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    Default I think a he tried to blackmail me...

    So this happened to me last night and really made me feel uncomfortable, was just wondering if anyone else has had something similar happen to them;

    Last night we got this group of cops in as customers, it was a birthday party for one of them and a few of them were friends with the manager, I was aware of all this within 2 minutes of talking to them and generally have a good experience with cops as customers so wasn't at all put off.

    After much effort put in I finally get paid to do a dance for the birthday boy who had been trying to get me to give him my facebook details and other shit earlier. Anyway, did the dance and he kept trying to ask me out, to which I kept saying no. Then at one point this conversation happened:

    "The thing is I'm really good friends with the manager"
    "Yeah, I know"
    "And I'm also a cop"
    "yeah, I know"
    "and I try and help them out here when I can"
    "um... okay..."
    "but things get a little tricky when it comes to prostitution"
    "well, it's a good thing there are no prostitutes here then isn't it?" then I walked off.

    I'm not really worried, I think he was just really drunk and didn't really think about what he was saying and I told the manager when we closed and he said the same thing, that he's usually a really decent guy but can be a bit of a wanker when he gets drunk.

    Still it had me a little shaken for a while thinking he was going to try and get me done for prostitution (which neither I nor any of the other girls at the club do) unless I went on a date with him.

    Anyone else had something like this happen to them?

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    Default Re: I think a he tried to blackmail me...

    Dont worry too much. Esp if the manager who knows him said the same.

    I had a cop once...came in, did a champagne room...told me he'd pull me over on the way home if I didnt fuck him. I basically told him to go fuck HIMSELF and I;d have his badge by morning if he did since our security cameras picked up the whole transaction (no sound..but he didnt know that)

    He came back in the next night and managed to slip something in my drink. Tried to get me out by calling COP but my friends knew what happened and told him to piss off. He was banned from the club after that.

    I have a friend now who knew him. Said none of the other cops liked him and he's since been fired and run out of town by them. Karma is awesome sometimes!

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    Default Re: I think a he tried to blackmail me...

    Not by a cop, but by my manager. He fed my (underaged) friend drinks, then pulled her into the office and said if she didn't give him nude, private dances he'd turn her in for underage drinking or fire her. She refused and was fired. I told all my friends to watch out for him, then he came after me a week ago.

    I was sitting with a customer, on the floor, ACROSS from him, actually. He paid me $80 to sit and talk with him. When he gave me the money, I leaned over and gave him a kiss on the cheek. My manager came over and pulled me off the table and into the office.

    Me: What's the problem?
    Manager: You were all over him!
    Me: ....What?
    Manager: I saw you, making out with that customer.
    Me: I absolutely did not. I kissed him on the cheek because he gave me $80.
    Manager: Yes, you did. I know what I saw.
    Me: I'm not drunk, I am not stupid, and I'm a medical student. I'm not going to run around here making out with people I don't know.
    Manager: I know what I saw. You're suspended for a week.
    Me: (WTF'ing all over the place).

    Asshole.

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    Default Re: I think a he tried to blackmail me...

    One more reason to avoid police contact wherever possible.

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    Default Re: I think a he tried to blackmail me...

    Right now you are in a situation of what's done is done. Chances are nothing will come of this.

    I've danced for plenty of cops and the biggest thing is to know the laws. Sometimes the clubs won't even tell you all the laws or let things slide, so you need to research them yourself so that you don't run into problems.

    The second piece of advice I can give you is that working at a club with running video cameras can be your best friend if you are a clean dancer.

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    Default Re: I think a he tried to blackmail me...

    Quote Originally Posted by CKXXX
    I had a cop once...came in, did a champagne room...told me he'd pull me over on the way home if I didnt fuck him. I basically told him to go fuck HIMSELF and I;d have his badge by morning if he did since our security cameras picked up the whole transaction (no sound..but he didnt know that)

    He came back in the next night and managed to slip something in my drink. Tried to get me out by calling COP but my friends knew what happened and told him to piss off. He was banned from the club after that.

    I have a friend now who knew him. Said none of the other cops liked him and he's since been fired and run out of town by them. Karma is awesome sometimes!
    Wow, that sounds horrible! Glad I didn't have to go through anything that bad. Good to hear he got what he deserved in the end - well, sounds like he deserved a lot worse but fired and run out of town is a good start.

    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity
    Not by a cop, but by my manager. He fed my (underaged) friend drinks, then pulled her into the office and said if she didn't give him nude, private dances he'd turn her in for underage drinking or fire her. She refused and was fired. I told all my friends to watch out for him, then he came after me a week ago.
    I hate hearing stories like this, I've heard about things like this happen way too often, it's really disheartening to know there are still so many clubs out there with corrupt management who just do the job to take advantage of the girls.

