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    So the past week and half for me has been EXTREMELY slow for me and I thought it was just me until my friend (she's also an escort) called and reassured me it was due to the holidays. I cross my fingers hoping she was right. Yesterday I check my business email, three men wanting to spend time wih me. I decide they didn't make a good enough impression for me to schedule an appointment with them and sent them an email saying their appointment request had been declined. I almost kicked myself for doing it.. I was thinking "Girl that's $900!!" lol I know where desperation leads in this business so I didn't sweat it much . This morning get an email from a guy asking If I would be interested in a weekly/monthly sugardaddy/sugarbabby type arrangment. I'm reading the email thinking "HELL YEAH" lol! Here's the email:

    Hi there,

    My name's xxxxx. Im from xxxxxx, and had a couple questions for you. Starting in January i am going to be traveling to your city quite abit each month for work, and was curious about the idea of setting up some type of exclusive arrangement with someone. I am looking for a type of sugar daddy situation so to say.
    When I am in town, it would be for 4-7 days at a time, and want someone just for me during those times.
    I want the whole GF type, and someone at my beck and call. Someone that is familiar with this type of arrangement, and understands how i want it to be. When i am not in town, I want to talk on the phone, play on the phone, text, and maybe web cam to when im wound up,
    I would like to work out either a weekly or monthly amount, and set it up that way. Also we can do some shopping when i am in town. So im deffinitly the spoiler when happy. I want the whole package.
    Is this something you would be interested in?

    ****To make a VERY long story short, He just booked the appointment!!!! A whopping 6k for the whole week (he got a pretty sweet deal). I'd have to see him for one hour each day while he's here (7 days) and let him take me shopping and out to dinner.. basically a gf/bf type relationship. When I'm not with him if he texts me I'll have to text back .. blazay bla bla lol! lol @ him wanting me at his "beck and call" When I first read the email I was like hey this dosen't sound right but then he confirmed and I'm getting my 3k deposit tommorrow morning. I thought ero guide was a piece of shit.. I've been advertising with them for a whole frikking month and NOT one client from them.. well this sure makes up for it lol! I'm such newbie still. I'm stoked! I'll definetely keep you all updated!
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    Damn! That's fucking awesome. Congrats.

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    ^ Thanks Raven He passed screening so I'm happy lol

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    Oh my gosh Malaya! That's so great! Good job girlie!

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    Well done girl!!!

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    Holy #@!~% that's a lot of money... jesus... congrats lady

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    Quote Originally Posted by jadelady View Post
    Holy #@!~% that's a lot of money... jesus... congrats lady
    Few weeks ago I did an overnight appointment for $3500(8pm-9am). I kinda sold myself short on this one. I agree it's alot of money for what he wants(I won't be with him the whole time) so it's a great deal and hell it's easy money so I'm taking it. Usually a weekly appointment with me would run 8-10k but dude got off really easily but again for what he wants I don't feel too bad for not charging an arm and a leg.

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    Woooo damn. That's a lot of mulah.. Congrats!!

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    Wowie girly, thats awesome!!! I dont blame ya for cuttin him a deal esp since its not ALL day, and plus it sounds like itll be something longterm!! Congrats, Im soo happy for u!!

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    Hmmmmm, me thinks I want to do this! Congrats!
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    Just picked up my 50% deposit
    Now let's pay some bills for next month!

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    Wowwwww.!!! Rock on, you are totally setting yourself up for the future. I hope it goes well and he's really nice and everything. <3



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    Nice work babe! It's weird I had 3 sugar daddy offers from randoms I met all in the same month. I thought it was the world trying to tell me something LOL. But I never went through with it because a) they all wanted sex and I'm not ready to escort (except one was hot so I wouldn't have had a problem with him LOL) b) I didn't like the bec and call idea. All of them mentioned it. I'm not good at jumping through hoops long term.

    I think this will be a very good start to 2010 for you! Congratulations.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Nice work babe! It's weird I had 3 sugar daddy offers from randoms I met all in the same month. I thought it was the world trying to tell me something LOL. But I never went through with it because a) they all wanted sex and I'm not ready to escort (except one was hot so I wouldn't have had a problem with him LOL) b) I didn't like the bec and call idea. All of them mentioned it. I'm not good at jumping through hoops long term.

