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    I have earned my reputation on here asking useless questions so I figure I can ask other stupid questions.

    Some guy meets a woman at a bar, restaurant, or some other public function and it is their first meeting and he asks her for their first date or get together if she would like to fly with him to his large ranch in Colorado for the weekend. It will basically be only the two of them except maybe for soem ranch employees. The ranch is large enough to feel isolated as the closest house is literally two miles away over very rough and mountainous terrain, but the town is within fifteen minutes and is a world renowned ski resort. The obvious thing is the guy is probably pretty rich as the average large ranch ain't cheap these days and the woman is not rich but makes a better than average living of over 150k a year. The house is large enough where if wanted there will be available bedrooms to choose from if wanted. The guy is not a celebrity but has boatloads of cash and he talks frequently of the numerous different ways he generates more boatloads of cash so that he can spend it liberally. Not the player or the braggart type, just a guy with nonchalance that thinks talking about how he makes huge amounts of money every month is for everyday conversation.

    Does, the woman think it is too forward for a guy like this to ask her if she would like to spend the weekend at his ranch just outside one of the more exlcusive towns in the world? And does the woman think it might even be offensive for a guy to talk like that and then ask her to his ranch?

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    A guy asking me to go away with him to his ranch in another state the very first night I met him would translate into this in my mind:

    Possible Bullshit talker, likely sleazeball, perhaps even a psychopath.

    I mean, no offense... that's just really what I would think. And honestly, I feel like any woman who says "sure, strange man I just met and know absolutely no personal information about, I will go with you to your secluded ranch in Colorado" probably has similar issues. I don't know any sane women who would take a guy up on that offer. Well, unless maybe he was paying her a shit ton of money and even then, I only know a few girls who do that unescorted.

    That's the sort of thing you ask after at LEAST 3 or 4 dates. At least. It would take me -months- of knowing someone before I'd go away with them for the weekend.

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    A ranch would not be in the mountains; the cows would roll down.

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    - totalty agree with that. I understand as a sutomer u comming to the SC for companionship for a frw minutes but don't expect the girl on the first dance to be like ok ima go to some mystical ranch with u

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    If someone asked me that on the first day we met that would totally creep me out and turn me off. As would the frequent talking about money. Both those things tell me this goes at least a little socially inept at best, and a total creep or even psycho at worst.
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    How about he didn't mention the value of the ranch, and it was not at a strip club. This was in a total social or community situation that was not involving stripping.


    I don't mean that he necessarily was saying "hey, let's ditch this joint and fly out right away, but that is how the first conversation went and maybe the trip was for the next weekend


    The conversation was fairly sociable and led to horseback riding skiing, and snowmobiling and THEN the guy "hey, I have a stable of horses and snowmobiles just outside of Aspen where we could ride all day and dance all night in Aspen after dinner and "crash" at the ranch afterwards.

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    ^^^ I already gathered from the OP that this situation did not involve stripping/strip clubs.

    Even if he didn't mention money...yup, still weird and inappropriate.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    weird and inappropriate.
    Do you think so?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    ^^^ I already gathered from the OP that this situation did not involve stripping/strip clubs.

    Even if he didn't mention money...yup, still weird and inappropriate.
    agreed

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    Quote Originally Posted by worldfamoustoddyepthatguy View Post
    It will basically be only the two of them except maybe for soem ranch employees. The ranch is large enough to feel isolated as the closest house is literally two miles away over very rough and mountainous terrain
    Spending the weekend in an isolated ranch w/ a stranger in which the fastest way to get help is to crawl 2 miles over very rough and mountainous terrain, eh? Sounds enticing!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    Do you think so?
    to me it would seem like the guy was moving too fast... imagine a girl asking you to have dinner with her parents within the first hour of meeting you at a bar...it's an awkward request and could be an indicator of clinginess.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SerenaSin View Post
    to me it would seem like the guy was moving too fast... imagine a girl asking you to have dinner with her parents within the first hour of meeting you at a bar...it's an awkward request and could be an indicator of clinginess.
    It has happened but I did not fear for my safety. Of course if she said her parents lived in a remote location I might have some concerns.


