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    Okay, yeah I did read about the body stuff and how I'm supposed to just go to a club and audition if I'm not sure. However I would like, just like the op of the other thread, to know if I should even bother going to try out.

    My problem is one of proportions- I have an average top but huge bottom. No matter how much I exercise, my thighs only will lose about 2" when the rest of me loses a lot more.

    Please just let me know if I should give up or try to lose more weight- I would be very grateful. I live in the Midwest if that helps...
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    Default Re: Another "am I wasting my time"

    You're not that bad! You're better looking than I am, but then again I'm not much of a gym goer. Everyone has their problem areas. You do have some thick legs but after you start those will probably go down quite a bit.

    What area of the midwest are you in? Midwest guys do like a bit of meat on their girls.

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    Yeah, my thighs are huge. I'm in Illinois.

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    Here are some celebs with not so tiny thighs; I think you are ready btw

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    courtesy of:
    http://skinnyvscurvy.com

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    you are very hot. nice physique. by the way, alot of guys like thick thighs anyway.

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    I think your perfect to be honest!

    Your body shape reminds me of beyonce, shakira, jlo etc, infact i think they may even be BIGGER than you!

    They're always dancing/performing yet no matter how much calories they burn, they've still got that bootylicious butt and thighs.....but i think they look just right, not too skinny and not too big, just right.....like you!

    If you built more muscle and toned your body more, instead of "loosing weight", it would look amazing!

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    I agree--you look great! A LOT of men LOVE that shape. I wish I had more thighs and booty--I think it's a very feminine and sexy body type.

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    You will be fine in Illinois. Just depends on the particular area of Illinois you are in to work, some clubs have girls there that may make you feel less adequate. You are just fine as you are so keep your confidence and head up. And don't let anyone anywhere you work bring you down or feel any less. It can be tough to get used to but, every girl is different and each is loved for that in their own way.





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    I think you'd easily be hired at most clubs I've worked at... and probably do quite well, at that.
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    Uh...yeah: agreed with everyone else!

    Damn...seems many non-strippers really internalize/believe what movies tell them: that strippers are all 11's with zero flaws! Hardly the truth!!

    OP- You look great!

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    Oh and by the way...maybe I'm crazy, but you don't look like you have a big ass/thighs to me. You look very proportional. If you put your ass on a tiny frame, it'd look big, but yours goes perfectly with your frame.

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    Thanks everyone! Okay, I thought I was totally a lost cause. Someone said it depended where I lived in IL- I'm right on the border of Iowa. It's a pretty good sized area.

    Okay, I'll work on toning up; good thing I like lifting weights.

    So I have a possibility of getting hired in the first place? I think that actually worries me more than anything. There are now 3 clubs around here- 1 is in a party area w/ lots of bars and clubs around- it's not upscale but it's not a total dive either and it's the only one in IL.

    The second is a large club w/ lots of girls. It's on an interstate and I know they get a lot of truckers, farmers, and young people. It's not a gown club, but I don't know if the manager is okay w/ thicker girls.

    The third is a very small dive that has a reputation for ugly/overweight girls. I'm not totally sure, but I don't think there are many young people who visit that one.

    Which one should I try first?

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    I have legs kinda like yours and defined calfs and I get complimented on them all the time. I think you would do very well in middle ground-high end club. Girls tend to be into bigger tits than guys are. I started out with smaller tits than yours (since have gotten breast implants). Guys love small, natural boobies!

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    ^ You have my calves!!! I get complimented on them all the time too.

    OP- if you were blocky, it could work against you. But shapely curves are always sought after!!

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    Your body is beautiful! After you start, your legs'll start to tone up, asap. I think they're a fine size, just need some toning like my legs. Haha.

    You're a lot better than some girls I've seen, and like Autumn Lily said, guys prefer some thickness to women

    Go out there and do your thing!

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    Quote Originally Posted by DancingDaisy View Post
    I have legs kinda like yours and defined calfs and I get complimented on them all the time. I think you would do very well in middle ground-high end club. Girls tend to be into bigger tits than guys are. I started out with smaller tits than yours (since have gotten breast implants). Guys love small, natural boobies!
    Thank you! I actually like my small boobs, I think they might look weird w/ implants cause my nips seem to point up and out lol. But sometimes I wish they were bigger.

