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    Default my self worth has doubled since i began stripping.

    Today, my mom told me that stripping is going to lower my self worth.

    I didn't tell her this, but I thought to myself, "how many guys have I fucked for free? These idiots at the club aren't even gettin a whiff of the pussy and I come home with more in my pocket than I left with. If anything, my self worth has quadrupled. I refuse to fuck another man for free. Even if it is my man. Pussy juice is too precious."

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    Default Re: my self worth has doubled since i began stripping.

    i agree with the topic title. i think im also less polite with people who would fuck around with me before and i stand up or myself more. i hope everyone has a positive experience in this area

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    Well, self worth is great and plenty of people have it without having to become a stripper to get it. This job can be hard, and if your self worth relies on the money and approval from this job, you might have problems someday. This job IS hard on you.

    Pussy juice is precious? Are you serious? Did you really just write that? Not that I disagree, but oh my god.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    Pussy juice is precious? Are you serious? Did you really just write that? Not that I disagree, but oh my god.

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    I think it's great that you're confident but Im sorry, Im having a problem with the way you got there and how you now feel about sex. That indicates a problem, at least imo.
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    Default Re: my self worth has doubled since i began stripping.

    ?????
    Striping is not getting paid for sex. That is another job.......
    ?????

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    Default Re: my self worth has doubled since i began stripping.

    Quote Originally Posted by raevanaa View Post
    Today, my mom told me that stripping is going to lower my self worth.

    I didn't tell her this, but I thought to myself, "how many guys have I fucked for free? These idiots at the club aren't even gettin a whiff of the pussy and I come home with more in my pocket than I left with. If anything, my self worth has quadrupled. I refuse to fuck another man for free. Even if it is my man. Pussy juice is too precious."
    That's good that you are feeling more powerful now that you are being paid to dance. But did I read this correctly? Your man isn't going to get sex for free? How much are you charging him?

    Seriously though. Dancing can mess with your self worth. Sure during the good times its all rainbows and the pot of gold at the end, but in the bad times, it can really mess with your head. Especially if you have a few bad weeks in a row. You start to become desperate and consider things you would have never thought of before. I hope you don't have to experience those times, but anyone who dances long enough will unfortunately.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    I think it's great that you're confident but Im sorry, Im having a problem with the way you got there and how you now feel about sex. That indicates a problem, at least imo.
    I agree jayatee; whole heartedly. I also commend you for being alot nicer than I would have been. I don't have much patience for that kind of attitude, especially in a newbie. Then again I might be jaded after dancing more than 10 years, lol.

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    Default Re: my self worth has doubled since i began stripping.

    I guess the extreme reaction is somewhat understandable.

    Cynical thought process:

    I can get paid for stripping-->why give away sexual things for free?-->why should my boyfriend get anything for free if he's like my customers?

    Shrugs. That's all I got, kids.

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    Well, I mean, has it ever occurred to the OP to only have sex with nice men? Not abusive or shitty men? I don't know how you went from fucking losers for free to charging your boyfriend.

    This is like the first of about 3 conversations where you become a hooker. Like, the first is, "My self worth has been raised because I'm a stripper, I'm not going to fuck assholes for free anymore" and the second is "I have a sugar daddy, like a boyfriend who pays me" and the last is "Sugar daddies are a pain in the ass, I'm just going to be a hooker."

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    Well, I mean, has it ever occurred to the OP to only have sex with nice men? Not abusive or shitty men? I don't know how you went from fucking losers for free to charging your boyfriend.

    This is like the first of about 3 conversations where you become a hooker. Like, the first is, "My self worth has been raised because I'm a stripper, I'm not going to fuck assholes for free anymore" and the second is "I have a sugar daddy, like a boyfriend who pays me" and the last is "Sugar daddies are a pain in the ass, I'm just going to be a hooker."
    Agree

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    Default Re: my self worth has doubled since i began stripping.

    Very nice.

    A long time ago a girl friend said she was thinking about just being an escort.

    Her logic was "Sometimes I have sex and I get nothing."

    I actually would try to stop someone who wanted to be an escort unless they were a high priced one that made more than a stripper.

    But if that is what a person wants to do, why not?




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    Default Re: my self worth has doubled since i began stripping.

    I don't even get this thread, well mostly the OP's post. whaaat??? What does fucking have to do with stripping? And why on earth would you charge your man for the pussy?? lol, weird!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    Well, self worth is great and plenty of people have it without having to become a stripper to get it. This job can be hard, and if your self worth relies on the money and approval from this job, you might have problems someday. This job IS hard on you.

