How do you guys deal with insecurities that develop at work when comparing yourself to the other dancers?
I've had my fair share of body image issues in the past, but for the past 9 months or so they've been COMPLETELY vacant. I'd even go so far to say that I've been totally in love with myself. It definitely helped that I thought I was one of the best lookers in my club (and a zbone review said that I had the most beautiful face in my club woooo) BUT
Last night I went to amateur night at 4Play in Los Angeles and now I'm totally thrown off. Every girl that walked into the dressing room was a 8/9. I read that I should expect some gorgeous girls but I was not prepared for that at all. So now I'm left feeling like shit, and not wanting to even go back to my club.
How would you guys deal?



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Totally agree. I've always had issues with my body, from everything to my small A cup boobs to the scars on my body. But I look at myself as beautiful, as do alot of the guys and even some of the girls. When I first started dancing in New Jersey, I was the new girl surrounded by a bunch of girls who I thought were super pretty. Of course it intimidated me. I was the shy girl who just sat at bar and did my set when I had to. But soon after, I started getting customers who totally admired my beauty, and it made me realize that I'm not perfect, yet there is something about me that is beautiful, and that's all that matters.

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