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    Question Is there anything in Iowa...?

    I know there is stripping and escorts. I'll do the stripping but I rather go into porn than be an escort no offence to anyone, but I can't do the dating and oh look getting lucky scene..(also cause I'm taken and I will not break my own rules) I been looking into being a dominatrix but either my search engine doesn't like that word or there is nothing here.. I think it would help blow off some steam and make alittle cash at the same time. I know alittle bit about bondage and still love to know more. I read everything that I found here and whatever my search engine spits out. I guess I'm just so bored here and winter is driving me up the wall.. Any tips and help?

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    Default Re: Is there anything in Iowa...?

    I don't know what the laws are like there. Are you looking to work at a dungeon or something? Can you be an independent dominatrix? I honestly don't know... what I was going to say is start your own business if you can't find anything, perhaps there would be a demand for it. But the legalities of this, I can't say. I've never understood the fine line between domming and prostitution and what is or isn't allowed. Good luck though! You have the right "look" for it (the light skin, dark hair, etc).



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    Default Re: Is there anything in Iowa...?

    I was looking for anything really, I can go independent but I want to learn abit more and also I don't have a place to build my domain since I live in an apartment and I really don't want to bring people home with me. I know there is a independent here in iowa, I been having my eye on her for sometime but I think our style might be abit too different.

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    Default Re: Is there anything in Iowa...?

    What search terms are using to look for stuff? You could try the Max Fisch Domina Guide. It has two dominatices listed for Iowa.


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    Default Re: Is there anything in Iowa...?

    I use the usual tags.. I just think my search tools just suck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sananeko View Post
    I know there is stripping and escorts. I'll do the stripping but I rather go into porn than be an escort no offence to anyone, but I can't do the dating and oh look getting lucky scene..(also cause I'm taken and I will not break my own rules) I been looking into being a dominatrix but either my search engine doesn't like that word or there is nothing here.. I think it would help blow off some steam and make alittle cash at the same time. I know alittle bit about bondage and still love to know more. I read everything that I found here and whatever my search engine spits out. I guess I'm just so bored here and winter is driving me up the wall.. Any tips and help?
    You can do distance domination.. I posted these sites yesterday. These ladies are VERY successful and have been at it for years: Tierra , Sierra , Lady sheer . .. I get a kick out of watching their vids and reading their blogs.. Pretty cool ish..

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    Default Re: Is there anything in Iowa...?

    the femdomme site in my signature since i cant copy and paste it up here

    Sign up on that site. it has free course on everything you need to know for being a domme as well as a slave university to send ur slaves to and a sissy university. its very helpful and u can probably find people in ur area as slaves
    still here.... just in another chapter..

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluexxxtasy View Post
    the femdomme site in my signature since i cant copy and paste it up here

    Sign up on that site. it has free course on everything you need to know for being a domme as well as a slave university to send ur slaves to and a sissy university. its very helpful and u can probably find people in ur area as slaves
    This is something I've been wanting to get into for a long time now. It has ALWAYS fascinated me. More sensual domination .. none of that hardcore shit.. I'll have to check out that site.. pretty cool.

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    This is something I've been wanting to get into for a long time now. It has ALWAYS fascinated me. More sensual domination .. none of that hardcore shit.. I'll have to check out that site.. pretty cool.
    yeah i was looking for stuff like that especially info on just getting into the biz the girl that gave me the site was like you wont find anything via regular search engines
    and once i signed up on this site it was awesome the domme university has everything u need to know on becomming a dominatrix.

    I should point out that being a dominatrix soley to release tension cus u are pissed off is NOT the way to go. bdsm and domme stuff in that fetish involves alot! people/slaves can actually get seriously hurt and die if you dont take the time to learn the basic stuff and are just doing it because you are just pissed off.
    still here.... just in another chapter..

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluexxxtasy View Post
    yeah i was looking for stuff like that especially info on just getting into the biz the girl that gave me the site was like you wont find anything via regular search engines
    and once i signed up on this site it was awesome the domme university has everything u need to know on becomming a dominatrix.

    I should point out that being a dominatrix soley to release tension cus u are pissed off is NOT the way to go. bdsm and domme stuff in that fetish involves alot! people/slaves can actually get seriously hurt and die if you dont take the time to learn the basic stuff and are just doing it because you are just pissed off.
    I've read about being a dominatrix over the years. I signed up to the site by the way .. Thanks for the info. I'm more into the fetishes..I'll have to go through the university and see what they're talking about.. it's $150 for lifetime access.. won't hurt.

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    when i signed on i got it free they have to make sure ur a domme/real person/female then u will get upgraded to gold membership n which the only people that actually pay are the slaves and whatever
    still here.... just in another chapter..

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluexxxtasy View Post
    when i signed on i got it free they have to make sure ur a domme/real person/female then u will get upgraded to gold membership n which the only people that actually pay are the slaves and whatever
    In other words If I get verified i won't have to pay?

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    right give them today latest tomorrow and you will see your status change from silver to gold. did u sigh up as a domme or pro domme?
    still here.... just in another chapter..

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluexxxtasy View Post
    right give them today latest tomorrow and you will see your status change from silver to gold. did u sigh up as a domme or pro domme?
    domme.. i think the other one was lifestyle domme..

    Hmm interesting..can't wait to work it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluexxxtasy View Post
    right give them today latest tomorrow and you will see your status change from silver to gold. did u sigh up as a domme or pro domme?
    I SEE YOU!! I'm trying to add you to my friendslist..