    I think this will be a very good start to 2010 for you! Congratulations.
    Good and don't sleep with them... I have sugardaddies and I manage to separate them from my clients. I don't have sex with sugardaddies..because well ..what's the point? It's always worked for me that way.. and besides once you start having sex with them they'd get too comfortable. That's like an escort having sex for free... hahahaha @ sex for free. never again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    Good and don't sleep with them... I have sugardaddies and I manage to separate them from my clients. I don't have sex with sugardaddies..because well ..what's the point? It's always worked for me that way.. and besides once you start having sex with them they'd get too comfortable. That's like an escort having sex for free... hahahaha @ sex for free. never again.
    well for some people having a sugar daddy is like being an escort (in that you're getting paid to have sex) but for one man that you know and trust. that's kind of how i look at it. but don't worry, i never do anything for free

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurcon View Post
    well for some people having a sugar daddy is like being an escort (in that you're getting paid to have sex) but for one man that you know and trust. that's kind of how i look at it. but don't worry, i never do anything for free
    Totally not directed towards you laurcon, I've read your post and you're cleary a very intelligent woman however, Why is having a sugardaddy like being an escort? A sugardaddy is not supposed to fuck you. That's not what a sugardaddy is for. I had a friend that had a sugardaddy for 6 months never fucked him .. the minute she fucked him(after those 6 months) .. the calls stopped coming, the dinner dates stopped and all the $$$ stopped too. Any girl out there fucking her sugardaddy or should I say sugardaddies is a complete dumbass. If it's just one guy GREAT but you're an underpaid hooker. Become an escort and call it a day.. Yup I said it. I have had sugardaddies in the past I would let them take me to dinner, spoil me .. bla bla bla and they'd never see me again..why? because they eventually want sex ugh. I really hope all those sugardaddy sites are not just fronts for prostitution if so that's really gross. Women sell themselves short wayyy too much.

    This subject is really interesting to me. Women frown at prostitution but half of them are really underpaid prostitutes and don't know it. I may get a lot of heat for this but I don't care. I have a neighbor that begs me to hang out at out local country club ALL the time .. she's always like "There are soo many rich men there" Yet .. she has no car ..nothing. Ok what are you doing for the rich men? what do you have to show for all those nights at the country club? nothing. Simply Amazes me that's all. It's really very sad to watch.
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    I agree that no one should sell themselves short, but a lot of sugar babes do sleep with the daddies. Of course everyone is looking for one that they don't have to though. How are you an underpaid hooker if you do so? All of these 3 guys were offering a weekly cash allowance and not expecting to meet more than 2 times a week. One of these guys had a sugar babe before and he dumped her when he found out she was seeing someone else, but he was paying her $2k cash a week, plus gave her a BMW to drive and she lived in a fully furnished $700K apartment that that he provided for her. He only saw her once a week because he was married with a family. I wouldn't really consider that underpaid. The reason girls do it is for some money without being an escort. Some might be comfortable sleeping with that one guy, but not having several clients. As I said the sleeping with thing is not really for me. I'm married and although I have an open relationship, my husband is not comfortable with a SD because the threat of a relationship forming.

    I do agree sleeping with someone for a nice lifestyle and gifts is silly. It's also not really a Sugar Babe in my opinion. Just a gold digger LOL. I was always under the impression that Sugar Babes would demand a weekly cash allowance that is in line with the amount of time spent with the Daddy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    I agree that no one should sell themselves short, but a lot of sugar babes do sleep with the daddies. Of course everyone is looking for one that they don't have to though. How are you an underpaid hooker if you do so? All of these 3 guys were offering a weekly cash allowance and not expecting to meet more than 2 times a week. One of these guys had a sugar babe before and he dumped her when he found out she was seeing someone else, but he was paying her $2k cash a week, plus gave her a BMW to drive and she lived in a fully furnished $700K apartment that that he provided for her. He only saw her once a week because he was married with a family. I wouldn't really consider that underpaid. The reason girls do it is for some money without being an escort. Some might be comfortable sleeping with that one guy, but not having several clients. As I said the sleeping with thing is not really for me. I'm married and although I have an open relationship, my husband is not comfortable with a SD because the threat of a relationship forming.

    I do agree sleeping with someone for a nice lifestyle and gifts is silly. It's also not really a Sugar Babe in my opinion. Just a gold digger LOL. I was always under the impression that Sugar Babes would demand a weekly cash allowance that is in line with the amount of time spent with the Daddy.
    It's called bartering. It's prostitution plain and simple. The situation you described is not the everyday situation and we both know that. I bet most girls with sds DON'T have a bmw and a 700k apartment. Now 2k a week WITHOut the 700k and bmw.. that's way low. I wouldn't even look at him for that amount. I get paid way more for an overnight appointment ek. I'm just saying a sugardaddy is not supposed to fuck you regardless of what the situation is. I have never fucked any of my sugardaddies ever and I think it's the funniest things when girls fuck their sugardaddies like why? put an ad on eros or something and call it a night. That's just the way I look at it. Oh and yes I think it's underpaid prostitution in other words Selling yourself short while the situation you described is not the norm these days.

