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    ^ Yeah, but that's like saying that lesbians who fuck each other with a dildo are assuming the role of a guy. I'm thinking not many lesbians want to fuck guys. So in your case, it's probably a huge mental block. I'm standing by the 'if it's a woman, it's a woman' thing. If you're closing your eyes with a woman and pretending she's a man fucking you, that's a different issue.

    I'm not pickin' on you though. If you aren't into it, that's just as normal as being into it.

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    Hmmm, mental block--I don't think so--but if it is, it's a mental block the vast majority of guys are going to have as well. But to clarify, I am not saying a guy who likes it is gay, if he has no desire for a man to do it.

    This is interesting, though. Now I am wondering how many women want to do it to the guy, like what percentage. I mean full-on strapon, not the prostrate massage.

    I was in the dressing room of my last club about two years ago and one of the hottest dancers I have ever worked with, Trouble, asked me if I would let her do it if we were fucking. I said no way. She then claimed she'd done it to every guy she'd ever been with for a while. I'm inclined to believe her.
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    ^ Yeeaaah...I think you'd be very very surprised at how many guys are into that (and I'd be guessing the vast majority would be into it if there weren't such a stigma in our culture against it).

    I mean, think about it: you wouldn't exactly be the one to know about if it's a common phenomenon. A good number of guys I've met have openly mentioned that (presumably b/c I'm a chick, I believe they're straight, and so they feel more comfortable speaking about it)...not to mention the ones who keep their secret closer to their chests.

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    I'm not debating this anymore (its been beaten to death), but I just want to point how interesting and ironic it is that the prostrate gland (aka "male g-spot") is in men's butt and the sexual pleasure center for women is usually outside the vagina in the clitoris (refer to the G-Spot Myth thread for more on that). Nature is playing a practical joke on us? End threadjack.

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    ^^That is funny! Oh, and I have to respond to this one thing. I've been to busy to write it up, but here goes.

    Now granted as a bisexual woman I might not be the correct person to give an opinion on this, but I don't think truly straight peeps can be "swayed." Not at all! It's GROSS to kiss someone you aren't attracted too! It has become "cool" to be bisexual and tons of very drunk, very immature girls are kissing their friends to impress guys, I know. This doesn't make them bisexual though, just retarded!

    I remember one girl saying it was fun to kiss her friends while drunk, but as appealing as kissing the back of her hand. I'd personally say zero sexual stimulation from kissing a same sex partner means you are pretty damn straight, regardless of how many times you do it. (Yes, you can debate that maybe THAT girl just didn't do it for her, but most of us will find a reasonable portion of our prefered sex attractive enough to feel something while kissing them.)

    Oh, and another point..I also think those that are terrified of being gay/liking gay activities tend to be in denial about their own sexuality. Just my own experience talking there.

    ETA - Had to comment about guys liking the strap on thing. I have had a low number of partners, but they were very adventurous and I've never been with a guy that wanted penetration. Rimming, yep, anything up their butts, not really. I'm open minded too, so I doubt anyone would think I'd judge them. My two college roomies were also huge sluts and I heard all sortsa crazy shit, but only heard of this once and it was a dildo, not a strap on, so I'm not so sure about the insistence of this being super prevalent.
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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    ^ Wrong! It's relatively common for open-minded straight men to enjoy prostate play. Check out the Bend Over Boyfriend phenomenon.
    Their mind isn't the only thing that is open.

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    Wow...learn something new everyday.


    So I guess that women who like it up the ass have latent desire to be a gay man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lemmiwinks31 View Post
    Wow...learn something new everyday.


    So I guess that women who like it up the ass have latent desire to be a gay man.
    Oh, of course! Now I get why I've always felt misunderstood! I'm really a gay man trapped in this girlie little body!
    "I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."

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    Oh, of course! Now I get why I've always felt misunderstood! I'm really a gay man trapped in this girlie little body!
    Well i just found out i've been gaying myself up with my hand for years so we should totally be gay together.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    Hmmm, mental block--I don't think so--but if it is, it's a mental block the vast majority of guys are going to have as well.

    just curious, how many guys have you talked to about anal strapon fucking in order to reach this conclusion? What was your sample size? And do you carry around a survey or does it just come up in conversation?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trem View Post
    Well i just found out i've been gaying myself up with my hand for years so we should totally be gay together.

