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    tonight im more pissed at my boss than ever. he wanted to leave work 10 mins early so near closing when i secured a half hour private show he tears the receipt in half throws it at me, hurls abuse about how he told the reception no more long shows coz he wants to leave early n we can get fucked and we should be fired coz hes the boss n can do whatever the fuck he wants...

    im sure worse things have happened but i havnt been working long enough and am relatively drama free....

    anyone have any hectic stories of times when management fucks you over..... just coz they can?

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    yeah. constantly. too many instances to name. These men will do everything they can to exploit women and gain power and money for themselves. They don't give a shit about us. I have only had TWO strip club managers that I know genuinely cared about their dancers, and I've worked at over 20 clubs. It is sad it is not the norm- it should be because we are their livelihood- without us they wouldn't make shit!

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    -Manager threatened to fire me because I didn't drink on the job. She said she didn't trust dancers that can work sober.

    -Owner did fire me for doing online webcam shows in 1999. He didn't know the difference between webcam shows and prostitution.

    -Manager decided to close the club at 10pm because he was too hung over from a party he went to the day before. There were a bunch of high rollers in the club spending a lot of money. All the girls were selling dances. All the dancers were pissed because it looked like it could have been a $1k night for at least 6 of us. But no! He turned on the lights and kicked everyone out. I promptly called the owner at home and told him what happened. I don't give a crap if I got the manager fired, that was total bullshit.

    -Manager decides to open all 4 stages on a shift with only 6 girls working.


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    ^ I really don't get why managers choose to put so many girls on stage when it's dead or there's not enough girls working. If the dancers make less money the club makes less money!!! Why don't they get that?? I worked at a club once that had one long awkward stage with two poles and they would put FOUR girls on it at a time, which was stupid primarily for safety reasons, you couldn't even dance because you had to watch out for legs and arms hitting you. They would do it when there was barely anyone in the club so we'd be dancing for free when we could be hustling the few guys in there. STUPID managers!!!

    I wish all strip clubs were owned and operated by ex-dancers, women at minimum. Men have no business managing strip clubs.

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    2 days after i worked at a club, i got a text from the bouncer saying the manager shot somebody at the club!
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Isis Star View Post
    ^ I really don't get why managers choose to put so many girls on stage when it's dead or there's not enough girls working. If the dancers make less money the club makes less money!!! Why don't they get that?? I worked at a club once that had one long awkward stage with two poles and they would put FOUR girls on it at a time, which was stupid primarily for safety reasons, you couldn't even dance because you had to watch out for legs and arms hitting you. They would do it when there was barely anyone in the club so we'd be dancing for free when we could be hustling the few guys in there. STUPID managers!!!

    I wish all strip clubs were owned and operated by ex-dancers, women at minimum. Men have no business managing strip clubs.
    Men have no business running ANYTHING in the adulut industry .. PERIOD! uGH!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris View Post
    -Manager threatened to fire me because I didn't drink on the job. She said she didn't trust dancers that can work sober.
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    wow. i heard a similar quote from a custy telling me not to trust any guy who doesnt drink coz theyd be hiding somethng. but thats completerly different.

    im really happy there are two ex dancer bosses above that dickhead manager, emailed one this morning, dont really expect much hey

    same guy also threw a girls funny money in the bin coz it wasnt arranged in neat 20$ piles the way he likes them

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    So many stories. Let's see:

    One manager yelled at me because I refuse to take my top off on stage because "the guys come to see tits". Sure, but I come to work to make money and if they aren't tipping, I am not stripping. There were many guys at the stage and not one was tipping. When several of us told him, he said "that's your problem".

    One manager tried to date the girls. If you refused you were either fired or given a hard time hoping you'd quit. I ended up quitting.

    One club I worked at would only hire men, no matter how incompetent as managers. These guys would degrade the dancers even in front of customers, such as telling guys they were sluts or lesbians (even when not true).

    Another manager would never give a break on fees no matter how rough a night. He would tell us we were paying for his house and he couldn't care less if we made money or not.

    Yet another manager (these were all different clubs) fired me. The reason? I sprained my ankle on stage and the doctor told me to stay off my foot for a few weeks. This wasn't acceptable so I was told if I wanted my job I could either pay for everyday I'd be off, or I could come back and "possibly" be rehired. I should have told the owner (who was cool) what this manager pulled.

