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    Ugh. So here's the situation... I'm currently living in a state that I hate. Colorado. yuck. I'm moving at the end of February, so I have about 6-7 weeks to make money here and leave. I have nothing else going for me here, can't get a normal job (no one is hiring, it's BAD) and I really dislike the clubs here.

    I started doing webcam 2 days ago and have made 100 bucks in 4 or 5 hours, but it's really tedious and I don't really enjoy it. Sitting on my ass all day and being stuck in my room kind of sucks.

    The other option is just sucking up and going to Denver to dance at Penthouse or Diamond... both of which I'm not really into... I can't stand clubs that try to hard to be "classy" and charge high fees ($60-80 bucks for a nightshift). I've danced for three years, I'm good at it, but I hate it. I only like it when I'm making lots of money, and since i started dancing back when the economy was good, my definition of good money is anything over $300/shift.... not busting my ass for 8 hours to make 200 bucks and then having to tip out a ton and go home with $120.

    I also have a sugar daddy who pays me 2K a month to make him 4 short pornos a month. But I'm really over him too.

    I'm just over EVERYTHING sex-related. I really need a vacation to a hot tropical island, but I'm stuck in this disgusting frozen arctic hell.

    ugh. What should I do??? I'm stuck here for almost another 2 months and need to make BANK so I can move! I'd like to have 5K saved up by March 1st, so I have to come up with 3K dancing or webcam or both.

    ugh. what should I do? How do you get over being sick of the sex industry when you're seriously burned out and you can't take a vacation? I've been on a semi-break for awhile because my sugar daddy has been floating me so i haven't had to physically go into a club or go on webcam.. but it's still sex work so it's not a break!!! UGH!!

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    Default Re: Confused about going back to dancing or not...

    Well, I think it depends on if you are intending on finishing up on the sex industry for good, or just want a break. If you are done then I'd say suck it up and dance or cam or whatever for a good 2 months and then BE DONE! Make as much money as possible and get out of there! If not, do whatever you want to make money, take a good break and be ready to get back to it! Whatever makes you happy! Good luck!

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    Default Re: Confused about going back to dancing or not...

    Call Nakita Kash about Traveling Entertainers.

    Personally, I totally understand what you are saying about the Colorado clubs... that's why I travel most of the time now. Plus, I have my own opinions on this but Colorado has become a "hot spot" for certain activities in the nightlife scene that make dancing here especially hard and has effected the money.
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    ^yea- I preferred san francisco to dancing in denver... and that's saying a lot because SF is known as being dirty and scary and controlled by the DejaVu mafia. blah. I'm moving there though and will dance at Gold Club- I've already been there and I liked it, managers were way nicer than hustler or any of those clubs up by the green tortoise.

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    I totally understand. I just couldn't handle the cockroaches. I think I went almost a month without sleeping before I could finally move back to CO. I still love it out there and can visit... I just can't be there on a day to day basis. The clubs are a lot easier going than CO clubs though for sure!
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    Default Re: Confused about going back to dancing or not...

    You make porn for 2K a month? I make that part time for normal work!

    Got to L.A. and do porn for $750 a day.

    Or get another sugar daddy and then find a second to replace the first one.

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    I'm going back to CO at the end of the month... and I can't WAIT to dance out there for the weekend.
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    Honestly... if those are your only options and you don't want to do any of them... either why not go with the one where you make the most money... so you get the most down time and don't have to do something you hate as much?
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