Although I feel like long hair is very visually sexy, sometimes I just want to put it up and away in tight little bun on top of my head when actually having sex. My last two boyfriends seemed completely ignorant when it comes to dealing with hair, constantly rolling on top of it, accidently yanking it or thinking it's fun to grab the baby fine hair at the front of my head & pull it, etc. I think I lost about 5% of my hair during the latest incident, what with hair getting caught in my jewelry, tangled in his hands, rolled around on, etc. I mean, it just made sex so uncomfortable. Why do some guys have such a hard time treating the hair with respect? Do I need to lay down some explicit guidelines for how to treat my hair during sex? Does anyone else feel my frustration?
To clarify, it's not like they're crazy about the hair and are playing with it too much (mine's just below shoulder-length now). It's more like they're just negligent (as in "owww that's my hair you're kneeling on").



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Maybe has something to do with the type I usually roll around with.. hehe.. hippies.

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