    I would be so happy to have your legs- they should be my goal.

    eta- When I try out, what kind of outfit would look best?

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    ^ Definitely go with something that fits loosely around your hips. Anything super tight will make you look fat, even though you aren't. I personally rock a bikini that has kind of streamer things down the side (they have 'em on snaz75.com). The streamer things elongate my body, and the bikini shows off my great stomach (and you have a great stomach too!)

    I also suggest a simpler outfit because you won't burn a bunch of money on stuff that turns out to not work for your body type this way. When I first started, I bought a bunch of shit from victoria's secret: it all clung to my body (looked terrible in the club) and wasn't made out of durable materials. So start simple and then expand your wardrobe as you become more experienced.

    Like these: http://www.snaz75.com/bz-1207-sl.html
    They'll really show off your butt!

    Don't know if you'd have any interest in getting one, but a long bellybutton ring would really call attention to your flat stomach. Guys are endlessly fascinated by mine.

    And remember to stick with bright colors to stand out and compensate for your simple outfit!!
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    Oh, and I'd go with a backless heel like these: http://www.snaz75.com/pl-candy-03.html

    They have high platforms (comfortable), chunky heels (stable!), and don't have a back (easier to move in, and will also visually elongate your legs since there won't be a strap back there to interrupt the eye's path).

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    Thanks, charlie! What you say makes sense. I actually had a belly button piercing once, but I took it out. I've always wanted to get it repierced- I'm going to do it.

    I like those heels too, but I'm worried I'll slip out of them. Maybe I'll try them anyway.

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    Id try the second club you mentioned. I like the shoes with an ankle strap and chunky heels because Im very clumsy and my ankles tend to roll. If that makes any sense. These are similar to the ones I wear.

    http://www.electriqueboutique.com/wo...DY-30-BLK.html

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    Wow!! I think you have a nice body, perfect! You have a womenly shape that a lot of guys like! I really don't think you need to change a thing. You're just not skinny that's all! I know you probably think most guys want the thin girls but I used to get turned down a lot and told that I need some meat on my bones!

    If you still feel uncomfortable with your body, you could do some toning exercises. You won't lose weight but you'll look like you exercise and you're body will be tighter.

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    http://www.snaz75.com/el-656-march.html

    I wore these for the first 2 years. They last a long time and are super cheap!!

    But I think you'd be surprised at how difficult it is to 'fall out' of backless heels. I know I was nervous first trying them, but they actually make you more stable since your heels can move. That's how it seems to me at least...

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    You can work anywhere in Illinois, you are gorgeous. What I really meant was in some areas of Illinois the other girls may not be so nice. When I started they wouldn't stop telling customers I was the baby of the blub and the youngest and too young. Didn't hurt my business but it annoyed the crap out of me. I have alsways just acted normally older than I am but when you have the looks of someone much younger sometimes when others say it...it creeps some customers out. lol. A girl I worked with works out like a maniac and has one hard body. Because when she started they told her she was fat (the girls did). She never was fat. She was thin. It is more of weither you are ready to hear those things because they can get so nasty. I've seen worse here in Detroit but when I worked in Illinois it wasn't the nicest everywhere either. Grow tough skin if you don't have it. You have a great body and no one should tear you down for it.





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    Higher heels will help reduce the thickness look in your legs. The taller you look the rest will follow. I'm tall and thin but I still wear 7in. Also as some other ladies said, the way you dress makes a difference.

    You don't look un-fit, it just looks like that is the way you are built.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    You don't look un-fit, it just looks like that is the way you are built.
    Although I could lose more weight and tone up, your right about it just being the way I'm built. My sister, mom, grandmother, and great grandmother all have/had these legs.

    Two of my aunts would too, but they eat very strict diets and exercise for an hour and a half a day, 6 days a week (and they're taller than me). My diet is good, but I'm a student w/ a work-study job and it's hard for me to schedule a set time for exercise.

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