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    Sounds like a great set up for a spice network type of soft core porn show.

    If you are trying to write a romance story appealing to women, I'd go with some kind of co-incidental reason for her to be there, for instance she's an equestrian veterinarian that is world renowned for working with rescue horses and the ranch has just taken on some rescues to be delivered on the following day. Maybe they are meeting for the first time at a fund raiser for rescue horses or something, that would be a better set up and more reason for her to trust the handsome rancher.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    A ranch would not be in the mountains; the cows would roll down.
    ahahahah this makes me sorry I called you a douche in that other thread just now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by worldfamoustoddyepthatguy View Post
    I have earned my reputation on here asking useless questions so I figure I can ask other stupid questions.
    Indeed. In fact you win the award for the the most headaches generated from stupid posts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    A ranch would not be in the mountains; the cows would roll down.


    OP, pick a more neutral first date that isn't 100% on your turf. Think more about what she likes to do for fun and what interests you have in common.

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    that sort of thing, to me equals a couple things:

    -creepy
    -possible dangerous situation
    -loser (for talking about money so much)

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    Remember the "dont take candy from strangers" lesson you were taught when you were little? well when you're older it turns into the "dont go away with 'rich guys' you barely know."

    Avoid.

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    That sounds like the adult equivalent of approaching a small child with a picture of a lost puppy and promises of a van filled with candy.
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    Yeah, I would never do that. That's really fucking weird and I'd be like, "Wow, you're a psycho, no thanks." I mean, that's the type of thing I imagine being on a flier a month later on the Missing People bulletin board: "Last seen with sketchy "rancher," accepting invitation to his secluded home...any information please contact XYZ."

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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 View Post
    That sounds like the adult equivalent of approaching a small child with a picture of a lost puppy and promises of a van filled with candy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    If someone asked me that on the first day we met that would totally creep me out and turn me off. As would the frequent talking about money. Both those things tell me this goes at least a little socially inept at best, and a total creep or even psycho at worst.
    How about instead of a rich guy asking to take you to a ranch in the mountains, a poor guy who offers to take you to his sister's basement in a suburb of Indianapolis? Would it make a difference if the poor guy told you he could you all you can eat for free at the Sam's club cafeteria?

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    ^^^ lol!
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    Deogul, That is hilarious.

    First of all what I noticed everyone here doesn't seem to realize is the different culture the guy mentioned in the question represents.

    What most people are familiar with in this type of situation is probably relatable, at least in part, to the more common income level. When people earn incomes of 50,000 - 200,000 a year their conversational style can sometimes be limited by their circumstance. Someone in that income range when it comes to work versus play will be more likely to leave work at the "office" when at play and that includes investing. A guy putting in his forty to fifty hours a week who maybe even hires a guy to handle his 500 a month investment account is not too involved in his financials other than maybe paying his bills, budgeting for entertainment and knowing how much he sets aside for savings every month.

    The guy making a large sum of money every month has more expendable cash to spend on multiple investments. That being said, a guy with a lot of money is probably more intimately and sometimes personally involved in how all of his money moves even when employing a financial advisor. A big part of this type of guy's life is spending his money in many ways including smartly, frivolously, and on his investments. The type of women he probably meets are women who are possibly used to this type of mentality. In a manner of speaking, this type of guy is almost always talking about how to spend his money and social situations also include frequent conversations on spending money. I am not saying that it is necessary for him to talk this way, but that the fact is he is more personally involved in spending his large sums of money, so he is more likely to talk about it.

    To a guy like this who is involved in managing a huge financial portfolio it would be normal to him to talk about it. Also, I should probably point out that I was not meaning to emphasize that he talks that way specifically around the woman in question, not did I mean for it to sound like that the subject had to be part of the conversation, I just meant for it to mean that was part of his persona.

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    ^^^ I disagree. I think even people who have a lot of money, or work with a lot of money, usually know it's not polite to discuss personal finances with people you've just met. Unless they are socially inept.

    Sorry Todd. If you're waiting for someone to say it's not creepy, well, I don't think that's gonna happen.
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