    A while ago....i accidentally got a little gay when my finger broke through the toilet paper.

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    Hmmm, mental block--I don't think so--but if it is, it's a mental block the vast majority of guys are going to have as well.
    Quote Originally Posted by lemmiwinks31 View Post
    just curious, how many guys have you talked to about anal strapon fucking in order to reach this conclusion? What was your sample size? And do you carry around a survey or does it just come up in conversation?
    No, I make every guy that requests a song fill out a full 'Am I gay or do I just like to get fucked up the ass?' Survey at the DJ booth. Then for a small additional fee I let the dancers know who wants to get fucked up the ass, so they can work the guys.

    There's still no buttsex in the Champagne Room, though...
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    ...but I just want to point how interesting and ironic it is that the prostrate gland (aka "male g-spot") is in men's butt and the sexual pleasure center for women is usually outside the vagina in the clitoris (refer to the G-Spot Myth thread for more on that). Nature is playing a practical joke on us?...
    This is not quite accurate. The prostate is accessible thru the large intestine (had it checked recently?), but it is NOT inside it. The G-spot is accessible thru the vagina wall, but is not inside it. Both can be used give enough stimulation to produce orgasm in some people
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    ^^^
    To get to the "male g-spot" part of the prostrate, you have to probe the anus.
    http://www.askmen.com/dating/vanessa...e_secrets.html

    My question to mother nature --- WTF?

    The female "g-spot" is mostly myth. There are some women (very few it seems) that have sensitivity in that area, but it is actually the root of the clitoris.
    http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19453931

    The Journal of Sexual Medicine 2009, vol. 6, no5, pp. 1223-1231 explained that the "G-spot" is actually the root of the clitoris. The clitoris is more than just the "love bud" or "nubbin" that is on the outside. It consists of a bundle of nerves on the inside that loop down so it is very close to the anterior wall (front) of the vaginal canal on the interior side of the pubic bone.

    I've been trying to find it for years and have just about given up on it. Exterior clitoral stimulation is the most reliable way to get a girl off.

    Again, I ask mother nature --- WTF?
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    Not a myth at all, but quite variable.

    I got lucky with my third girlfriend, whom I have mentioned before. When she got going she would 'push out' and there was quite simply no missing it. I've seen similar since but nothing quite so pronounced. Phenomenal...
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    It's funny. People have given a range of answers based on what makes sense to them, with a few girls offering first hand experience with men who enjoy this act, confirming that at least some men who engage in it are bisexual. Not one of them suggested it was bad, immoral, or icky. Strangely, the only people who seem to have a problem with anything are those who are insistent on the act being perfectly straight.

    The question, is why would you get so pissed off unless you really thought something was wrong with being gay or bisexual?.... With all these accusations of 'homophobia' and 'fear of being gay' being thrown around, shouldn't some of you be looking in the mirror?
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    It's funny. People have given a range of answers based on what makes sense to them, with a few girls offering first hand experience with men who enjoy this act,
    One must remember that the women that post are in eccentric relationships. Ask the wives who belong to the PTA with a house with a white picket fence how many of their men want a phallic rammed up their rectum.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    One must remember that the women that post are in eccentric relationships. Ask the wives who belong to the PTA with a house with a white picket fence how many of their men want a phallic rammed up their rectum.
    You do know I'm a PTA mom that for another few days lives in a McMansion in a neighborhood that is a little too upscale to truly be a "white picket fence" kinda place? I'm as normal and boring as can be from all outward appearances...hmm, I wonder how many other "soccer mom's" are like me.?.?.with alternative sex lives behind cloesd doors.
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    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    I wonder how many other "soccer mom's" are like me.?.?.with alternative sex lives behind cloesd doors.
    This isn't about a soccer mom's peccadilloes, it is about guys that like a phallic rammed up their rectum in a way that resembles homosexual activity.