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    I got the stage treatment last night. I went to sit with someone and skip the two side stages and a manager calls me out in front of the guy and I had to go do it. I told the other manager and he thought it was a bouncer that told me and was like"Ignore him. Which one did that?", like he was going to yell at him. I told him it was the other manager and he was like "I don't really care what you do, just go back to the guy." 1) Stage is optional and not showing up is a norm around there. 2) I volunteer to fill in all the time 3) I didn't even have enough money to leave and was just trying to get $20 so I could get out. There were about 5 guys over by those stages and I made exactly $0 for going up on those stages all night. The managers couldn't even get a tip at the end of the night cause I never made enough to pay them. Some nights I give them $100 tip and this is how they treat me!?! I foresee me not selling as many bottles of champagne or tipping like that for a while.

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    I recently had a sit down meeting with the manager AND Gm and was reprimanded for allegedly sleeping with a waitress's boyfriend. This waitress had the nerve to say I was sleeping with her boyfriend, shoulder checked her when I walked by, and went home with a customer.

    A. It was my third day at the club, and I was from out of town, I don't know anybody let alone the waitress or her boyfriend. I still to this day have no idea who this waitress is or what she looks like.

    B. What the fuck would it matter if I did? What does that have to do with my job there? Why is the management getting involved?
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    I have yet to work in a club that is under management by men. But my bosses were pretty shitty, so I guess they're in the same boat.
    -my previous boss totally snapped on me because there was a lie going around that I left the club with a customer. I couldn't take it anymore so I quit. When she found out that there was no truth to it whatsoever, she begged me to come back. I politely declined. When shit like that happens, it pisses me off that they don't even come to you about first. They automatically assume that its true and give you hell for it. And when they find out that was all lies, they are left looking stupid.

    -I've gotten fired for not giving a guy a bj in the vip room. And I thought that only guy managers were shitty.

    -and like Paris said, I've gotten yelled at many times for not drinking. When I did drink, I couldn't stop. It would end up being to the point where I was stumbling and almost falling off the stage. After that, I only limited myself to two drinks within the course of my shift. The manager saw that I wasn't an easy target like I was before and gave me hell about it.

    -Oh, and when I worked in Wisconsin, I had to leave the state due to a family emergency. She knew about this and when I came back, she told me that I wasn't dependable so I couldn't come back. I wanted to slap the shit outta her.
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    Club in NOLA, now a different club. Methhead manager has the air conditioning off. Its New Fucking Orleans, a swamp of 100% humidity. We are dying, sweating all over the custies, makeup melting off. He refuses to crank the air, and threatens anyone who dare complain. Idiot, not my fault if you have the shakes from coming off speed.

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    I just quit a club where one manager sold girls drugs, and the other one(I don't have solid proof, but I'm pretty sure)got sexual favors from some of the dancers.
    plus, it was a dump, a I'm glad I don't work there anymore. I only worked there so long because it was close to my house. Ugh. *shudders*

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    Sorry that happened JD. that totally sux and I agree with you why management got involved. It's your private life and your business.

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    I had a manager threaten to fire me recently because I was checking my email at the bar. There were NO CUSTOMERS THERE at that point in time! (I haven't been back since then anyway).

    I was working in a small club in North Cali. When they hired me, I knew I had to go in for major surgery in about 6 weeks (health issues). I was honest about it when they hired me. I told them that I would be out for 3 weeks. Guess what? They fired me a couple of days after I was out of the hospital.

    Other than that, most managers have been pretty cool. In fact, one club threw a holiday party last Thurs., bought all the girls gifts and waved our house fee for a present. And apparently, they let 6 dancers get on stage and do a pajama/pillow fight dance. (No, I got there too late and was not one of them).
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    At SR LV, I overheard this:

    Girl: I'm here for an audition?
    Manager: What kind of fucking car do you drive?
    Girl: [stunned] A Honda, why?
    Manager: Maybe if you lost some fucking weight you'd be driving a Porsche!

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    ^^^^ that is well nasty, im shocked to be honest.

    jess xx

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    thiws thread amuses me
    like, if i worked an office job and had a manager call me into his office, bend me over the table and graphically describe how he wants to fuck me like that[like my boss said other night] im pretty sure i could sue for some big bucks and possibly get him fired

    seems like when it comes to employment, just like anything else, a whole new set of rules apply.

