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    Question ATF responses

    What are your ATF responses for the following (verbal or physical):

    1. Super touchy(that feel on your private) stage tippers (especially $1 guys that stand with it clinched in their hand while they stand there for at least 1 min of a 3 min song)

    2. Super touchy customers that you're trying to sell a LD or CR to

    3. Customers that want to touch and then don't want to buy a LD or CR

    4. Customers that want a free dance (ex. birthday or something else stupid)

    5. Customers that want to tell you how much they want to have sex with you but too cheap to buy a LD or CR.

    6. Customers that want to see you OTC but don't buy LDs,CR ,or even stage tip you at all ( I know some dancers never meet customers OTC but does it make it any less insulting?)

    7. Customers that tell you how pretty/sexy/amazing/gorgeous but don't want to buy LDs or CR and stage tip $0-$5 (on 4 or more stages).

    8. (This happened to me before) Customers that stage tip $1. Then you sit with them later and they're super touchy (on breasts). You try to sell them a LD (not a CR) and they tell you they're not rich!

    9. Customers that are beyond nosy that ask a bunch of personal questions but don't want to tip you for your time or spend any $$ on you (aka time wasters).

    10. Customers that try or do touch your breasts, butt, or private without permission while you're trying to sell them a LD or CR and then don't spend any $$ on you ( I know that dancers that don't allow this don't care about the $ but isn't still insulting?)

    11. Customers that tip $5 for sitting with them for at least 30 mins and don't spend anymore $ on you

    12. Customers that want a discount on a LD

    13. When you're trying to sell a LD or CR, the customer does offer you a drink and wants to finish his drink before getting a LD but is super touchy the whole time nursing his drink.

    I know a lot of the questions are similar but I would be curious to hear any responses (especially from veteran and retired dancers). I know some dancers would kick or knee customers so that is why I put physical as well as verbal. I am sure that their will be some funny posts because a lot of dancers have experienced some of these situations.

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    1. Super touchy(that feel on your private) stage tippers (especially $1 guys that stand with it clinched in their hand while they stand there for at least 1 min of a 3 min song)
    *smack*

    2. Super touchy customers that you're trying to sell a LD or CR to
    I would take a step back and try to sell it one more time, if they try to touch before answering I walk away.

    3. Customers that want to touch and then don't want to buy a LD or CR
    I don't let people touch me til I see money and if there is a tip is only my arm they are allowed to touch.

    4. Customers that want a free dance (ex. birthday or something else stupid)
    *Walks away*

    5. Customers that want to tell you how much they want to have sex with you but too cheap to buy a LD or CR.
    "Your kidding right? Even a slutty girlfriend cost money."

    6. Customers that want to see you OTC but don't buy LDs,CR ,or even stage tip you at all ( I know some dancers never meet customers OTC but does it make it any less insulting?)
    "No I will not see you out side the club cause you don't respect me and what I do here." If they say they do respect me. "then show me by tipping and getting dances." If they still won't by I will walk away and warn the other girls about him being a time waster.

    7. Customers that tell you how pretty/sexy/amazing/gorgeous but don't want to buy LDs or CR and stage tip $0-$5 (on 4 or more stages).
    *Smiles and says thank you while walking away*

    8. (This happened to me before) Customers that stage tip $1. Then you sit with them later and they're super touchy (on breasts). You try to sell them a LD (not a CR) and they tell you they're not rich!
    *walks away*

    9. Customers that are beyond nosy that ask a bunch of personal questions but don't want to tip you for your time or spend any $$ on you (aka time wasters).
    "It five dollars for each question so you owe me (How ever many questions they ask before saying). Now pay up or I'll get the bouncer to show you where the exit is."

    10. Customers that try or do touch your breasts, butt, or private without permission while you're trying to sell them a LD or CR and then don't spend any $$ on you ( I know that dancers that don't allow this don't care about the $ but isn't still insulting?)
    "its ten dollars for each quick feel, 25 for a three minute with me on your lap lapdance without touching. Which sounds better to you right now?"

    11. Customers that tip $5 for sitting with them for at least 30 mins and don't spend anymore $ on you
    *walks away*

    12. Customers that want a discount on a LD
    *Giggles, shaking my head telling them never*

    13. When you're trying to sell a LD or CR, the customer does offer you a drink and wants to finish his drink before getting a LD but is super touchy the whole time nursing his drink.
    *read question 10*




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    ^^You Rock!