    BTW if I chose to believe something it is my right as an American; you may not agree with it but I would hope you would defend my right to believe what I want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    One must remember that the women that post are in eccentric relationships. Ask the wives who belong to the PTA with a house with a white picket fence how many of their men want a phallic rammed up their rectum.
    Perhaps this is true. Yet how many of these guys are just afraid to try, afraid to ask their wives (for the stigma), unaware that such a thing exists, etc. etc.?

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    Nicole 84

    How can you say that women can get off during rape?

    Your sources? Is it you?

    That's a load. I haven't read the rest of the posts since then, but I call you out anyway.

    Yeah. women get off on violence - is that your reasoning.

    TELL US YOUR STORY OF RAPE, OR ASK RAPE VICTIMS.

    REPREHENSIBLE.

    I don't mind if it's your story but please clarify. Even my brother knows better than to push this idea.

    That's wishful thinking, until you've been raped. My brother is case in point that men can be more feminist than women.

    Til a man throws you down, threatens to kill you, makes you bleed, and you get off. Gee, I guess that means you're liberated.

    Even my brother would think that's whack.

    I can't believe those women thanked your post. Please explain yourselves. You are so worried if your boyfriends being gay you're willing to sell out rape victims for bullshit.
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    Perhaps getting fucked up the ass is more about submission, which goes along with femme gay culture.

    I think the women who do it want to be more submissive than even this culture provides.

    Waiting for the flame.

    But seriously, you women let Nicole's rape comment slide to prove your partners aren't gay?

    How lame. No, how fucked up.

    This has gone beyond stupid. Fuck your men up the ass, but to let a woman say some women get off on being for real raped, you have problems.

    Thank god for all my boyfriends, my brother, and my dad and I don't care if they like ass fucking. Rape is rape. and it should have nothing to do with ass fucking like this. But, obviously you think its OK, enough to think you should thank them. (See all women who thanked Nicole 84 for her rape comments)

    Back to the days of Kat**** where anything men like , who are self-esteem challenged, is what women like. Sleep well.

    Men, seems to me these women will do any thing to please for their own self-esteem problems. Some think self-esteem turns off men. I never said I wasn't kinky, but this is over the top.
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    Kittygirl, I understand how shocking it sounds. I had a hard time believing it would be possible, but I have heard this is true as well--though I have my doubts that it is a frequent thing at all. It does nothing to diminish the horror and shock of brutal assault.

    I deleted your thread asking how many women who have been raped had orgasm. I don't think anyone here condones or forgives rape in any way shape or form. Try to calm down, please...
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    Thanks for your "try to calm down please". Where have you heard this? and that was the point of my thread.

    If it makes some feel better, fine. I wanted to poll everyone, but you cut that short.

    I guarantee that was a post to deflect from gay strap on sex.

    So, I ask here how many women have gotten turned on while raped?

    If it threatens your greater well being, cancel my post.

    That says more about you than the words I put together.

    Is this taboo on a website mostly for women, or only those who don't agree?

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    Kittygirl, I understand how shocking it sounds. I had a hard time believing it would be possible, but I have heard this is true as well--though I have my doubts that it is a frequent thing at all. It does nothing to diminish the horror and shock of brutal assault.

    I deleted your thread asking how many women who have been raped had orgasm. I don't think anyone here condones or forgives rape in any way shape or form. Try to calm down, please...
    I am not sure why you deleted my thread.

    I thought it was a legitimate question for women, which this board is meant to serve.

    "Try to calm down please". Why because some women you have talked to said they liked rape?

    Most women I have spoken to said that wasn't the case. Does that make it a bad thread? I have spoken to drug addicts, homeless, professionals, mothers, doctors, psychologists.

    I'm glad some women you know enjoyed it. I think it's a great minority.

    So, you close down my thread. I guess my question is too inflammatory.

    So are you saying that the women you spoke to who enjoyed rape supercede our members. Please remember this is a board geared towards women.

    I still don't understand your motives. Most women here consider rape a big deal.

    Or are you saying one male moderator supercedes that?

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