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    Default Strict 0 Contact Club: Tips?

    Hey ladies. I've searched through the database and I've only found a few threads that only partially had tips on dealing with absolutely 0 contact / airdance clubs. The club I'm going to be dancing at has a stage and a large floor area where the guests watch. To my knowledge there are no dances allowed downstairs. Upstairs you give min $20 air dances. This means a MAJORITY of my money will be from turning the dances as quickly as possible.

    While dancing for every guy possible doesn't seem hard, giving a good airdance and possibly more dances in a row to a single guy is my concern. I'm a pretty good conversationalist, but I'm really NOT into talking dirty. I don't do it with my husband and I don't feel comfortable trying to bullshit through a customer. ( I think I'd be bad at it ). Eye contact isn't really a problem, but my big question is how should I move?

    There's NO privacy and it's basically him against a wall and me standing a foot away from him. To my knowledge there's no pole or table. This seems really hindering, as I don't want to get on the ground, either.

    Does anyone have any experience and good tips that've worked for them in a STRICT NO CONTACT air dance club? Thanks, ladies!

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    Default Re: Strict 0 Contact Club: Tips?

    I posted an answer to this to you in another thread, but I will go over it again. Oh, and when do you actually start?

    Take a belly dancing class. I took them for awhile in San Francisco- I was living there and working in Atlanta, which the club i worked at was air dance- and it really helps with sensual moves and muscle control. Practice being expressive.

    Dirty talk, I hate it. Never done it, never will and I find it extremely tacky. Be up to date on world events, know a bit about sports ( or let him explain it to you ), music, movies, etc.. things guys will be interested in.

    Openers are important. I actually do not employ the cute or sexy approach, I try to say something to get them to smile. Such as:

    me: [ sits down, big smile ] "Hey there! How are you doing tonight?"
    Guy: [ usually reciprocates my smile ] "I'm good, how are you?"
    me: [ always using empthatic words ] "Fantastic, especially now that I have a buddy to keep me company. So, what brings you in to see the pretty ladies tonight?"

    Roll it from there.

    True story: I have been know to address men as Kemo Sabe. Guy asked me the other night why I called him that, and I said "Because I think it's funny and I knew it would make you laugh!" and he nodded and was like "Yeah, it did!" then bought me a drink. It's all about using your own personality.

    Don't think you have to be this fake-ass, artificial, dirty talking blow up doll. Just use your own personality and find your strengths and weaknesses.

    If you want to talk about it more, PM me and I'll Skype you or you can call me if you want. I'm retiring so I'm passing on the good words these days.

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    Default Re: Strict 0 Contact Club: Tips?

    Sorry about that! I may have questioned it on another thread, but didn't want to jack it, so I made my own.

    I hadn't though of belly dancing! That's definitely something that would be unique and very exotic. I would do tantric floor work, but I dont trust any floor but the stage ( even if that ).

    I am calling tomorrow about what a good time to come in and audition would be. I was going to wait a few more weeks, but my current job is taking me to the edge. I hate it, so I'm looking to start very soon.

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