    Pussy juice is precious? Are you serious? Did you really just write that? Not that I disagree, but oh my god.
    Yeah, I'm agreeing here. Please remove your vagina from the pedestal.

    And never fuck another man for free? So, you're not ever going to sleep with a boyfriend or a husband unless he buys you shit or something?

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    Default Re: my self worth has doubled since i began stripping.

    I don't fuck my man for free either. I expect things in return; like that he'll be faithful, be kind and be there when I need him. Mind you, I expect these things in return for my love as well as my sex, but I THINK I see where you're going with the Original Post.

    Congrats on your increase of self-worth - it's really great that this job is bringing you up opposed to taking you down! XOXO!



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    Default Re: my self worth has doubled since i began stripping.

    ^ A good way of looking at it.

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    Default Re: my self worth has doubled since i began stripping.

    that's great that you are feeling so good about yourself. that said, don't let stripping become the be all end all of how you determine your worth. If you do, you'll be very unhappy in the end because all it will take is a few bad days/weeks/etc before you decide you are worthless.

    Oh, and keep what goes on in the club separate from your relationships. Do not treat your bfs, etc. as customers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by daniella_maria View Post
    I agree jayatee; whole heartedly. I also commend you for being alot nicer than I would have been. I don't have much patience for that kind of attitude, especially in a newbie. Then again I might be jaded after dancing more than 10 years, lol.
    I was kinda trying to be nice bc she's a noob. She doesn't know the job yet...
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    Default Re: my self worth has doubled since i began stripping.

    What bothers me... is the fact that she's relating sex and stripping.
    Those are two completely different things... Especially if you're getting into "not fucking another man for free".
    The fact that someone who has just started dancing would connect those two things and find them to be comparable... is troubling to me.
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    Default Re: my self worth has doubled since i began stripping.

    Stripping is sexual in nature... I may not agree with OP but I see the connection they are drawing. *shrug*

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    Default Re: my self worth has doubled since i began stripping.

    OMG this really creeps me out. Great you are confident and you have self worth but why in the world would you ever feel that your 'pussy huice' is so 'precious' that you have to charge everyone to see, smell or touch it? If you are in love with someone...then making love just comes naturally. Your statement really does make is sound like you want to be a prostitute and not a stripper. Which are definitely not the same at all. But saying it as you did, is very, scary. There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. And you seem to be teetering that line with that statement.

    If you wanna be a prostitute then more power to you I have no issue with that, just how stripping has changed how you view your worth. Your worth isn't in money you can make from your body. Worth is in the enrichment you get and give in life.





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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    What bothers me... is the fact that she's relating sex and stripping.
    Those are two completely different things... Especially if you're getting into "not fucking another man for free".
    The fact that someone who has just started dancing would connect those two things and find them to be comparable... is troubling to me.
    I guess I don't see too huge of a leap between the sex industry and sexual relationships. I mean, I think the vast majority of strippers find that this business affects their sex lives (whether in a negative or positive way).

    She's just drawing this parallel. She gets paid for stripping, so why wouldn't she want to get compensated in other realms of her sexual expression?

    I'm not saying I agree: I'm just saying I understand the connection.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I guess I don't see too huge of a leap between the sex industry and sexual relationships. I mean, I think the vast majority of strippers find that this business affects their sex lives (whether in a negative or positive way).

    She's just drawing this parallel. She gets paid for stripping, so why wouldn't she want to get compensated in other realms of her sexual expression?

    I'm not saying I agree: I'm just saying I understand the connection.
    I guess it makes sense if you put it that way...
    But it's not any kind of connection I've ever made myself. Stripping is stripping. Other forms of sexual expression are exactly that. They're not connected. They aren't related. They have no direct impact on each other for me.
    I guess I'm the odd man out on this one. Nm.
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    Default Re: my self worth has doubled since i began stripping.

    ^ Yeah, that's definitely a positive thing. I'm (genuinely) happy for you that you can do that. I believe you're in the minority.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    I guess it makes sense if you put it that way...
    But it's not any kind of connection I've ever made myself. Stripping is stripping. Other forms of sexual expression are exactly that. They're not connected. They aren't related. They have no direct impact on each other for me.
    I guess I'm the odd man out on this one. Nm.
    Absolutely agree, aside from the fact that stripping made my appreciation for my personal lovers go through the roof. I was like WOW DECENT GUYS THAT I LIKE!

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