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    I'm going to make a kickass .. broke.. but kickass stripper.

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    What are your ATF responses for the following (verbal or physical):

    1. Super touchy(that feel on your private) stage tippers (especially $1 guys that stand with it clinched in their hand while they stand there for at least 1 min of a 3 min song)
    Oooh I hate these guys. If there are other guys there I will make a point of putting on a show for them, and if at all possible do it at an angle where the non-tipper can't see. I will also grab their dollars out of their hand and/or tell them to go away from the stage. And if they're the only guy at the stage I won't take anything off.

    Oh and nobody's ever tried to touch my punani on stage because we have bouncers next to the stages but if they did they'd be getting a 7 inch spike through whatever part of them I can kick.

    2. Super touchy customers that you're trying to sell a LD or CR to
    Depends-I will usually move their hands off my ass or whatever they are grabbing and tell them it isn't allowed on the floor. However, I will tolerate a certain degree of grabbiness from certain customers-usually Hispanic men because they generally like me and will get a dance or two or at least tip me for my conversation.

    3. Customers that want to touch and then don't want to buy a LD or CR
    Oh you don't get to touch me for free unless you meet the qualifications above, i.e. I can tell you are going to spend and you are only trying to grab my ass. And if you are too grabby I will forcibly remove myself from your presence before the topic of LD's ever comes up.

    4. Customers that want a free dance (ex. birthday or something else stupid)
    At the club I work at right now we get a lot of bachelor/birthday/whatever parties, so I will tell them to ask their friends to buy them a dance.

    5. Customers that want to tell you how much they want to have sex with you but too cheap to buy a LD or CR.
    Walk away. Don't even acknowledge these types with a smile or thank you.

    6. Customers that want to see you OTC but don't buy LDs,CR ,or even stage tip you at all ( I know some dancers never meet customers OTC but does it make it any less insulting?)
    Again...say no and walk away. Although sometimes I will tell these guys to give me five dollars for wasting my time. Which usually means they give me like $2. And I will call them out for being egotistical enough to expect me to want to see them OTC for free.

    7. Customers that tell you how pretty/sexy/amazing/gorgeous but don't want to buy LDs or CR and stage tip $0-$5 (on 4 or more stages).

    I will usually thank these guys, I always appreciate the stage tips. Never worked anywhere with 4 stages though.

    8. (This happened to me before) Customers that stage tip $1. Then you sit with them later and they're super touchy (on breasts). You try to sell them a LD (not a CR) and they tell you they're not rich!
    I view touchiness like that as a red flag so I will usually already be ready to walk away by the time "I'm not rich" comes out of their mouth. If I'm having a bad night I might say something smart to them about being a cheap asshole but usually I just ignore guys like this and their negativity.

    9. Customers that are beyond nosy that ask a bunch of personal questions but don't want to tip you for your time or spend any $$ on you (aka time wasters).
    I tell them I don't like the risk of giving out personal information because they could turn out to be stalkers, then try to bring the convo back to a sale. I usually won't stick around if I can tell they aren't spending/tipping...but I think I am going to start charging $5 a question too!

    10. Customers that try or do touch your breasts, butt, or private without permission while you're trying to sell them a LD or CR and then don't spend any $$ on you ( I know that dancers that don't allow this don't care about the $ but isn't still insulting?)
    Isn't this the same question as #2?

    11. Customers that tip $5 for sitting with them for at least 30 mins and don't spend anymore $ on you
    I don't sit with a customer for 30 minutes unless he is giving me 20's every 5 minutes.

    12. Customers that want a discount on a LD
    I just laugh at them, haha!

    13. When you're trying to sell a LD or CR, the customer does offer you a drink and wants to finish his drink before getting a LD but is super touchy the whole time nursing his drink.
    I'll just remove his hands and say something flirty about how we can't do that out here so he'd better hurry up and finish his drink.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sananeko View Post
    I'm going to make a kickass .. broke.. but kickass stripper.
    You haven't started yet?

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    Quote Originally Posted by taylormadison View Post
    1. Super touchy(that feel on your private) stage tippers (especially $1 guys that stand with it clinched in their hand while they stand there for at least 1 min of a 3 min song)
    Well, in my club um ... the customers aren't ALLOWED to touch us.

