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    Sad I'm a 'fat cow' as HE put it

    I started doing cam work last month. I'm currently on livejasmin (leahstar)
    well I have recently shed 15 lbs. Soooo I figured ' 'ey I'm getting to my ideal weight why not get started doing some cam work'

    Yesterday I was online( I have the camon my face) a guy asked if he could view my body before going to private. I stood up.. He told me I was a fat cow..
    Now Im thinking twice about going back on.. A bit self conci
    conscious(sp?) I do have a bit of meat on me.. Rolls..cellulite...
    I guess where I'm getting at is; has anyone ever been told mean things and how do you deal with it??

    I know I shouldn't care.. But I'm human and in a worl(livejasmin) full with gorg. Woman.



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    ^^Hun, we've ALL been there. Even the excessively thin will hear stuff like this sometimes. Try not to take it personally, it just comes with the territory. Sex workers of all types are well, treated very badly by many men. I was told the same thing 2 days after my BA follow up appt. Know how much I weighed on the Dr's scale? 92lbs. See how ridiculous? If you aren't their absolute ideal, they don't wanna pay and don't respect us enough to be nice about it.
    "I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lizbflo View Post
    I started doing cam work last month. I'm currently on livejasmin (leahstar)
    well I have recently shed 15 lbs. Soooo I figured ' 'ey I'm getting to my ideal weight why not get started doing some cam work'

    Yesterday I was online( I have the camon my face) a guy asked if he could view my body before going to private. I stood up.. He told me I was a fat cow..
    Now Im thinking twice about going back on.. A bit self conci
    conscious(sp?) I do have a bit of meat on me.. Rolls..cellulite...
    I guess where I'm getting at is; has anyone ever been told mean things and how do you deal with it??

    I know I shouldn't care.. But I'm human and in a worl(livejasmin) full with gorg. Woman.



    Sorry for the long post!
    first off if u are on live jasmin and doing the free chat they are a bunch of dicks! i officially no longer do free chat on live jasmin. i have porn star status and everytime i was in there i got people talking about my hair, saying im bald, saying i look like a transvestite(sp)/transsexual,callin me a slut this black that...the list goes on and on not to mention some1 changed their id name 2 jaycee_vids_suck (btw my name on there is jaycee luv) they are just a bunch of ass holes...plus this is the sex industry its chicks 300lbs+ doing cam show so dnt worry about it. if you feel u need to do more to ur body do it for urself, and in the meanwhile u can still do shows its a niche for everyone
    still here.... just in another chapter..

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    I say fuck it. If your not his dream girl then he doesn't deserve to see you. Most men are pigs and most men that make fun of women either cause they can't please one, have a small dick, or can't even use it right. Do what I do, say you will take note of it and lose it the doesn't matter pile. I'm 200 pound.. I'm only losing fat cause I want to go rock climbing with my mate. I have men call me fat often, while I have many men paying just to look into my eyes and women that want to date me. Forget them, the more you ingnore them the better it will all be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluexxxtasy View Post
    first off if u are on live jasmin and doing the free chat they are a bunch of dicks! i officially no longer do free chat on live jasmin. i have porn star status and everytime i was in there i got people talking about my hair, saying im bald, saying i look like a transvestite(sp)/transsexual,callin me a slut this black that...the list goes on and on not to mention some1 changed their id name 2 jaycee_vids_suck (btw my name on there is jaycee luv) they are just a bunch of ass holes...plus this is the sex industry its chicks 300lbs+ doing cam show so dnt worry about it. if you feel u need to do more to ur body do it for urself, and in the meanwhile u can still do shows its a niche for everyone
    Well said. There are HUGE girls in this industry that make a killing. So what you're not his type. Don't sweat it. I've been told to get my "nigger ass" off cam and guess what I did? I smiled and said "Your mother is a nigger".. he got pissed and left. Don't let stupid men get you down. I'm sure you are beautiful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluexxxtasy View Post
    first off if u are on live jasmin and doing the free chat they are a bunch of dicks! i officially no longer do free chat on live jasmin. i have porn star status and everytime i was in there i got people talking about my hair, saying im bald, saying i look like a transvestite(sp)/transsexual,callin me a slut this black that...the list goes on and on not to mention some1 changed their id name 2 jaycee_vids_suck (btw my name on there is jaycee luv) they are just a bunch of ass holes...plus this is the sex industry its chicks 300lbs+ doing cam show so dnt worry about it. if you feel u need to do more to ur body do it for urself, and in the meanwhile u can still do shows its a niche for everyone
    thank you for the reply, yes I sit around in free chat.. As I'm still new to this I doubt being in 'member chat' will get me anywhere.. Yes I was trying to view your cam a few days ago, you were the only girl on with 'porn star' right??
    I do feel great about my body, I feel I've lost a great amount of weight, I feel sexier..if it wasn't for this asshole.. Ugh...

