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    So last night at the club I saw my friends step dad. I didn't want it to be too awkward so I walked up and said hi. He's not technically her step dad, its my friends mom's ex-boyfriend but he still lives with my friend. It's kind of weird, but her mom normally isn't home so it's kind of just the two of them and her brother.

    He asked for a vip dance and I said yes. We did 2 vips and he kept offering to be a sugar daddy to me and just buy me clothes.

    Would you let him if it was you? Because I'm not sure how I feel about him knowing my friend like that and what she might say if she found out. I'm not sure if she would be mad or just laugh at the thought of him buying me things...

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    Default Re: I think this may be wrong, any opinions?

    I wouldn't.. I think since they are still living together that there might be a connection and it can strain your friendship.

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    It really depends on her relationship with him. If she actually sees him as a father type figure, then it is a bad idea. Even if she doesn't, it will still make things awkward if she finds out. If you are good friends with her, I wouldn't do it.

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    It is wrong. If you're a true friend don't trade her in for Jimmy Choos. Friends last forever, clothes wear out.

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    Default Re: I think this may be wrong, any opinions?

    Definitely think this is a bad move... I would never even have approached him, but everyone's different. Pursuing it any further is risky.
    I don't think it's appropriate when it's someone you know in real life with a connection to a friend like that. But I guess it depends on how close a friend they are to you.

    I wouldn't risk losing the friendship over some money. He could turn out to be crazy and that puts you in a sticky situation with your friend.

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    Default Re: I think this may be wrong, any opinions?

    well money is money, but this situation is fuckin wierd. i would find a sugar daddy or a regular that doesnt already have strings attatched. The strings attatched usually come AFTER you deal with them for a while!

    And honestly, if she found out, she would probably be really disturbed. Plus he is dating her mom, so i dont know what her opinions are in regards to having a sugar baby and cheating, but she might consider it as him doing something borderline cheating to her mother, and you being involved is trouble. and she might be creeped out of the idea of you naked dancing for her moms boyfriend. This situation has bad news bears written all over it, i would steer clear!
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    Default Re: I think this may be wrong, any opinions?

    To me, it would be wrong if:

    1. Your friend would be hurt by the relationship. If you can't openly ask her, there's your answer.

    2. You are accepting money that would otherwise go to your friend. If he was going to stop buying his step daughter her clothes so that he could buy them for you, I feel it is wrong to take that from her.

    3. He was dating her mother.

    You specifically say it is her mom's ex, so IF he is not not dating her mom you are clear of that conflict. IF he is also in no way supporting your friend, and IF she doesn't have a problem with it, then I don't see what's wrong with someone you already know becoming a customer. That's a lof of IF's.

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    Default Re: I think this may be wrong, any opinions?

    Personally, I hate to see you miss out on some great money... but you don't want to lose your friend either.

    Does your friend know you dance? If so, why don't you just ask her about it.

    Whatever you do though, keep it in the club. Have him just give you the money - not get into the whole thing of actually taking you shopping. Or you could even give him a wish list.
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    Default Re: I think this may be wrong, any opinions?

    Just look at him as another customer that made an outrageous claim to something he can't offer you and move on like you normally would. The friendship isn't worth sacrificing, expecially if you aren't sure how she will react.





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