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    A customer who didn't know my real name or where I live. Honestly, we didn't talk much. He was one of those dudes sitting there looking bored. So, I came up to him and did the following:

    "You look bored. I can fix that. Let's go." I grabbed his hand and lead him to the area and danced five songs for him.

    Anyways, he managed to find me on Facebook and asked me out to a movie some time.

    I don't intend to go to said movie. I just want to know if I should be afraid of someone stalking me via the net or some other customer going to such great lengths to find me. Is this typical? Or is this some weird rare thing?

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    Default Re: What should I do?

    I had a customer find me without knowing my real name or location on Model Mayhem. He is a "photographer" and asked if I would do a TF nude shoot with him.
    I deleted my account.
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    Yikes! I have a Model Mayhem account too. Maybe I should just mark my page as private for Facebook? Then again it still probably shows up in search results. I don't know. I think maybe I will just ignore this and it will go away lol?

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    Personally, I would be very friendly and try to find out what he did to find you so that you can fix anything possible so it doesn't happen in the future.
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    Default Re: What should I do?

    was ur real name and info on ur facebook? if so i would say next time u have any kind of account on a social site dont use ur real name. it can cause a lot of problems.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasmine22 View Post
    was ur real name and info on ur facebook? if so i would say next time u have any kind of account on a social site dont use ur real name. it can cause a lot of problems.
    My real name is on Facebook because I use it to keep in touch with people from highschool and family. I guess I have to go change it now

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    Default Re: What should I do?

    How did he find you on Facebook?

    My regulars or girls at my club have no idea about my web sites.

    I tell customers I have a web site and tell them if they are Internet savvy they can probably find it.

    Fuck no you can't follow me on Twitter!




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    I have no clue. Does Facebook have a search like myspace? You can like enter in a city within a certain radius. Then you just pick women between the ages of 18-25 or whatever. Because that maybe how. He didn't have my real name or my location. So, I don't see how else he could've done it.

    If he just disappears into oblivion and I just simply don't respond to the message he sent me...That would be great. I am just wondering if I should see this as a potentially dangerous thing. After all, he went through all the trouble to look me up. Should I see it as potential stalker? Perhaps he was just interested? Then, I shouldn't worry right?

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    ^^^ Yes to the potential stalker simply because he now has your real name. I am serious though - ASK how he found you and get it corrected.
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    Default Re: What should I do?

    You can set your facebook to completely private, no one can find you unless they know your friends. My personal facebook doesn't even have a pic of me in the profile, just random funny stuff.

    I agree with Kylea, be very friendly and find out how he found you. I had someone find me and all my personal info including home address from my cell phone number. I now keep all my info private online, and don't link to any other networking sites.

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