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    Default One of my favorite customers/regular passed away

    In all honesty, I have met very few men while dancing that I would consider a friend. I can count them on one hand and still have some fingers left. One of those men passed away last week. He was 64 years old, incredibly funny, very genuine, and overall just great to be around. I saw him at least once, usually twice, a week for the last 2 and a half years. I looked forward to seeing him, and really not because of the money. I'd be lying if I said it won't effect me financially, but I don't really care. That's not the point. I knew something was wrong when I didn't see him for nearly two weeks. I heard his favorite song on the radio yesterday and I (while in a Target parking lot) googled his name on my iphone... at which point I found the obituary. Heart attack. I started crying and calling the other couple girls who would sit with us from time to time. There is a guestbook online where people can write their memories of him, so the family can read it. I keep wanting to say something, but I know I can't. I know his wife knew he came to the club, I know it wasn't a big deal.... but I still feel like it's not my place to write something. Afterall I'd have to sign it and then his family would be like "who the hell is Chrys?" or I could sign it "anonymous", but that would look even worse I think. It's weird. I feel like this little outcast person he knew, lol. I'm glad there are at least a couple other people at work I can share stories with. It still doesn't seem "real". I'll probably be at work for awhile just expecting him to walk around the corner.

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    Default Re: One of my favorite customers/regular passed away

    I'm sorry girl. I've never lost a custy to death, but I know what it's like to lose a friend, as well as a regular. I say if it gives you piece of mind, then go ahead and post. Sign it anonymous if you want, or put a fake name. That's what it's there for right? For people to say nice things and share memories and the sadness of his passing. I hope it gets better for ya.

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    Default Re: One of my favorite customers/regular passed away

    Why do you have to sign it? Or just sign 'a friend'...

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    Default Re: One of my favorite customers/regular passed away

    I am so sorry to hear this. If it makes you feel better just sign it friend.

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    Default Re: One of my favorite customers/regular passed away

    Definitely sign it. The context of the relationship doesn't matter, it's the connection.

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    Default Re: One of my favorite customers/regular passed away

    Maybe take on the role of a favorite waitress at a restaurant he frequented, wth no name.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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