    Being that you know ur ways- do you ever get men who are in pvt' n then bail w out saying goodbye or thanks? Am I expecting too much??

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    Well said. There are HUGE girls in this industry that make a killing. So what you're not his type. Don't sweat it. I've been told to get my "nigger ass" off cam and guess what I did? I smiled and said "Your mother is a nigger".. he got pissed and left. Don't let stupid men get you down. I'm sure you are beautiful.
    Thank you, I had to give this guy the 'bird' then logged off..
    I don't understand.. If the guy doesn't like what he see's he can simply click away instead.. They waste their time writing you these hurtful things!

    ( now I'm wasting my time dweling on his comment)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lizbflo View Post
    thank you for the reply, yes I sit around in free chat.. As I'm still new to this I doubt being in 'member chat' will get me anywhere.. Yes I was trying to view your cam a few days ago, you were the only girl on with 'porn star' right??
    I do feel great about my body, I feel I've lost a great amount of weight, I feel sexier..if it wasn't for this asshole.. Ugh...

    Being that you know ur ways- do you ever get men who are in pvt' n then bail w out saying goodbye or thanks? Am I expecting too much??
    being in member chat means the person won't see u (speaking u have a vid teaser) until they press the private...and if u do decide to chat its only text chat with members only
    still here.... just in another chapter..

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    Quote Originally Posted by sananeko View Post
    I say fuck it. If your not his dream girl then he doesn't deserve to see you. Most men are pigs and most men that make fun of women either cause they can't please one, have a small dick, or can't even use it right. Do what I do, say you will take note of it and lose it the doesn't matter pile. I'm 200 pound..
    yes most are pigs! Your post made me laugh(thnk u) do you cam?? I've seen a few girls on LJ who are a bit thicker than I am.. And they get a lot of guys saying how gorg and such they are.. Which was what motivated me to sign on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluexxxtasy View Post
    being in member chat means the person won't see u (speaking u have a vid teaser) until they press the private...and if u do decide to chat its only text chat with members only
    Now this may sound stupid but I am serious, if ur on member chat and he doesn't ' like ' what he sees can he get his money back? And get penalty for it?

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    You know what the funny thing is, it's not even about not being his ideal. It's a power fix, because they feel a lack of it in their lives somehow (maybe economy, job insecurity, sick family member...). In their head, the quick fix is going online and finding some random person to abuse (and allows them to feel anonymous while doing so). That's why even the perceived closer to 'perfect' even get it too. Keep your self esteem. It's a beautiful intangible.
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    I'd have to have a "4 simease twin strippers gave me head and then lite themselves on fire" story to blow anybody's mind here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    ^^Hun, we've ALL been there. Even the excessively thin will hear stuff like this sometimes. Try not to take it personally, it just comes with the territory. Sex workers of all types are well, treated very badly by many men. I was told the same thing 2 days after my BA follow up appt. Know how much I weighed on the Dr's scale? 92lbs. See how ridiculous? If you aren't their absolute ideal, they don't wanna pay and don't respect us enough to be nice about it.
    92 lbs? That isn't fat at all.. Yes there is NO respect. The guy is a fool, I mean why not just click away instead you want to type this rude
    comments it's so dumb. ( I know Im dwelling on it too but it's my 1st month and 1st insult lol)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lizbflo View Post
    Now this may sound stupid but I am serious, if ur on member chat and he doesn't ' like ' what he sees can he get his money back? And get penalty for it?
    um no its not that simple...on live jasmin.. the only way he'd b able to get his money back is if you put down what ur willing to do and check those extra boxes but in the show u dnt do it. its something else 2 i can't think of....but u can find it in the rules or somewhere in ur performer center
    still here.... just in another chapter..

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    FUCK HIM! I look at it this way .... he's just 1 person! How many other people paid you? On IMLIVE this guy was in my chat talking about me and the other guest in my room can see each other. The other guys in the room all turned on him I love what I do and as long as you are happy with what you see somebody else will be too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wish View Post
    FUCK HIM! I look at it this way .... he's just 1 person! How many other people paid you? On IMLIVE this guy was in my chat talking about me and the other guest in my room can see each other. The other guys in the room all turned on him I love what I do and as long as you are happy with what you see somebody else will be too.
    Yes true.. I've had like 68 guys.. I didn't stay on long enough to see if anyone would stick up for me.. Thank god for this site. Thank you!

