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    Although I feel like long hair is very visually sexy, sometimes I just want to put it up and away in tight little bun on top of my head when actually having sex. My last two boyfriends seemed completely ignorant when it comes to dealing with hair, constantly rolling on top of it, accidently yanking it or thinking it's fun to grab the baby fine hair at the front of my head & pull it, etc. I think I lost about 5% of my hair during the latest incident, what with hair getting caught in my jewelry, tangled in his hands, rolled around on, etc. I mean, it just made sex so uncomfortable. Why do some guys have such a hard time treating the hair with respect? Do I need to lay down some explicit guidelines for how to treat my hair during sex? Does anyone else feel my frustration?

    To clarify, it's not like they're crazy about the hair and are playing with it too much (mine's just below shoulder-length now). It's more like they're just negligent (as in "owww that's my hair you're kneeling on").

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    haha I dont think I have much respect for my own hair in sex (its just below my shoulders aswel but I wear alot of extensions) I dont really pay attention to it and I quite like it getting pulled sometimes the only time I notice is when having sex on the side so I gather it all up an put it over my shoulder that Im not lying on so its out the way sort of. By the end of sex though my hair always looks like a huge nest on my head so maybe I should start taking more care but probably wont lol

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    I don't mind my hair being pulled if they kind of wrap the whole thing into a big rope and pull on it that way. Kind of using your hair as a control mechanism or for sensual purposes.

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    I have really long hair, like over 36 inches long, I can sit on my hair if I'm not careful. So, during sex I find it easiest to put it in a pony tail. If the guy is totally clueless about long hair I would suggest a pony tail with your hair braided. Gives access for a nice hair pull while still keeping it out of the way and secure.

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    If you have had guys who thinks it's fun to grab your hair and yank on it (when you don't want it) then I have a solution for you: Find better guys who respect you!

    Moving on:

    I found long hair can be cumbersome, but as long as the guy is made aware of it, it's usually fine. I know when I first started sleeping with my boyfriend, he had never slept with a girl who had LONG hair before, so it just didn't occur to him that he had to be careful.

    I just told him that my hair travels dammit, and he needs to be careful. Now it's no problem, we still have fun crazy sex, without the "Ow".

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    Have you tried to just braid it back? That always worked for me.
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    Yeah, I almost always have to have my hair pulled back during sex. My hair is down to my mid-lower back, and if it's loose during sex it's SUCH a pain in the ass.

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    I'm a natural strawberry blonde and my hair is down to my bottom. It's the one thing that has always been an attraction to men and I've never seemed to have a problem with it in bed. I mean...getting it accidentally pulled is a hazard I've come to accept over the years - but my husband is pretty considerate anyway.
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    When I had long (real) hair... I ALWAYS put it up during sex...
    It used to get stuck in sweat and fluid and it just felt NASTY!
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    My hair is down to my waist and some dudes haven't been careful with it, but for the most part they are gentle and aware Maybe has something to do with the type I usually roll around with.. hehe.. hippies.

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    I don't really have a problem with that. The only problem I have with my long hair is when it brushes against my man's face, then he pushes away or brushes it aside and keeps complaining that my hair is making him break out. ._.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jadelady View Post
    My hair is down to my waist and some dudes haven't been careful with it, but for the most part they are gentle and aware Maybe has something to do with the type I usually roll around with.. hehe.. hippies.
    I had sex with a good friend of mine last month whose hair is down to his shoulders, and mine is down to like, the bottom of my boob. We were constantly coughing it up, stopping to drag a hair out of our mouths, it was pretty crazy. But neither of us experienced any discomfort because we were both pretty aware.

    He has the best hair ever. Wavy and caramel blond, baby soft. Yum.

    My SO is currently sporting a mohawk. I'd love to convince him to grow it all out again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    I had sex with a good friend of mine last month whose hair is down to his shoulders, and mine is down to like, the bottom of my boob. We were constantly coughing it up, stopping to drag a hair out of our mouths, it was pretty crazy. But neither of us experienced any discomfort because we were both pretty aware.

    He has the best hair ever. Wavy and caramel blond, baby soft. Yum.

    My SO is currently sporting a mohawk. I'd love to convince him to grow it all out again.
    That sounds so nice and hawt

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    Quote Originally Posted by jadelady View Post
    That sounds so nice and hawt
    I'm scouring for a photo to show you. And my friend has the prettiest name ever. Not that I ever want kids, but if I did, I'd use his name.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hello-kitty View Post
    wats his name? lol .. .out of curiousity..
    Gabriel, and he doesn't use a nickname. I love it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    I had sex with a good friend of mine last month whose hair is down to his shoulders, and mine is down to like, the bottom of my boob. We were constantly coughing it up, stopping to drag a hair out of our mouths, it was pretty crazy. But neither of us experienced any discomfort because we were both pretty aware.

    He has the best hair ever. Wavy and caramel blond, baby soft. Yum.

    My SO is currently sporting a mohawk. I'd love to convince him to grow it all out again.
    There was a guy I was with when I was a teenager who had hair down to his waist. It was fabulous. All silky smooth and I loved how it felt when it fell over my skin. Probably one of the biggest turn ons ever.
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    ^^ I have a serious long hair fetish. I bet that was incredible. Maybe I can convince J to grow his hair out.

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    I'm amazed and relieved reading this....in the UK, guys with long hair are often considered 'sissy' or gay. Personally I love it. My husband has long hair and like 'mediocrity' and 'JayATee' I find it incredibly erotic in bed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    I'm scouring for a photo to show you. And my friend has the prettiest name ever. Not that I ever want kids, but if I did, I'd use his name.
    Would love to see

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    ^^ I have a serious long hair fetish. I bet that was incredible. Maybe I can convince J to grow his hair out.
    Omg it's like, he already had every nerve in my body on fire and then he let his silky hair fall all over me like it was liquid satin... Wow I need to stop.
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    I have incredibly long hair down to my bum. (Getting a new hair cut and style soon hopefully ^_^) But I have had some problems with it yes but my husband, no. He treats my hair well and the only tmie he accidentally pulls it or anything we are about to fall asleep. Rarely ever when we are having sex does that happen. I like to have my hair pulled so its no biggie for me. It comes with the territory though, IMO.





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