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    Default Solosexuals

    I've never heard of this newly named sexuality. It's a person who prefers masturbation over other sexual activity.

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    Omg. This is so me. Whenever I miss sex, I think about all the drama it comes w/it: telling him to leave, me leaving and feeling empty b/c it was meaningless, it was bad, the "what happens next thought", etc. After thinking/feeling this way, I enjoy self -love even more! It's the ultimate no strings attached relationship! and the safest!
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    Id never heard of it before, but Im not suprised.
    It would be good for some people to have the relationship minus sex.
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    you just keep on trying till you run out of cake

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    I've gone thru periods where i preferred to masturbate but that was more a reflection on the relationships. Sometimes it's nice just to please yourself. I def prefer good sex tho esp oral
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    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    I used to be a solosexual, but my current BF has converted me

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    Default Re: Solosexuals

    I've said it before, but to me masturbation is like eating chips on a road trip because there is no other suitable food around. I can't imagine being like that.

    To me that would be like the apocalypse. Then again, I sort of approach sex like a guy so I never feel bad about it.

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    Default Re: Solosexuals

    Why does SEX have to be meaningful? Why can't it be just sex?

    I get why one doesn't want to be with a sociopath or a narcissist or someone who just turns you off. But there are a lot of 'single' people who would be good, respectful sex partners if others expecting more than just plain safe fun sex wouldn't have been so durned serious about some long term ulterior motive -- to the point that they torpedoed an otherwise satisfying sexual relationship and poisoned future expectations.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    ^^
    I really don't think that has anything to do with it. My take on it is that these people have worked out exactly how to please themselves and would prefer to do this because
    (a) they can please themselves better than another person can please them
    (b) they don't have to worry about pleasing the other person - it's all about them

    I was in a relationship a few years ago where the sex got so bad that I didn't want it and I used to wait until he went to sleep and then quietly masturbate. It was far more pleasing than his early ejaculation and then failure to get hard again afterwards (in order for me to have satisfying sex). I loved him but it got to the point where I needed to cum and it wasn't gonna happen unless I did it myself.
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    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    It also a guys who's been married for 20 years!!! HA.
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    Default Re: Solosexuals

    They have a name for everything. Then they have to make up another one to get people talking about it again. And ~ten years from now yet another name for it will be conjured up.

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    I really don't think that has anything to do with it...because
    (a) they can please themselves better than another person can please them
    (b) they don't have to worry about pleasing the other person - it's all about them.
    I see what you are saying and have experienced somewhat the same thing.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Omg. This is so me. Whenever I miss sex, I think about all the drama it comes w/it: telling him to leave, me leaving and feeling empty b/c it was meaningless, it was bad, the "what happens next thought", etc. After thinking/feeling this way, I enjoy self -love even more! It's the ultimate no strings attached relationship! and the safest!
    unless you're a hand model.

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    I have gone through periods of time when I preferred staying at home and tasking care of my own business, to going out and pretending to be an SuperAlphaMan seed spreader and insulting women's calves in order to get laid. Fortunately I moved away from Daytona Beach, though.

    It had nothing to do with the ability of the women to please me, or vica versa. It was more the lack of desire to play demeaning, pathetic games to get the sex.
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    Default Re: Solosexuals

    I'm a solosexual right now, bc no one right now is making me want to open my legs.

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    It sort of sucks being picky, doesn't it? That's totally the way I am too. But I've never been very inclined to lower my standards or play stupid fucking games.
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