I don't think I will ever be okay with the ignorant fools that come into the club. I mean they don't know that they have offended me, but I often go home irritated.
Tonight, I was told that I need to stop with this school girl look and start looking like a woman. I don't wear the plaid skirts, or school uniforms, and I don't wear pigtails. I just look really young for my age. My mom is an Asian lady and is 45. She looks 27. I cannot help genetics. I am heavily made up too. People still remark how I look like a teenager and don't believe I am 24. Also, I wear glasses. So, I was told I look more like a straight A student than a dancer.
Sigh... First of all I am sick of the stereotype bullshit! What DOES a dancer look like?
I see a wide variety of women represented at my club and on this board. Second, does looking smart not equal sexy? I have had four nights already where I have made over a hundred. So, someone must think I am appealing despite all of this. As many men who claim to not like dancers who look "trashy", I would think my look would be appreciated. It's like they can't make up their minds.
I am also tired of men being surprised at how the conversation turns out to be intelligent. Like all we are are dumb skanks. I know this has been gone over before, but I need to vent. I am sick of some stupid douche telling me I look like I don't belong there because I look a) too nice b) too cute c) too young or d) too smart.
What is that saying about the rest of the dancers? I am not only offended for me, but offended for all of us.
Before I ever posted, I lurked on here for a while. This is before I became a dancer. I have seen some perfect displays of intellect on this board on an array of topics. So, I am disgusted. Almost too disgusted to care that I did well tonight. I apologize in advance if this is a never ending issue, but I needed to vent so badly. I don't have anyone who would understand.



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