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jack0177057
I agree with this or I might think she's distracted with something else and will not provide a good lap dance.
Also, body language is very important. Are you sitting - smilling, facing the customers with an open and approachable body language, or do you look closed, like you want to be left alone? You might be sending the wrong signals subconsciously. Invest in this book on body language and flirting: Superflirt by Tracey Cox.
Start by making eye contact and smiling at everybody. If you and I lock gazes and we both smile, wave to me or come over and say hi to me. The smile is an indication that I like you. If a guy does not smile and looks away he is either not interested or is very shy. If a customer is pleasant, but does not buy a dance - try not to look upset. He might have already spent his money for the night, but will be coming back. (But, obviously, don't waste too much time with customers that don't buy dances.)
You need to hustle. You might read some "pick-up" material that discusses ways for shy guys to approach women and apply the same techniques.
But, if you absolutely can't hustle - What about getting the waitresses to hustle for you, and tipping them very well for this? I've been asked many times by waitresses if I want them to bring a girl over for me. I usually say 'no' because I prefer to select the dancer myself.
This might work for you, though. If you develop a friendly relationship with the waitreses and pay them a good tip to find you customers, they might do this for you. They can point you out to customers and say something like, "She's a shy girl, but man can she give a good lap dance. Would you like her company?" - That should get you some customers.
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