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    Question How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    Apparently, I really don't care who knows, but I don't want my family to know what it is that I want to do. I received my CNA and been looking for work, I haven't found none yet and really, being sexy and turning someone on, is what I like to do. And I know I'll make good money doing it. I haven't started yet and I'm a bit worried. I just want to know how do you go about keeping your stripper job basically private?

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    Make up a simple day job, ( or get a second one ) to reference to people when they ask what you do. Remember, you don't have to justify anything to anyone if you don't want to.

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    yeah you're right. have you ever been in a situation where the wrong person showed up? (as in someone you didn't want to know came in and seen you dancing?)

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    ^ could always happen. Going into this professional i would ALWAYS assume someone you do NOT want to know will come in and see you. I wouldn't worry about it day by day, or even at all. Just know it can and could happen, and just have something small prepared. Whether it be a defense mechanics, a good reason or even just a brush off. Like I said, who are they to be hounding you about what you do!

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    Just keep in mind that you are likely to "get caught" eventually.

    There is always someone's friend, neighbor, cousin etc that could recognize you.

    Also, things have changed since mobile devices have become so advanced. The smallest of phones can now take decent resolution pics and video. The chances are slim that someone will snap a pic or vid of you and post it on the net, but not out of the realm of possibilities.

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    that just makes me not want to dance even more........

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    Look. If this is what you really want to do, you need to completely lose any regard for what anyone else thinks. If you had a good relationship with your family, and were open about it, this wouldn't be an issue. So why worry about them finding out? It's not their life and if they want to be judgmental bitches about your choices then that's their loss, but you don't have to take it. Just decide what you want more: your family's approval or what makes you happy.

    Hope it ends up well!

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    Quote Originally Posted by MiamiNewYork View Post
    that just makes me not want to dance even more........
    It's not all butterflies and roses I am afraid (I really meant that in the nicest of ways)

    Dancing is definitely not for everyone. Someone will find out eventually and chances are some ass hat will try to snap a pic of you at some point.

    Hell I have even heard stories of clubs keeping and even selling their surveillance videos from the club.

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    A while back I saw a neighbor of mine at my club. He looked as surprised as I felt, and we sort of half-waved at each other across the room, so I'm certain he recognized me. But we both ignored each other the rest of the night. As far as I know, he hasn't gone around broadcasting my "secret."

    One of my coworkers handles this sort of thing very well. A guy came in one day and recognized her as she finished a lap dance at a table beside mine. He came over, greeted her, and then said, "Does your boyfriend know you're here?" in that ooh-naughty-I'm-gonna-tattle voice.

    Her response: "Yes. Does your wife?"

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    Ohhh I went into this thinking that I wouldn't tell a soul, but there is WAY too much to talk about after a shift I ended up telling everyone (except my parents).

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    Strip in a different city. I live in a big city, but I refuse to work there because I'm paranoid. 15 plus clubs still maes me nervous.
    I dance in citie where I don't know anyone. Worked so far. *crosses fingers*

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    Thats why I have decided to work in a city about 45 minutes away from me. I know my parent would never go to a Richmond Strip club and they are the ones i would really prefer not to find out. Everyone else i could care less about. I would also do some dancing in clubs in MD and DC as well because I knew i wouldnt run into any family members there. The upside to living in a tri-state in which all 3 states are easily accessible.

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    I know how you feel.
    My bf has friends that go to SCs regularly and I'm scared to death of them seeing me.
    Personally I don't care, but I don't want my bf to be hassled constantly by his friends about it.

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    Mar has the right idea.

    If you're worried about people knowing that you're dancing, maybe it's best "not to shit where you eat." Work out of town. Book yourself for a week at X club in NJ, or at some place in NC, and do that once or twice a month. Maybe do some homework and find some obscure club which isn't a far commute, but is also someplace where nobody you know would ever find out you're working there.

    Some other options are to only dance on certain nights, if going out of town isn't an option. By doing this you can limit your exposure, and work your dancing around other people's schedules, especially if you live at home, or have parents or relatives who visit you often. You could also look into private party dancing for an entertainment agency, where you're not working in a club environment at all. Sometimes there's more privacy working bachelor parties, and such. You would also have access to information about the host and location of the party in advance so if it's for someone you know, or in a location which you're not comfortable with, you could avoid walking into a potentially embarrassing situation. Lastly, there's webcams. Just go to the "Other Work" section here at SW. There's plenty of current information about how to get started as a webcam model and work right in the privacy of your home.

    Good luck.

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    Quote Originally Posted by Kimbre View Post
    Lastly, there's webcams. Just go to the "Other Work" section here at SW. There's plenty of current information about how to get started as a webcam model and work right in the privacy of your home.

    Good luck.
    if she is worried about pictures being taken and ending up on the net though, this is one of the more risky things to do IMO. If i cammed, i would not be surprised if some of the custies recorded the exchange.



    I second to finding a club in a nearby city. Although if you are new to dancing, then i wouldnt go so far as to work at one that requires overnight travel, because you dont know whether you will be able to cover expenses until you know how your sales skills are. usually you need some time to hone them to start making enough consistent money to make traveling lucrative. but finding a club that is in a city an hr away or finding one buried away in the stix or a suburb on the opposite side of the nearest urban area. a suburb on the opposite side of town will probably not bring in anyone nearby you... one in a downtown area might because people are likely to drive to the known downtown locations. but in the suburbs, the clientel are the other people of the suburb and often men on their way home from working in the city. Sometimes these clubs can be goldmines and have really good clientel!
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    I know a TON people in the city i live in so I dance in a town that's about an hour away. I love it and it's worth the drive. I'm a hairstylist by day and i wouldn't want my salon clients to stroll into the club and see me half naked....that would be too weird for me and possibly them too

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    Default Re: How do you go about no one finding out you strip??

    I hid me dancing for a long time before I ever told my family or some of my friends. Eventually they all find out somehow. All it takes is someone seeing you.. Even a friend of a friend. I thought I was hiding it pretty good but it all caught up to me. By that point I just didn't care anymore.. lol.. But good luck to you!

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