually say yes? I have to give them one?? EW?!?!?!

    Then I went for an interview at chop-house, and an interview to sell herbalife, I finally got my period and BAM da Damn I was horny as hell for random strangers and their money.
    I feel like this a LOT. Thanks for coming out and saying it so I don't feel like a freak show like I'm the only one.

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