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    whats ur name on there? whenever some1 joins thru the link on my signature i get an email and i add them
    still here.... just in another chapter..

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluexxxtasy View Post
    whats ur name on there? whenever some1 joins thru the link on my signature i get an email and i add them
    LadyNaomi.. The really hot new member ..ha! Im going through the university now. I'm gonna PM you now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    LadyNaomi.. The really hot new member ..ha! Im going through the university now. I'm gonna PM you now.
    yeah i already added u lol
    still here.... just in another chapter..

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    lol so you are going through with the naomi name change?

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    I'm not sure where you live in Iowa, but there are options.

    When I lived and worked in North Dakota (where mere images of bondage and hard fetish material are considered contraband), I was not able to advertise my services as someone specializing in Domination. I don't think Iowa is as strict as the Dakotas, though.

    Anyway, the way I got around advertising a "specified service" was conducting business under the guise of an entertainment/modeling agency, which is perfectly legitimate. Once you start taking calls from interested parties, you can describe the scope of the services you provide and determine which customers have "special needs." I liked screening my "special needs" customers this way, because they were able to tell me what they wanted so I'd know if what they were looking for was something I was willing to provide/participate in.

    In the meantime, I also did bachelor parties, over the hill parties, and private one-on-one shows which helped fill the gaps between bookings with my "special needs" clients, and the "vanilla" shows, were a lifesaver as far as keeping me in money on a regular basis.

    The best advice I have for you if you decide to go this route (having your OWN agency, that is) is to make sure you're well versed in the laws pertaining to obscenity, pandering, solicitation, and prostitution in your area. Learn how to talk to clients on the phone, and what sort of things you shouldn't say over the phone. You may also want to figure out whether you're going to be providing in-call or out-call services, and which payment methods you will use. Another thing to think about is whether or not you will require contracts for your "special needs" clients.

    Otherwise, maybe you can just hook up with an agency that is already up and running. The bad part about working for someone else, is paying their fees and following THEIR rules and shit. I'd rather be the one collecting agency fees and telling other folks what to do, myself... Some agencies won't just let you specialize, and will send you out on other kinds of jobs while you're WAITING to get that specific customer. The other thing I don't like about working for someone else's agency is that when they set up jobs, some of the phone people will say and promise whatever they can to get the appointment and then conveniently forget to tell you that they promised the customer you would do three hours of anal for X fee, which creates problems for YOU when you meet up with the customer - especially if you're like me, and don't have sex with your clients.

    At any rate, I just did a Google search for "Iowa Dominatrix." Here's those results:

    I came across this site when I was looking through those results: , which appears to be a listing of sorts for independent Doms in Iowa. Maybe you could also post something there.

    By the way, if you're just looking to "blow off some steam," maybe you can figure out a way to get yourself some one-time-only or short-term "meet & beat" customers. The shitty part about these kinds of arrangements is that if you're not planning to have sex with your clients, you need to somehow get your boundaries out there up front and in a hurry, so they don't have that expectation, and decide whether to use their place or a place of your own for the session. In situations like this, I would almost always go to them, because my "meet & beat" customers were mainly traveling executive types, and were either set up in hotels or corporate suites.

    Oh! I almost forgot, there are quite a few Doms who post "personal" ads on sites like and .

    Good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    lol so you are going through with the naomi name change?
    Looksit! WISH I COULD CHANGE MY NAME HERE ON SW.. lol!

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    Thank you all, I want to do it for a few reasons. I like this type of lifestyle and yes it is to blow off some steam but I always keep to rules and make sure everyone is safe. I also feel it might be something I'm good at.

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    I signed up. I think I should of gone with pro but oh well..

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    Quote Originally Posted by sananeko View Post
    I signed up. I think I should of gone with pro but oh well..
    The diff between lifestyle domme and pro domme is this
    lifestyle domme- you practice this in your everyday life and have been doing this for a few years and have like live in slaves/contract slaves, just very experienced in the field.

    A pro domme-paid sessions only. the slaves pay you for certain sessions dealing with domination. usually can be 1-2 hours a session i guess depending on what you offer.

    Being a dominatrix does not require sex AT All. however u have those that dont even have experience in the field but use the term "dominatrix" as a way to advertise escort services and stay under police radar.. therefore on the sites if you are not interested in doing sexual stuff u may get guys approach u with stuff like that... however, as a domme u control the situation and put them in their place the domme university explains this and lots more
    still here.... just in another chapter..

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluexxxtasy View Post
    The diff between lifestyle domme and pro domme is this
    lifestyle domme- you practice this in your everyday life and have been doing this for a few years and have like live in slaves/contract slaves, just very experienced in the field.

    A pro domme-paid sessions only. the slaves pay you for certain sessions dealing with domination. usually can be 1-2 hours a session i guess depending on what you offer.

    Being a dominatrix does not require sex AT All. however u have those that dont even have experience in the field but use the term "dominatrix" as a way to advertise escort services and stay under police radar.. therefore on the sites if you are not interested in doing sexual stuff u may get guys approach u with stuff like that... however, as a domme u control the situation and put them in their place the domme university explains this and lots more
    The domme university is kick ass.. I don't think I would want live in slaves as become a lifestyle dominatrix. Can you say CREEPY? I don't see how those women do it .. but all power to them. I'd get fed up with the slave and probably whoop his ass.. I'm more into the fetishes than anything. Is there a way I can search subs in the area on the site?

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