    Hope he leaves you alone when you go back and gets his dose of karma as well! Perhaps in the form of leprosy or maybe castration with a rusty knife...

    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2
    The second piece of advice I can give you is that working at a club with running video cameras can be your best friend if you are a clean dancer.
    Yeah, I'm quite lucky with the club I work at, the owners/management are really nice, they're a couple and the woman used to be a dancer so they look after us well. There's cameras and also a bouncer watching the dances at all times to make sure nothing dodgey goes on.

    They also know I never go home with customers because 90% of the time I work I get a lift home with someone else who works there (I think everyone in the club lives down the road from me, lol).

    As I said I'm not really worried, I think he was probably too drunk to even remember what he said. It just really made me think how I would handle it if the threat was a bit more serious.

    Thanks for all your feedback!

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    Default Re: I think a he tried to blackmail me...

    This is why I hate cops and think they are scum.

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    Default Re: I think a he tried to blackmail me...

    I wouldn't worry about it but maybe bring it up with the manager if it bothers you.

    You don't have to be an actual prostitute to get a ticket or be arrested. You just have to say the wrong thing.

    If the cop takes it the wrong way then you have to fight it in court.




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    Default Re: I think a he tried to blackmail me...

    Not at a club, but something like this happened at a bachelor party. After that, I refused to ever dance at a bachelor party with cops. They are the nastiest and pull many things like this all the time. Sorry this happened to you.

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    Default Re: I think a he tried to blackmail me...

    they know power games and they can really fuck with you. best avoided, not worth it imo

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    Default Re: I think a he tried to blackmail me...

    I wouldn't worry about it but maybe bring it up with the manager if it bothers you.

    You don't have to be an actual prostitute to get a ticket or be arrested. You just have to say the wrong thing.

    If the cop takes it the wrong way then you have to fight it in court.
    Yeah, I brought it up with one of the owners, they trust me and know I'd never do anything like that, the worst I ever even SAY is if a custie is being really stingy asking for a date/phone number/sex/etc and it's a really slow night "I'd never (insert request here) with a guy who wasn't generous, how about we at least go for a dance first, get to know each other" and of course never actually give them anything other than a dance.

    Normally I have no problem with cops, I'm generally a good law-abiding citizen, I make sure never to say/do anything around them that could even be misconstrued as breaking the law (I'm always totally paranoid about getting caught for doing something wrong, even when I haven't done anything).

    Well, I've worked 2 shifts since it happened and nothings been said so

    Thanks again everyone for your support!

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    I always stay well away from the cops whenever they come in the club. I've had a bad experience with dancing for one in the past, and I'm never going to put myself in that position ever again.

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    Ew, goddamn cops.

    Once I had a lapdance customer begging me for a BJ throughout all these dances and I kept refusing. When I was done he pulled out his badge, and showed me that he was a cop, and commended me for not giving in. WTF was that if not some bullshit power trip?

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    I"m REALLY scared of this happening to me- how do you find out the laws of your state when it comes to what's allowed touching wise and what's not? The club I auditioned at certainly didn't tell me, and the girls were very touchy feely with their lapdances..what and how do you know they're cops, and how do you refuse to dance for them?

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    Default Re: I think a he tried to blackmail me...

    if i know customers are cops, they get air dances. that is all. i dont like the police, and they dont deserve any physical contact from my hot, naked body when i know they spend some of their time making girls who give contact dances lives a living hell.

    and he could get in a lot more trouble for blackmailing you than you could for a contact dance. although there is the obstacle that nobody likes to listen to us dirty strippers, of course.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: I think a he tried to blackmail me...

    I"m REALLY scared of this happening to me- how do you find out the laws of your state when it comes to what's allowed touching wise and what's not? The club I auditioned at certainly didn't tell me, and the girls were very touchy feely with their lapdances..what and how do you know they're cops, and how do you refuse to dance for them?
    I've never really looked into exactly what is legal in regards to contact in SCs, I always just watch the other girls if I'm new at a club and of course never do things that could be considered as extras.

    I've heard it is quite hard to find exact laws on what is legal I've always just thought as long as it's not anything that could be defined as prostitution... I'd assume if the local law prohibited contact dancing then the clubs would have to enforce it, if a club was willing to break the laws there to make more money then they'd probably be turning a blind eye to drugs and prostitution as well and be paying off the cops not to come in get them done. Yet another reason why I avoid extras and dodgy clubs.

    Can't really see there being specific laws as to contact dances, the idea of a legal document saying something like "A dancer may not grind on a customers lap for more than 3 seconds and her legs must be no more than 45 degrees apart at any time once the panties have been removed" seems very unlikely to me, though kinda amusing

    I think Athena's advice of if you know they're a cop then only give them an air dance seems like good reasoning to me.

    Also I only just noticed that the title of this thread has an unintended "a" in it... sorry grammar people!

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