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    I clicked on a girls room the other day because I saw her on a site and just thought she was beautiful. So I wanted to see her on her cam. When I clicked in her room, the first thing I saw was someone calling her a "nigger" and a "cunt". I was totally shocked. I guess not totally because I know guys are dicks. But wow. There are some seriously messed up people out there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    Well said. There are HUGE girls in this industry that make a killing. So what you're not his type. Don't sweat it. I've been told to get my "nigger ass" off cam and guess what I did? I smiled and said "Your mother is a nigger".. he got pissed and left. Don't let stupid men get you down. I'm sure you are beautiful.
    I laughed hard.

    No one has ever said too much bad to me... hmmm... not sure. If they did I'd just laugh and not care. I know I'm gorgeous and I'd know that even without the billions of guys drooling at me on cam. I do think it's important to be aware of your worth in this industry (or just... in LIFE) since there are a lot of assholes. You have to know youre beautiful so much that their opinion otherwise means basically nothing.

    Haha now that I think about it there was one time... when I first started and was working on Girltime (shitty)...some guy came into my chat and asked me to pull my hair back. When I did he got extremely angry, said I "lied" about having big boobs (nowhere did i ever say I have big boobs, Ive ALWAYS said I have tiny titties) and called me a dirty bitch. I laughed, and so did the other guys in the room. No big deal.

    Oh and it might help to keep in mind that some people just get off(or just find it funny) on abusing girls to see their reaction on cam. So take into consideration that he might even have literally found you fat, he just wanted to fuck with your head and see what happened...



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    Quote Originally Posted by lilmisssunshine View Post
    I clicked on a girls room the other day because I saw her on a site and just thought she was beautiful. So I wanted to see her on her cam. When I clicked in her room, the first thing I saw was someone calling her a "nigger" and a "cunt". I was totally shocked. I guess not totally because I know guys are dicks. But wow. There are some seriously messed up people out there.
    Yeah but there is no reason anyone should have to tolerate something like that. The moment one derogatory word is used towards me the person is banned from my room forever. Don't take no shit!



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    Quote Originally Posted by Lizbflo View Post
    Yes true.. I've had like 68 guys.. I didn't stay on long enough to see if anyone would stick up for me.. Thank god for this site. Thank you!
    See, you've got a 68 to 1 ratio!! That's pretty damn good! Just tell off the rude morons! Some guys can only feel good about themselves if they insult us.

    As for the N word shit...I can't even go there! As a very caucasion looking girl raised by a very racialy diverse mother, I just wanna kick idiots like that in the face with a spike heel.
    "I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."

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    On the other hand now that I think about it this guy took me in private once my 2nd day on streamate and just wanted to call me nigger for 5 mins. I didn't know what to do because he was paying me so I just sat there til it was over. I guess he senced (sp) it was ackward and told me he was sorry and left. He came back last week and now he asks if its ok to call me names in private (says it just something that turns him on). I tryied it once again but I cant deal .

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    That's terrible. Many of the guys that go into free chat on cam sites are loser, beggars, poor losers and beggars, and assholes. lol. I had a guy come into my room and call me Ugly Betty. lol. I just ignored him and kicked him out of my room. I really don't think I look like Ugly Betty.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lizbflo View Post
    yes most are pigs! Your post made me laugh(thank u) do you cam?? I've seen a few girls on LJ who are a bit thicker than I am.. And they get a lot of guys saying how gorg and such they are.. Which was what motivated me to sign on.
    I'm planning on camming on imlive cause I want to do the non sexual stuff. I just need to fix the lighting for my pictures.. My apartment sucks when it comes to light.

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    you can't concern yourself with what they say to you in the chat room.
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    please don't even worry about assholes. i was once called a fat ass by some dude on the street. mind you, i'm 5'9" and 120 pounds. i now simply think that "fat" is the go-to insult for men of low intelligence because they know that most women worry about cellulite and stretch marks, etc. we all have body lines. you lost FIFTEEN fucking pounds and are working towards having the healthiest body possible. don't let some jackass get in your head. chances are, you wouldn't let that man lick your shoes unless he paid you, so shake that off and make your money!

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    This is so funny since I was actually making my way onto making a thread from a random person 10 minutes ago calling me a Bitch and a Hoe. I just banned him. I know I'm not a bitch or a hoe but jeeze, wtf man? I still believe even if you're anonymous over the internet talking nonsense for no reason, you STILL COULD GET KARMA BACK!
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