    But for the stray asshole that will just stand there stupidly, I'll just flat stop dancing, kneel down on the edge of the stage to cover the kitty, and cover my boobs with an arm, and look at him with my hand held out until he gets uncomfortable. I've sat for entire stage sets when he was the only one - but usually peer pressure gets the guys when the other men at tiprail get annoyed that the pretty naked lady is just sitting there covering herself.

    The stray asshole who tries or succeeds in touching me when I'm not looking? Stripper heels are wonderful weapons.

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    2. Super touchy customers that you're trying to sell a LD or CR to
    I'll still deign to take him back for a dance, but I'll make the dude sit on his hands. He gets 3 strikes, first two times are warnings to keep his hands OFF, third I'll get off him and air dance, if he tries again - I stop the dance and leave the room.

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    3. Customers that want to touch and then don't want to buy a LD or CR
    Fuck them.

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    4. Customers that want a free dance (ex. birthday or something else stupid)
    HAHAHA no. I laugh at them, tell them no - then go in the DR and let the other girls know what kinda guy he is. They leave shortly afterward if they're cheap, or start forking over the dough.

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    5. Customers that want to tell you how much they want to have sex with you but too cheap to buy a LD or CR.
    I'll straight call their BS. I've been known to get MEAN about it, too. Suffice it to say, they leave with egos thoroughly bruised by a little 5'1 Russian.

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    6. Customers that want to see you OTC but don't buy LDs,CR ,or even stage tip you at all ( I know some dancers never meet customers OTC but does it make it any less insulting?)
    See above. Only I'm always mean.

    Quote Originally Posted by taylormadison View Post
    7. Customers that tell you how pretty/sexy/amazing/gorgeous but don't want to buy LDs or CR and stage tip $0-$5 (on 4 or more stages).
    I'll get mean again. Bruised egos, the works.

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    8. (This happened to me before) Customers that stage tip $1. Then you sit with them later and they're super touchy (on breasts). You try to sell them a LD (not a CR) and they tell you they're not rich!
    I'll straight tell these assholes to get out of my club. I've gotten a couple kicked out.

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    9. Customers that are beyond nosy that ask a bunch of personal questions but don't want to tip you for your time or spend any $$ on you (aka time wasters).
    They only get 20 minutes of my time, or roughly 4 songs. I'll constantly try to sell after about 5 minutes of sitting, before I'll get up and tell them I have to go actually make money. If they persist or tell me not to leave, I let them know - firmly - that if they'd like to have any more conversation with me, I charge $20 a song to sit on the floor, or they can pay club rate plus top for a dance or room.

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    10. Customers that try or do touch your breasts, butt, or private without permission while you're trying to sell them a LD or CR and then don't spend any $$ on you ( I know that dancers that don't allow this don't care about the $ but isn't still insulting?)
    I find this very insulting. They get one warning to keep their hands off. If they try again, they get reported to the bouncers and escorted out.

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    11. Customers that tip $5 for sitting with them for at least 30 mins and don't spend anymore $ on you
    If you read above, this isn't a problem for me. lol

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    12. Customers that want a discount on a LD
    They get laughed at, and hard. I make fun of these guys. A lot of times, they're so humiliated, they fork over the full amount plus a good tip - then I ignore them and let the other girls know what the score is.

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    13. When you're trying to sell a LD or CR, the customer does offer you a drink and wants to finish his drink before getting a LD but is super touchy the whole time nursing his drink.
    I do the same thing as above. They have 20 minutes to finish their drink and take me back, or I again inform them I charge $20 a song, or they can take me back as promised.
    "The mood is important. You can't get a lady with force.
    ...sweet things alone are not enough. Seduce me with more fire."

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    Quote Originally Posted by taylormadison View Post
    You haven't started yet?
    I was going to start a few months ago but when I was told I had to fuck someone to get it I flipped the bird and walked off, I'm going to try again when its warm, I need to work in my heels abit longer.

    I use to be a cage dancer so I learned how to comment back thru bars and I use to be a taxi girl so I know how to work around the touching and asking for free dances. I think its going to be funny, I'm going from the waltz to dirty dancing lol.

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