So, I've occasionally seen links to websites like this one:
http://www.docstoc.com/docs/5495629/...k-Up-Strippers
All about how to chat up dancers and get dates. You know: don't sit down next to the stage, don't ogle her figure, try and show you are relating to her personally by calling her by name, etc, etc.
So, last night I overheard two guys at the bar muttering to each other about how about how they were going to try this (or some variation) out on some of the dancers.
Now, I only go to clubs to give one or two girls a lift home, so I partially fit this modus operandi. I sit well away from the stage, don't ogle the girl's, call them by name, buy them the occasional drink, etc.
So in consequence, I get on well with quite a few dancers - who are perfectly aware I'm not going to buy dances, etc. I'm just someone they can relax with for 5 minutes. If they're working, they'll stop by for a friendly chat, and we laugh and joke, etc. Exactly the effect you should get by using the famed 'chat up' technique in the website above.
End result - two very puzzled pick up artists.
They got sussed by the dancers fairly early on, and largely ignored thereafter. And about 10 feet away, there's Phil doing all the things you should be doing, and getting on famously with a number of dancers.
You could almost see the speech bubble above their heads: "hey, it's working for that guy - why isn't it working for us?"
Heh, heh, heh......
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