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    ^ well i don't want to get too in depth about my SD situation here, but i'm certainly not underpaid. and i make great money at work too, so the extra 4k a month from him is just a nice bonus. and ya i probably see him less than an hr each week. i really don't want to become a full-time escort and use that as my main source of income. perhaps my SD situation isn't really a SD situation at all is what i'm saying, but a personal hooker type of thing. like being an escort with only one client.


    it used to be more romantic in the beginning, like we didn't have sex the first month, but eventually his wife found out and we had to stop for awhile. so for the time being its pretty wham-bam, but that's totally fine with me now that i'm comfortable with him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    Few weeks ago I did an overnight appointment for $3500(8pm-9am). I kinda sold myself short on this one. I agree it's alot of money for what he wants(I won't be with him the whole time) so it's a great deal and hell it's easy money so I'm taking it. Usually a weekly appointment with me would run 8-10k but dude got off really easily but again for what he wants I don't feel too bad for not charging an arm and a leg.
    Aside from bein BEAUTIFUL....and smart, HOW do you get this much money for one night??? Thats crazy!! A long long loooong time ago before I quit dancing, I had one customer that I was lucky to get 500 out of him for a whole night, and it wasnt just time, it was so sickening. I thought I had it made though when I went home in the morning. YOU!!! Im ENVIOUS! LOL
    edited to say after reading some more posts... I guess I was an underpaid hooker with that one guy. UGH. stupid me.

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    Woah! $500 for a whole night? Hun you are selling yourself way short. You shouldnt be getting less than $500 an hour. You'd be surprised how much a guy will be willing to give you if you just ask for it. Closed mouths dont get fed

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xiomara View Post
    Aside from bein BEAUTIFUL....and smart, HOW do you get this much money for one night??? Thats crazy!! A long long loooong time ago before I quit dancing, I had one customer that I was lucky to get 500 out of him for a whole night, and it wasnt just time, it was so sickening. I thought I had it made though when I went home in the morning. YOU!!! Im ENVIOUS! LOL
    edited to say after reading some more posts... I guess I was an underpaid hooker with that one guy. UGH. stupid me.
    $500? I had a appointment with a guy from houston,tx two weeks ago he paid me $450 for one hour plus $80 tip (Said he loved the way I walked) That's umm over $500(He also wrote a kick ass review on me ) .. I would never spend a night with ANY man for $500. I'm just saying. I guess I think I'm ALL that ! Mind you most of my clients are white men. I just had my first black client yesterday and he was OOH SO FUCKING FINE and A dentist(I HAD AN AWESOME TIME btw)! His condo was like 10 times the size of my condo and my condo is huge .. whoa ok.. back to how I can command $3500 a night.. because I can and being beautiful and smart has lots to do with it.. Oh and a kick ass personality takes you A LONG way in this business just FYI.

    In other words with the right presentation, You can command the same price.

    Quote Originally Posted by sweetiepie View Post
    Woah! $500 for a whole night? Hun you are selling yourself way short. You shouldnt be getting less than $500 an hour. You'd be surprised how much a guy will be willing to give you if you just ask for it. Closed mouths dont get fed
    Well said. There are escorts that charge $10,000 a day and half of them are soo not cute. They ask and I guess they get it. However, I don't want to take a chance commanding such price. With the way business is going now, Maybe I will someday ya never know.
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    Yea girl, the economy is kinda scary right now. Though its great that some girls can request 10g's for a day and get it, I also think that number would scare off a lot of good quality custies. $3500 isnt bad, at all! lol. I remember when i used to make that in a night dancing...Ha! Those were the days!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sweetiepie View Post
    Yea girl, the economy is kinda scary right now. Though its great that some girls can request 10g's for a day and get it, I also think that number would scare off a lot of good quality custies. $3500 isnt bad, at all! lol. I remember when i used to make that in a night dancing...Ha! Those were the days!
    Ha! Just because they request it dosen't mean they get it Most of them just get laughed at though there are true HDHs (High dollar hotties). Yes they ARE missing out on damn good custies. I'm just enjoying it all girl.... this coming year's gonna be the awesome!

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    I think escorting is alot about presentation. I'm average looking, chunky and in desperate need of some Botox right now, but because I feel I am worth $500 an hour, I get $500 an hour. Plus 3 hour minimums.

    Men truly want what they can't have, what's exclusive.

    It's all marketing. Be confident and don't work for less than you feel you should.

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