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    I had a super high roller custie in one club I worked at. Super as in....I wouldnt dance for him..just sit at the bar sipping champagne (the most expensive..and he'd buy as many bottles as I wanted...I poured a lot out and shared with friends!) and chatting and he'd hand me several grand when he was ready to leave. He'd also tip EVERYONE...bartenders, bouncers, managers, the DJ..EVERYONE...hundreds of dollars for doing nothing. Just cause he could.He tipped a bartender $900 one night to get on stage and strip to her bra and panties just cause he thought it was funny! He tipped the DJ and manager several hundred apiece so I could skip stage all night. He didnt like me being taken away from him.

    So they call a 2 4 1. At this club...if you dont get the 2 4 1 you have to get on stage or the bar or wherever and do the "loser" dance. As in...a bunch of girls dancing for the losers who couldnt even shell out for the 2 4 1 (or sometimes even THREE 4 1 !!)

    Of COURSE I dont even try to sell it. I'm occupied! So the manager....who was a TOTAL douche and liked to tell everyone he was a martial arts expert and he'd karate fight anyone who gave him trouble. I dont know karate...but I'm pretty sure if you call it "karate fighting"..you dont either....comes up to me and tells me I have to get on stage since I didnt sell the special.

    ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME??? Yeah..I didnt sell the special...I just sold 3 bottles of $500 champagne and got you ALL tipped a shitload for dping exactly NOTHING. In FACT..all my custie asked of you is to keep me OFF stage.

    My custie was PISSED. He was all "fuck him...how DARE he do this to you??? Lets just go to Goldfingers (the SC down the street) and we'll spend all my money THERE". I considered it....my shift was over and I could leave if I wanted to. (another point of contention...I'm technically OFF SHIFT an you make me go up??)

    I told him to let me see what I could do. I went over, chewed out Mr. karate fighting in front of EVERYONE and told him that I was calling the owner (who freakin loves me) to tell him EXACTLY how he had chased the biggest spender the club HAS out AND pissed off the owners fav girl.

    I made him get down on his knees ON THE FLOOR in front of everyone and apologize..AND go say he was sorry to my custie.

    It was awesome.

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    Two managers/owners show me a list of girls they fucked and wanted to "add" me to it.

    Yuck, gross, barf.
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    I just sold 3 bottles of $500 champagne
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    I made him get down on his knees ON THE FLOOR in front of everyone and apologize..AND go say he was sorry to my custie.
    thank goodness someone has some sense. why ruin a good thing?
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    I made him get down on his knees ON THE FLOOR in front of everyone and apologize..AND go say he was sorry to my custie.

    It was awesome.
    This is awesome! Sounds like something I would do! Way to go!
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    A manager fined me $300 for something I didn't even do!
    This was in 2003, when money was really good.
    This one bouncer got into the habit of putting a chair on the stage to seat cute female customers on stage for a show. The bouncer says to me to me, "Tigerlily, can you take care of this?". So i oblige and I just do lapdance type moves on the female customer and the manager claimed that I let my naked breasts touch the customers face. I was close to her face, but there was no contact!

    So I had to pony up the $300. I'm sure he just pocketed it. I was doing really well at that club for several years, and I like their strict no touch policy.

    It still burns me up! I sure can use that $300 now! (I'm retired BTW)

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    I just thought of another bizarre management moment. I auditioned at this club and they told us to call the next day to see if they want to hire us. The manager said he remembered me and said I got the "oink oink" award. I asked him what it was, and he told me how dare a fatass like me audition at the club (keep in mind I was a size 6 at most). He then proceeds to make pig noises! At the time I was mad because I was slimmer than many of the girls working there, and the girl who won was much larger as well. No, I never auditioned there again. I don't want to work with jerks like that. This same jackass introduced himself to everyone auditioning by stating he was the most important person we'll ever meet and we'd better please him with our dancing.

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    I just thought of another bizarre management moment. I auditioned at this club and they told us to call the next day to see if they want to hire us. The manager said he remembered me and said I got the "oink oink" award. I asked him what it was, and he told me how dare a fatass like me audition at the club (keep in mind I was a size 6 at most). He then proceeds to make pig noises! At the time I was mad because I was slimmer than many of the girls working there, and the girl who won was much larger as well. No, I never auditioned there again. I don't want to work with jerks like that. This same jackass introduced himself to everyone auditioning by stating he was the most important person we'll ever meet and we'd better please him with our dancing.
    I would have slapped him.

    Recently, I was suspended for something I didn't do because my GM was all butthurt because I told everyone how he blackmailed my hustle buddy. Asshole.

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