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    Default Bought a silicone dilldo, questions

    OK, so I finally bought one because I think my chronic lack of sex (even in relationships, dudes just don't put out enough).

    I think I need one to exercise my muscles, before they die.

    So, it's 5.5" and has a curve.

    But here's the thing, and the reason I hate dilldos. I don't think they have as much "give" as a real penis. I find myself sore even a couple hours later.

    I calculated how much sex I've had since I moved back to PA. In 2 years, it's an average of once every three months. Some of it was clumped together so really it's been six months since the last time.

    I feel like a fucking virgin every time.

    Is it normal to be sore considering my sex history, or is this bad?

    I should have been a fucking nun. Sorry, just venting but even when I was with a guy it was like once a week or less.

    Bad choice of men, I know. Yeah I could get laid all the time if I lowered my standards big time and risked STD's for a 30 second fuck.

    I refuse, and something about the last few years they all come in less than a minute. WTF. I'm sexually frustrated big time.

    So, is dilldo soreness common for vaginas that aren't used correctly?

    Thanks.

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    Default Re: Bought a silicone dilldo, questions

    I use the rabbit and I love it. My sex toys have never made me sore, but they probably would if I wasn't adequately turned on. Why don't you use KY Jelly or something to help out in that area. The new intimate kind for women is really good. Its a little expensive ($19-21) for a lubricant but it works well with sex toys.

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    Default Re: Bought a silicone dilldo, questions

    kittygirl is the dildo only silicon? Or does it have something else in the core? A solid silicon dildo should be even softer than the 'real thing' (penis), maybe you should try one without a curve? Also, don't use any silicon based lubes on your silicon toys, it will start to break them down.

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    Default Re: Bought a silicone dilldo, questions

    I seriously think the soreness is from the muscles not being used to it. With enough lube it gets better each time.

    It's not totally silicone I guess since it has a virbator inside. There's some give, but human is so much better.

    Still, I'm happy with my purchase. I kind of like the slight curve. That's how I like my men.

    An ex-boyfriend of mine used to joke that you need to get "calloused" so it doesn't hurt as much. He didn't mean it literally, but you do have to get used to it.

    I lost my virginity to a guy who was super gentle but I still could barely walk the next day. I think my cooter is small in a way.

    Thanks for the replies though.

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    Default Re: Bought a silicone dilldo, questions

    It does sound like you have a small va-jay-ja (so do I).
    I agree definately try using a lot of lube so there wont be as much friction. If that keeps happening would you go to your obgyn and see if there's a medical reason? Just a thought.

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    Default Re: Bought a silicone dilldo, questions

    The lube helps for sure. And it's getting better.

    Another question though. I prefer the vibrator option on the inside it does nothing for my clit (used to like 25 years ago with one of those monster plug in back massagers). Am I losing sensation I wonder. Or do some of you not like clit vibrations that come from battery operated.

    It seems to work best inside and the usual fingering on the outside. TMI, just hoping I'm not the only one.

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    Default Re: Bought a silicone dilldo, questions

    I have sex about 2 times a week, have been for ages, and my vag is still sore the next day. Its always been like that. I just take some advil or alleve if its bothering me too much.

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    Default Re: Bought a silicone dilldo, questions

    No advice about the dildo, just some sympathy. I used to get laid about once a week till I moved to this stupid hick town. I refuse to stoop to frat boys, so now I'm pretty much celibate (like 4 times in 2 years, and thats traveling to see old friends). And when I find an acceptable guy, half the time he can't get hard and whines about having to use condoms. But when I actually do get some, yeah, I'm sore (I never was when I got it regularly).

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