Ok so I seem to be comming across the same problem no matter where I work in my area. I will go up to a guy weather on stage or just circulating around the room and after a little bit of chatting (or sometimes right away) I will get one of these lovely little comments that I have no idea how to respond to:
"Wow your too pretty to be here what are you doing here"/ "you shouldn't be here you should be a model"
-My usual answer "Um...working???" (duh) / "Thanks do you know any way to get into that?" "what do you want to see ugly strippers?" Sometimes I say that too but they usually say "well no but you belong in a magazine or something" UGH
OR my FAVORITE:
"Your really hot. You must KNOW your the hottest girl here. You know how hot you are I can tell you know it. You think your the hottest girl out there don't you"
-My response:"Well I know Im not ugly but I'm really not concieted like that" ...this just gets them arguing with me...
They love this one when I'm on stage because I really make an effort to make my stage set a "show".
I really am not concieted at all and like I tell them I know Im not ugly, but they make me feel like I am stuck up or something and I'm not! I've honestly had self esteem issues and body issues my whole life from being in ballet and gymnastics. I also hear them talking behind my back saying I'm stuck up which kills my hustle, then I don't talk to anyone because I am intimidated that they have been just talking about me! HELP! I know this must happen to other girls, how do you respond to it! It doesn't happen every night but, quite often enough to where it bothers me!




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